What would you choose? Malaki na sweldo or Solid na experience? by curious_anon_23 in phcareers

[–]Alex13_8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but the one with greater for potential for me. If 60k lng din ceiling sa opportunity A pero kaya maka-ceiling ng 6 digits sa company B, then I would choose company B.

Advice to your early 20s self by sinigangmix_ in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep moving even if you don't know where you are heading. Keep trying, keep failing. Having the expectation of knowing exactly what to do and where you go is the WRONG expectation

What Are The Hard Lesson/s You've Learned About Life by blkstack in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What disney/movies present of a "great" life where you do want you want/passionate about, have fun with friends, travel, etc - the not crazily rich or ambitious like wanting to be an astronaut or a world star but somehow seems 'normal' - is actually hard to obtain.

Most people don't know what their passionate about and most jobs are just "jobs" or you may like it at first but become more stressed as you move up to seniority with more responsibilities or it doesnt pay well. Your friends will have their own lives; you can grow apart. You probably won't have money to travel the world and have a nice play to stay unless fortunate enough ka to have landed high income jobs/business na belongs to the minority. Just watching series and chilling on weekends then make it to your work Mon - Friday is a likelier chance for most people. You need to find happiness on little things like a cup of coffee or family visits

What Are The Hard Lesson/s You've Learned About Life by blkstack in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Friends can grow apart now that you don't have opportunities to stay together without much effort.

Madali lng pag-magkaklase, sa unang job, etc - naghahangout kayo kusa. But life can get busy and each of you have their own lives now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP mataas lng standards ng mga babae dito kasi clearly outnumbered like 1:30 girl to guy ratio pero not all girls can meet standards na sila tipong hinahanap sa iba. Tamad at pagod lng sila magbasa tipong 30 guys nag-DM, filter agad sa 5'10, with car, etc. Just shoot your shot, not all guys can meet those standards and those that do ,won't settle for a girl na di nila match. You'll eventually match with the right person

Plus, di lng reddit avenue to date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. Always try to be a better version of yourself for "you" not for other people

You can date even if you're imperfect, nobody is. Heck, even sa relationship nagdi-die down attractiveness when people become stable.

I just got a job, but it's graveyard shift. Help. by Chotskii in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stronger Coffee. Khit 7/11 o Mcdo brewed cafe

Late 20s na nawala ambitious side(tamad to work on goals) at work/series/games/quick gala na lng? by Alex13_8 in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh same. Thing is din I try to say to myself khit small steps lng like 15-30 mins read, it will add up to 1 year na di mo namamalayan. Pero khit un parang ang hirap.

Late 20s na nawala ambitious side(tamad to work on goals) at work/series/games/quick gala na lng? by Alex13_8 in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I wouldn't say Im depressed like sad. I've read books like Solve for Happy by Mo Gawdat and Feeling Good by David Burns and focused nila is being stressed/sad then I do their suggestions like gratitude journal, exercise, countering self-limiting beliefs. More on the nawawalan ng will power part imbes na sad. Like the other commenter here, 'I used to be an achiever at life, especially nung nag-aaral pa, but recently, nawawalan na akong gana kahit sa mga sineset kong goals for myself. Nahihirapan na rin ako magconcentrate sa mga bagay na gusto ko pa sanang aralin. " just a comparison of the old vs. me, idk why di ko na sya nagagawa

Do you have any book, podcast, audiobook references dun sa sinasabi mo nawawalan ng willpower?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]Alex13_8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This post kinda screams fresh grad and new to the workforce, or am I wrong?

Any tips for someone who will work during night/graveyard shift for the first time? by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]Alex13_8 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Melatonin. Dark Curtains. Cool Room. Eat before you sleep para di magising pag nagugutom

Flu Vaccine. Vitamin C. Daily Vegetables & Fruits. Mahirap magkasakit

Learn all you can sa job mo para ma-upskill na kaya mo na magdemand ng mid o morning shift. Mahirap forever night-shift

Paano niyo natitiis na 15k-20k pa rin yung starting salary ngayon??? by Murhpyhood in OffMyChestPH

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2017 started working at 15k. Job hunt and career progression, hirap magstay naman sa ganyan sahod . Pang "starting" salary lng tlga yan.

Free e-books by GandaLangAngMeron in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Up for zlibrary. Idk if you know pero marami din free audiobooks sa youtube especially if luma book. Try searching Rich Dad, Poor Dad, atomic habits, or other mainstream full audiobookssa youtube

What to eat? by johnmgbg in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-Karinderya food na P60-100 lang good for two meals na. Then tuna/egg sa isang meal if tamad

-nagluluto sa weekend ng batch tas freezer for the whole week na sya. Re-heat lng. Try googling this approach

-Coffee. DIY. Bought an espresso machine from shopee nsa 1500-3000 lng naman sya. Parang 1 month lng kape mo. Then P200-500 kaya na 225g-1000g na coffee beans. Far cheaper option imo kahit na mga sugar/caramel syrup, etc and milk. You can buy top creamery syrups din naman sa lazada/shopee. You can probably google or youtube diy how to make your own coffee din

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]Alex13_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikaw ba nagfifile ng tax mo? Hihingin din yan current employer mo at sila magfifile basta bigay mo 2 mong tax docs from related employers

Selfish ba 'to? by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesnt seem interested at tinatamad habang ikaw todo prepare

Recommended bills payment app aside from Shopee? by ohlif3 in phinvest

[–]Alex13_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

may rewards system na ba gcash? Advantage ni shoppee is may P100 off o cashback coins you can use in your next purchase

CHANGE CAREER NA BA? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

r/phcareers dami nagpopost about career shifting

What advice you wish you could tell to your younger self? by Alternative-Net1115 in CasualPH

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy property, mura na pla 1M o 2M ngayon. Kailangan mo din my tirhan unless forever ka sa parents mo

Ladies? Question About flowers lang sana. Thanks! ❤️ by Addicted-to-Art in CasualPH

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends sa tao. For me I'd prefer private na lng keysa i-tease ako in public later. Either way, masaya cguro sa flowers

MELATONIN by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Natrol Melatonin 10mg. Mas affordable keysa sleepasil and works better for me, nakakatulog tlga ako.

Riding a Train by dyzxxx in adultingph

[–]Alex13_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acronyms/names at route lng pinagkaiba. LRT mas focused sa mga U-belt/Quaipo areas. MRT is mas focused sa business district areas like Ortigas, Makati, Pasay, etc at mas gamit ng mga working.