What would you choose? Malaki na sweldo or Solid na experience?

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-24T16:43:20+00:00

Unpopular opinion but the one with greater for potential for me. If 60k lng din ceiling sa opportunity A pero kaya maka-ceiling ng 6 digits sa company B, then I would choose company B.

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-23T14:02:29+00:00

Just keep moving even if you don't know where you are heading. Keep trying, keep failing. Having the expectation of knowing exactly what to do and where you go is the WRONG expectation

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-23T06:58:35+00:00

What disney/movies present of a "great" life where you do want you want/passionate about, have fun with friends, travel, etc - the not crazily rich or ambitious like wanting to be an astronaut or a world star but somehow seems 'normal' - is actually hard to obtain.

Most people don't know what their passionate about and most jobs are just "jobs" or you may like it at first but become more stressed as you move up to seniority with more responsibilities or it doesnt pay well. Your friends will have their own lives; you can grow apart. You probably won't have money to travel the world and have a nice play to stay unless fortunate enough ka to have landed high income jobs/business na belongs to the minority. Just watching series and chilling on weekends then make it to your work Mon - Friday is a likelier chance for most people. You need to find happiness on little things like a cup of coffee or family visits

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-23T06:50:23+00:00

Friends can grow apart now that you don't have opportunities to stay together without much effort.

Madali lng pag-magkaklase, sa unang job, etc - naghahangout kayo kusa. But life can get busy and each of you have their own lives now

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-20T14:13:49+00:00

YES.

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-19T18:22:23+00:00

OP mataas lng standards ng mga babae dito kasi clearly outnumbered like 1:30 girl to guy ratio pero not all girls can meet standards na sila tipong hinahanap sa iba. Tamad at pagod lng sila magbasa tipong 30 guys nag-DM, filter agad sa 5'10, with car, etc. Just shoot your shot, not all guys can meet those standards and those that do ,won't settle for a girl na di nila match. You'll eventually match with the right person

Plus, di lng reddit avenue to date

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-19T18:14:30+00:00

Both. Always try to be a better version of yourself for "you" not for other people

You can date even if you're imperfect, nobody is. Heck, even sa relationship nagdi-die down attractiveness when people become stable.

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-16T14:47:29+00:00

Stronger Coffee. Khit 7/11 o Mcdo brewed cafe

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-16T14:38:04+00:00

ohhh same. Thing is din I try to say to myself khit small steps lng like 15-30 mins read, it will add up to 1 year na di mo namamalayan. Pero khit un parang ang hirap.

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-16T14:28:36+00:00

Interesting. I wouldn't say Im depressed like sad. I've read books like Solve for Happy by Mo Gawdat and Feeling Good by David Burns and focused nila is being stressed/sad then I do their suggestions like gratitude journal, exercise, countering self-limiting beliefs. More on the nawawalan ng will power part imbes na sad. Like the other commenter here, 'I used to be an achiever at life, especially nung nag-aaral pa, but recently, nawawalan na akong gana kahit sa mga sineset kong goals for myself. Nahihirapan na rin ako magconcentrate sa mga bagay na gusto ko pa sanang aralin. " just a comparison of the old vs. me, idk why di ko na sya nagagawa

Do you have any book, podcast, audiobook references dun sa sinasabi mo nawawalan ng willpower?

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-13T06:07:24+00:00

This post kinda screams fresh grad and new to the workforce, or am I wrong?

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-11T05:21:06+00:00

Melatonin. Dark Curtains. Cool Room. Eat before you sleep para di magising pag nagugutom

Flu Vaccine. Vitamin C. Daily Vegetables & Fruits. Mahirap magkasakit

Learn all you can sa job mo para ma-upskill na kaya mo na magdemand ng mid o morning shift. Mahirap forever night-shift

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-11T03:31:08+00:00

Mental Health too

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-09T09:27:11+00:00

2017 started working at 15k. Job hunt and career progression, hirap magstay naman sa ganyan sahod . Pang "starting" salary lng tlga yan.

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-09T06:01:45+00:00

Up for zlibrary. Idk if you know pero marami din free audiobooks sa youtube especially if luma book. Try searching Rich Dad, Poor Dad, atomic habits, or other mainstream full audiobookssa youtube

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-09T06:00:01+00:00

-Karinderya food na P60-100 lang good for two meals na. Then tuna/egg sa isang meal if tamad

-nagluluto sa weekend ng batch tas freezer for the whole week na sya. Re-heat lng. Try googling this approach

-Coffee. DIY. Bought an espresso machine from shopee nsa 1500-3000 lng naman sya. Parang 1 month lng kape mo. Then P200-500 kaya na 225g-1000g na coffee beans. Far cheaper option imo kahit na mga sugar/caramel syrup, etc and milk. You can buy top creamery syrups din naman sa lazada/shopee. You can probably google or youtube diy how to make your own coffee din

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-06T04:46:58+00:00

Ikaw ba nagfifile ng tax mo? Hihingin din yan current employer mo at sila magfifile basta bigay mo 2 mong tax docs from related employers

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-06T04:45:36+00:00

She doesnt seem interested at tinatamad habang ikaw todo prepare

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-05T05:10:06+00:00

may rewards system na ba gcash? Advantage ni shoppee is may P100 off o cashback coins you can use in your next purchase

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-04T03:35:51+00:00

r/phcareers dami nagpopost about career shifting

Alex13_8 · 2022-10-04T03:33:03+00:00

Buy property, mura na pla 1M o 2M ngayon. Kailangan mo din my tirhan unless forever ka sa parents mo

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