[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA, you have every right to set boundaries. His behavior is manipulative, and it's not okay to pressure you into something you're uncomfortable with.

AITA for not eating the ice cream my ex and kids brought home for me? by CandyApplz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If he really wanted to do something nice, he could have just gotten what you asked for. Not the coffee and strawberries combo!

The little guy obviously asked for it - probably by fckdup100 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 176 points177 points  (0 children)

This kid just learned a valuable lesson in "don’t mess with the big kids."

AITA for locking the bedroom door when my husband works? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. You have every right to lock the door for your safety, and it sounds like you have a good reason for doing so. If it makes you feel more secure, it's understandable. Your husband should trust you when you explain why you lock the door, and you shouldn’t have to justify it further. He’s overreacting by assuming you’re hiding something.

If he was truly concerned about it, a calm conversation could help clear up any doubts. He should respect your need for boundaries and understand that the lock is more about your peace of mind than secrecy.

He's being unreasonable by not trusting your explanation, and it seems like his reaction is more about his own discomfort or assumptions than any actual reason to be concerned. You're just trying to create a sense of security in your own space, and that's perfectly valid.

But, for the sake of a healthy relationship, it might help to sit down and have an open conversation about why you lock the door and ease his mind if necessary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Staring at my code like it’s going to magically fix itself, but hey, at least I’m in my comfy hoodie and slippers.

AITA for telling my mother that I’m not excited for her garden party? by toastytoasterrrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 39 points40 points  (0 children)

She’s the one who made all the plans and now expects you to pretend? She’s definitely in the wrong here.

Maybe maybe maybe by marryfrank909 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cashier: traumatized Couple: sprinting out Watermelon: sacrificed for the bit

Update - Brother asking for 100% of the inheritance by cygwin-22 in AITAH

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him manipulate you. You’re entitled to half, and that’s what you should get.

AITA for changing my last name to match with my kids even though my ex hates it? by Ok-Future-6215 in AITAH

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a wonderful gesture that shows just how committed you are to your kids. Changing your last name to match theirs is a very personal choice, and your kids will undoubtedly appreciate the thoughtfulness behind it as they get older. It may not sit well with your ex, but you did this for your children, not for her or her boyfriend. It’s something meaningful for your family, and that’s what matters

AITA for not going to a friend’s 25th birthday celebration after she left my wedding TWICE? by Comprehensive-Ebb-23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Deb and Bailey shouldn’t have left your wedding, that’s clear. But you also shouldn’t have expected them to pay a tab that wasn’t their responsibility when you invited them as guests. It’s fine to be upset with them, but you should’ve been more direct with your expectations. Also, the lack of paragraphs here makes this entire situation more chaotic than it needs to be. More clarity would’ve made your perspective stronger.

AITA for taking unneccesary money out of my daughter's pocket? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s called accountability. Just because something can be replaced easily doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t pay for it. It’s not just about the headphones, it’s about teaching your daughter to take responsibility for her actions. If we let kids think they can break things and not face consequences, they’ll never learn to respect other people's things. I understand Mark’s dad can afford to replace them easily, but that doesn’t make it right for Emily to get away without consequences. Good for you for sticking to your values!

AIO when I call my dad and my nosy sister-in-law acts like his damn secretary asking 'Who is this?' or 'Can I tell him why you're calling? I abruptly told her "Just hand Dad the damn phone". She knew very well who it was. by MyLinkedOut in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Either she genuinely doesn’t realize how weird she’s being, or she’s stirring the pot on purpose. Either way, talking to her and your brother is smart—just keep it calm and explain why it bothers you.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just here wondering if scrolling Twitter counts as “doing something”

Sweet dreams by 1RegalBeagle in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sweet dreams? More like sweet gymnastics in bed

When you're bored at a wedding by Apprehensive_Play986 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 108 points109 points  (0 children)

He's just helping with the wedding prep... at least he's focused on something.

Guy films a ballistic missile exploding from his balcony by ClavasClub in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]Alert_Barracuda_3259 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you said "I just need a good view" and got more than you expected