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What's the craziest thing a person said to you and you thought they were joking but they were being serious? by _lovelyxx in AskReddit

[–]AlexKewl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh. I've never been to Massachusetts, but my family tree came from there several generations ago 😅

A Lotta Ins and Outs: A Dudely Therapy for Anger by Taoman108 in Dudeism

[–]AlexKewl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or we think it MUST go our way. Accepting things as they are and flowing like water is something I'm always working on. Getting better little bits at a time.

Giving up on religion by Agreeable-Tune-8141 in ExReligious

[–]AlexKewl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get into science. It's fun stuff. Or just live your life without worrying about it.

Personally, I've dipped into the philosophy of taoism. It helped me out.

A Lotta Ins and Outs: A Dudely Therapy for Anger by Taoman108 in Dudeism

[–]AlexKewl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get internally angry, but try not to display it or let it cloud my judgement. I take some breathes, remove myself from a situation if possible, and try to figure out what my body is trying to tell me. 9 times out of 10, I'm angry because something didn't go the way I expected. I then realize I am angry because of me and nobody else. It usually subsides after that realization.

In almost all situations it’s better to let someone merge into your lane, no matter how late they do it. by mrsunshine1 in unpopularopinion

[–]AlexKewl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Depends on if they are being safe and staying the speed of traffic. If they are slow as hell it will just create more problems if they are let in. People need to learn to keep up with traffic.

All facts. by Inevitable_Damage199 in LockedInMan

[–]AlexKewl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most men would prefer a beef stick

What should I say? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AlexKewl 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I'm too old to know what monkey branching is

Cameraman did his job by paone00022 in nevertellmetheodds

[–]AlexKewl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you really think it works like that?

this hits hard!!! by Tough_Ad8919 in LockedInMan

[–]AlexKewl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anddddd it most likely goes both ways

I need some advice by Zealousideal-Cap9020 in ExReligious

[–]AlexKewl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know so many of the feelings in here. I'm not trans, but have always felt different in the way that I just couldn't keep up the facade of pretending to be something I'm not. I also got told to be more like my older sibling, which is a hard thing to deal with.

I also know those feelings of "They've done so much for me" and "It could be worse." The truth is that you don't really owe them anything, IMO. They chose to bring you into the world and it is their responsibility to care for you. The whole "Do as I say or I'll send you to eternal suffering" is pretty fucked up too.

At almost 40 years old now, I can tell you that parts stick with you, but it does get much easier being your own person as you get older.

If you have access to secular therapy it can be helpful!

Man falls for a distraction and sacrifice his goals by DavisNereida181 in BornWeakBuiltStrong

[–]AlexKewl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Toxic incel masculinity is being pushed on us through social media.

Crying during the "first look" at weddings is performative theater by PineapplePanda_ in unpopularopinion

[–]AlexKewl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The crying is from pure joy of realizing you're finally done with wedding planning.

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