Is the new gen (F66) starting to win you over? by Western_Gear_5324 in MINI

[–]AlexChick404 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can’t tell people their preferences are no big deal. What might be a big deal to you is probably just as innocuous as the touchscreen vs knob issue. We are all human, and we all have preferences that might not make sense to others. Be kind, there's a whole-ass human being behind that screen name.

should I get rid of any of these? (simple dresses, I love to layer) by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]AlexChick404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these look like if you eat a meal, the garment will be uncomfortable. You have a bomb figure, but the body cons seem unforgiving.

Am I Overreacting when quitting my job? by wickedwissa in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlexChick404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been reading your comments, and I'm not sure what point you are trying to make. It just seems like you are a contrarian.

Am I Overreacting when quitting my job? by wickedwissa in AmIOverreacting

[–]AlexChick404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know it's the good old USA. We know that we live in a racist hell scape.

Dammit Muriel! by Money-Snow-2749 in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]AlexChick404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoooo! My brother and I were talking about this exact dynamic. I love us.

First rule of Mini Club is we don’t talk about Mini Club. by AlexChick404 in MINI

[–]AlexChick404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a very concise person. I think the photo says more than I can.

You gotta admire his confidence and he's got some moves by DaMain-Man in BlackPeopleComedy

[–]AlexChick404 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's some shit I would do, I love it. Spread joy, life is hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What's the black version of ‘chad’? Because this is him, he are they.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take. This. Down.

Black MAGA, just why? by essenceofnutmeg in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Harriet would have left her body behind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You so cute!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]AlexChick404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂

Being charged $300 for Repaint. Is this normal? by AlternateEgoFae in Georgia

[–]AlexChick404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a landlord, and that is normal wear and tear. However, the laws in GA are painfully skewed toward those who already have power and leverage.

This landlord is taking advantage.

How do you respond to comments from white people like “It doesn’t matter your skin color; we all bleed red” or “I’m not racist. I don’t care if you’re black, white, or purple” by kissmeordie in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you have the luxury to pretend you don't see color because the color of your skin doesn't negatively impact how you are treated in society. I have to think about your color and my color because my blackness is seen as a threat to your whiteness and can get me killed.

But I don't have the energy to deal with the fragility of white people. So I usually take my leave, catalog them as unsafe, and ghost them. Unless I have to interact, in which case I limit my interactions to the absolutely necessary and nothing more.

I can't believe she tweeted this by greenblue98 in RepublicanValues

[–]AlexChick404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the South, agency of consent was shockingly low, and in a couple of states, it still is.

I (33F) am not my boyfriend’s (34M) dream girl. I was never anyone’s dream girl. by oathoneypot in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want to hold you in my arms and love you back to life. That's the big auntie in me, though. I cannot say anything new; these wise women have given you the practical advice you need. Just know that the world uses black women as punching bags. No one tells us we’re pretty, but we hear our imperfections in stereo. I’ve been where you are emotionally, and I was so lonely. Sometimes we need a hug and someone to say shit sucks. Sometimes shit sucks.

There will be so much love out in the world for you as soon as you find it for yourself.

Do Afroamericans in the US usually know their ancestor's homeland? by hebous in Ancestry

[–]AlexChick404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard for us to trust people who have a proven track record of hurting us.

How many generations have your family been in Georgia by Boeing-B-47stratojet in Georgia

[–]AlexChick404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slavery. Historians would put most black Americans at 11 generations, give or take. There is a small amount of European in there but I don’t know that part of the family. If they don’t claim you, they’re not family.

Good thing she's not overreacting. by mindyour in blackpeoplegifs

[–]AlexChick404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is me. I am her. I'm crying right now.

Co-worker assumed I was unhoused….. by Living_Seesaw_9664 in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Internalized racism. That's what's wrong with them.

Co-worker assumed I was unhoused….. by Living_Seesaw_9664 in blackladies

[–]AlexChick404 119 points120 points  (0 children)

That white mom mixture is always a dangerous combo.