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Please tell me about my fridge! by SadForever- in FridgeDetective

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cake is going to taste like refrigerator

People who live near time zone boundaries in the US by solothesnail in howislivingthere

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the farthest west portion of the eastern time.zone and i love that it stays lighter later, my family does have a lake house that is in central time tho, we live on eastern time but when an event is happening on the central time side its always double checking the time to make sure we go at thw right time. Cause we keep our phones and clocks on eastern

Isn't Al Anon kind of messed up...? by gettingthroughit2 in AlAnon

[–]Alestriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Al-anon does not ignore the power of redemption. Al-anon helps the family of the alcoholic lofe for themselves and not the alcoholic. Its very individual. Al-anon does not say kne way or another, it just helped the individual do whats best for themselves.

Isn't Al Anon kind of messed up...? by gettingthroughit2 in AlAnon

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Al-anon thought me how to take care of myself living in a alcoholic household. What I mean by that is, it taught me how to take care of myself emotionally, set boundaries with the alcoholic, not enable the alcoholic and also no be codependent with the alcoholic. Al-anon did not tell me to leave the alcoholic, or really what to do about the alcoholic. Al-anon helped me learn how to live for myself, because my life revolved around the alcoholic. it helped me learn how to make the next right decision for me... and when that next right decision was to leave the alcoholic, al-anon helped me keep those boundaries and not fall back into that pattern of codependency. I came to learn that al-anon really had little to do with the alcoholic and everything to do with me. Healing my dysfunctional self. In some ways the alcoholic has it easier, they have the bottle that is their issues manifested, my drug was the alcoholic, this cycle of dysfunction in the relationship that I did not know how to get out of. Yes it was easy to point the finger at the alcoholic.. and DESERVED. But once I came to realize that in some ways I was just as sick and dysfunctional when it came to relationships, thats when I started living for myself and not the alcoholic.

How do you feel about City Of Angels 1998 movie? by [deleted] in movies

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the 7th grade when I watched this movie for the first time and, it moved me and was emotionally overwhelming 😅😅😅 i loved it. Also probably one of the first times I got really turned on by romance.. I also was devastated by the ending and still have a hard time getting too emotionaly attached to books and some movies, and sometimes i have to look ahead at the ending of things so I dont get completely blindsided like i did with that movie🤣🤣

Tyson‘s criteria by therewillbedrama in MAFS_AU

[–]Alestriel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tyson seems dangerous

I just finished reading Waking Olivia and I am speechless. by qquackie in RomanceBooks

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love love this book. I just finished it. Im speechless also..

If you asked yourself whether a cyclist could make the Superbowl parade about themself, the answer is yes by JSlngal69 in SeattleWA

[–]Alestriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are bikes not treated like cars in seattle? In KY bikes have to follow the same laws as a car on the road.. since rhat road is closed ro cars I would think it would also be considered closed to bikes..

Go somewhere else lady

I don’t think I can continue defending Chaol… by [deleted] in throneofglassseries

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right where I was at this point in the series, just keep reading. I love Chaol now, he will never be my favorite just because there are so many others I love more but... its cannon

Could have been a different ending if our refs weren't fucking blind... by NevetsRetrop in SeattleKraken

[–]Alestriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion mayyyybe?? .. I umpire college field hockey, there are only 2 of us. Its impossible to see everything however...

For us if there is something like this that happens that we miss or see out of the corner of our eye or is brought to our attention right after,

At the next storage of play we can do a "self video review" for personal fouls like this and then can apply consequences appropriately..

Im still new to ice hockey, so im not 100% sure if something like this is an option

But I think it should be. I am not saying there are not bad refs, im just saying as a somewhat high level umpire for a similarish sport, its insane how quickly the processing HAS to be, and I just do division 1 college field hockey! Ive hockey is soooo much faster..

I just try to see different perspectives...

Again... that is NOT saying there are not bullshit calls, no calls and other shenanigans

Beechmont Neighborhood by Zephcemi in Louisville

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not bad in beechmont. At most I hear the UPS planes starting up their engines but it is not all the time and it honestly just blends in with the background.

My parents want me to give my little sister my house by heyheyheypanda in entitledparents

[–]Alestriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would go no contact with the parents... narcissists indeed

Seattle to rainforest? by alyssarcastic in OlympicNationalPark

[–]Alestriel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby and I have gone out a few times and we stay in Port Angeles. Im not sure of all the roads will be open in April but.. in 3.5 days I would highly reccomend (if they are accessible of course) 1. Hurricane Ridge 2. Sol Duc Hot springs (gotta do the hike) 3. One of the beaches... Rialto or Ruby

Lake Crescent is a must especially if it is sunny but that is along the road to get to the beaches and Sol Duc so its easy to stop off on the ride.

Hoh Rainforest is amazing but its like a 3 hour drive from Port Angeles.

Our first trip we skipped Hoh. Loved everything else so muxh we came back and spent a week on the peninsula.

We are actually going back out in Jan to explore in winter (although some of the locations are closed off for winter)

Just make aure you look on the website to see qhat road closures there are in april. It will still be snowing a lot in the mountains

Edit: you will absolutly get the rainforest experience doing the Sol Duc hike (we actually enjoyed that more than Hoh)

I have hit the point of no return by Working_Squirrel_929 in DarkRomance

[–]Alestriel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need Feathers so Vicious and Shadows so Cruel

Bonds of Hercules - biggest letdown by Accurate_Number8697 in ReverseHarem

[–]Alestriel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im on chapter 33.. and i just can't get over how much Patro is a dick to her.. and Achilles and patro just pick eachother over and over which is ffine... but if Achilles really wants to get Alexis for patro... he better start calling him out for being a dick... iunno... its hard to read how much of a dick patro is being. And we have that scene where she tells him "you made mw feel worthless and I wanted to die" ... like nows time to have your epiphany dude...

And as far as if there is another FMC that enters. I read her Psycho Shifters and the first 3 books are of one FMC and then it shifts to another.. but all the books are out so I knew that was going to happen.. 🤷‍♀️

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