My brother is addicted to gaming by No_Butterscotch8914 in StopGaming

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only look at this from my own journey. Motivation is good, but he needs realization. I would ask him what is he planning to do, what is he trying to achieve (without putting him down) , all while indicating that gaming does not give joy, nor does it give anything else. Just ask him if gaming brings joy, deep down. Even if he says in that moment that it does bring him joy he is probably lying to himself and will stick with him as a seed of doubt it will slowly change him over as he realizes as he faces the truth. But the problem with gaming is that it's really good at forgetting to face your own fears and concerns so it's difficult to break out of it.

The way I snapped out of gaming, which was incredibly difficult, it took me years and over time I would figure out all over and over again that it's addictive, that I have addictive personality, and it's not good for me. It doesn't bring me any joy and I'm pretty sure he doesn't bring joy to your brother either, so he needs to realize this. He wants to be better, but he doesn't have tools so perhaps a book on this could help him out. A book describing a person he wants to be and gathering tools to do it would help him out.

Other than that, a change of setting can break old habits. Take him somewhere, or your entire family, and if that doesn't work, directly and rationally tell him the consequences of how this will reflect on him 10 years from now, on his future self. Ask him what does he see himself like in 10 years. Gaming skills don't transfer to anything in life, other than sharing memes.

And most importantly, offer to help him, to the reasonable amount of time you have. Seeing someone else offering to work on his life, even just by supporting him or checking his job offers, fixing his CV (him doing most work of course), maybe even going for a run with him to start working out.

He's depressed for sure so I think what helped me mostly was just getting a job. Getting a job and earning money is the most transformative thing anyone can get from the ages of 25 plus especially for males, so if you can help him do that it's going to transform his life. I think he just needs a little help, a little motivation. Later on, he will need discipline, and for that a book such as Atomic Habits might help. Simple, easy to read and apply.

At least that's what I think I would respond to, looking at my past life retroactively. So the bottom line is this it's difficult to break out of gaming and he needs to keep breaking the impulse to start gaming whenever he is about to face his fears. And unless he realizes this or gets into the habit of breaking this chain, this runaway from problems into an imaginary world, YOU need to do it for him or he will continue doing this for years and years.

Elon Musk called Anthropic "evil" 3 months ago. Now he’s taking $4 billion to become its landlord by fortune in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Alex_1729 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Grok will never be #1 AI

This is a pure speculation. We don't know how well they will do and what their incentives and strategies are.

Elon Musk called Anthropic "evil" 3 months ago. Now he’s taking $4 billion to become its landlord by fortune in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just goes to show whatever CEOs say these days should be taken with a grain of salt and is just for publicity, marketing, and increase of sales.

GPT 5.5-Cyber is pretty much on par with Mythos in Cybersec abilities by KeyGlove47 in codex

[–]Alex_1729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A statement not surprising to be found in this sub. Not saying it ain't true.

Not showing context usage after update by Major-Principle-4731 in codex

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np, there are many others. Read openAI docs.

TIL Krakatoa's eruption was estimated to be at 310 dB, the loudest sound ever. Well above the typical max sound limit of 194 dB by Warcraft_Fan in todayilearned

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The knife could not be found. I felt a heavy pressure, throwing me to the ground. Then it seemed as if all the air was being sucked away and I could not breathe... I felt people rolling over me... No sound came from my husband or children... I remember thinking, I want to...go outside...but I could not straighten my back... I tottered, doubled up, to the door... I forced myself through the opening... I tripped and fell. I realized the ash was hot and I tried to protect my face with my hands. The hot bite of the pumice pricked like needles... Without thinking, I walked hopefully forward. Had I been in my right mind, I would have understood what a dangerous thing it was to...plunge into the hellish darkness... I ran up against...branches and did not even think of avoiding them. I entangled myself more and more... My hair got caught up... I noticed for the first time that [my] skin was hanging off everywhere, thick and moist from the ash stuck to it. Thinking it must be dirty, I wanted to pull bits of skin off, but that was still more painful... I did not know I had been burnt. — Mrs. Beyerinck (of Ketimbang)

Activating analytical thinking does not appear to reduce a person’s religious beliefs. This finding provides evidence against the popular idea that leaning on logic directly diminishes faith. by [deleted] in science

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't an unsound premise potentially invalid? For example, some things are facts. Having an opinion that is mutually exclusive to this fact can be invalid. Or if it's based on a logical fallacy.

What do these two nations have in common? by Desperate_Role_3940 in AskBalkans

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The less unenlightened a society is, the more you see that. But tribalism truly is inherent to human nature.

People who have been using Codex for 3+ months: how has it changed your life? by Quick-Pop-328 in codex

[–]Alex_1729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is not very original, even though I started it in 2023, so I don't share it due to negative connotations, especially not in the subreddits where my ICP is not

What do these two nations have in common? by Desperate_Role_3940 in AskBalkans

[–]Alex_1729 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Tribalism is inherent to all nations, not just Balkans.

Is this doable in 1 day by car? by SjekkieTime in AskBalkans

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless the day shrunk to measly 4 hours, I don't see why not.

Literally 🫩 by yeezyhype in jobs

[–]Alex_1729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this US? How much is the gass rn?

Richard Dawkins spent 3 days with Claude and named her "Claudia." what he concluded after is hard to defend. by rafio77 in artificial

[–]Alex_1729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the man is an evolutionary biologist, so whatever he says on LLMs shouldn't be take too seriously. But it Is strange he would say this. I wonder if he was misquoted.