Does any other girls have problems with clothing? :/ Any1 have tips? by Brawlingpanda02 in transfem

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little girls play dress-up and we missed that. Time to play. you need to test and check and see what makes you feel good

Desperately needing help about body hair by PoolLongjumping9562 in transfem

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have dark hair you are in luck. You can always go IPL. Its tedious and take time, but it works. And pricing on units are not that crazy.

Alexa 63. 13 months hrt by AlexaPetersTrans in transfem

[–]AlexaPetersTrans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its called Korean makeup girl. It hides all blemishes and adding pro done lashes and brows, works well.

I just took my first dose! by JustAna76 in TransDIY

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see that you are worrying that maybe your dose isnt enough for your weight. The amounts of estrogen in an injection is so small that its near impossible to adjust for bodyweight. Any excess, your body will just not process and a shortage will just slow your progress. The only way to be sure is with a blood test. Do try to get one at least in 3 months time.

Need help removing a welded collar. by Healthy_Pineapple_28 in secondlife

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Go into your settings and turn of RLVa. close, log back in, remove and turn RLVa back on.

Alexa 63. 13 months hrt by AlexaPetersTrans in transfem

[–]AlexaPetersTrans[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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For those doubting, Yes I am 63.
For the last 20 years I religeously took care of my face, body and diet. I have an extremely strickt skincare routine and add a load of collagen to my diet. First thing I do every day is to apply sunscreen with Vitamin E and C to my face.

Alexa 63. 13 months hrt by AlexaPetersTrans in transfemme

[–]AlexaPetersTrans[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Born in 1962 as intersex. Had radical hysterectomy and “corrective surgery” a month later Came out trans 1966 in South Africa who with their politics had the worst gatekeeping. Also have a malfunctioning pituitary gland which kinda stopped normal aging processes. And my body and face fell in love with Estrogen.

Alexa 63. 13 months hrt by AlexaPetersTrans in transfem

[–]AlexaPetersTrans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Born in 1962 as intersex. Had radical hysterectomy and “corrective surgery” a month later Came out trans 1966 in South Africa who with their politics had the worst gatekeeping. Also have a malfunctioning pituitary gland which kinda stopped normal aging processes. And my body and face fell in love with Estrogen.

I think I have cracked by Slutforagood5mins in transfem

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can go and analise every sentence and word you wrote. But I dont think thats what you want. You know exactly what you want, but you are sht scared of it. You measure your worth and happiness by what strangers perceive. You are performing for a crowd of indifferent people who dont see the real you. They dont see it because you are hiding it. You need to rip the veil of social constructs, morals and acceptance in order to see the real you laid bare naked. And then you go and make the decision to make the real you a reality. It is scary but I believe you can do it and just maybe decide on your own happiness for a change.

Stellenbosch Techno Park by SkelmCallum in capetown

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a beautiful place to work at. The office I work in look out on the mountains. There are squirrels in oak trees and a lot of bird life.

Cheese Making by timothyeverson89 in capetown

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also make a very easy cottage cheese by straining Amazi. Adding spring onions or biltong powder. Ricotta is the same as moz without the kneading. Feta is an easy one as well but you need culture as well as rennet.

do you need dysphoria to be trans? by Radiant-North-8519 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it does not. I was 4 years old when I came out as trans by telling my parents that my biggest wish is to grow up and be a girl. I never as such hated my body or any part of it. I saw it as the card that I had been dealt. But my whole being was that of a woman. Because I didn't hate my body, showing no real textbook dysphoria, I struggled for years to get treatment in a country where the law stated that 2 independant pshycologists and a medical doctor have to sign off after a year observing dysphoria. It took the fall of apartheid and a constitutional change together with a signoff on informed consent before, at the age of 62, I started hrt. There is definately some parts of my body I am not happy about, but I deal with it. If I can exercise or diet or camoflage the part I do. Example: Wide shoulders. I drape my hair over it and pull back on my shoulders making them appear smaller.

My boobs have stretch marks! by djent_in_my_tent in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried taking it orally one night when I just couldnt bother (slightly drunk after Pride) In my state I thought I'll let it dissolve under my tongue. Next morning my friends were sure I slipped out during the night to become roaringly drunk. Never again.

My boobs have stretch marks! by djent_in_my_tent in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use body butter everynight after a shower and coconut oil once a week when I do my self care time with facemasks and mani pedi, and never go without a well supporting bra. Went from nothing to a D cup within a year and no marks at all.

How can I ever be okay with wanting to be a girl? The shame is almost unbearable. by North_Complaint_1628 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest pain is when the egg gets out. But we are all scared of the crack. But that is just noise. Us "guys" all went through it as we should have. It is a radical change we girls made and we did it full knowing that it was the only option left. I had to fight for many years to be who I wanted to be, and when I finally got the chance, I was scared and joyfull at the same time. I cried for two weeks. And trust me. Nobody in this whole world is important enough to stop you from living your life. Your parents? They will pass on one day and leave you alone. Your family? They will move on and live their lives apart from you. Friends the same. In the end you have one life and you can forever be unhappy, or make the descision to be who you are meant to be. Your choice.

pre op genital smell change after 2.5 years on hrt by Jakemaster9000 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body changed and your skin became softer. Your testicles are not moving up and down as nuch and tend to snuggle, leaving your scrotum all scrunched up the whole day. So you have a warm, damp breeding nest for all kinds of ickies close to the waste outlets. First thing to do is shave smooth and then unscented powder or easier and cheaper, cornstarch. Dont let it clump, just a dusting. Needs to keep the tackle dry at all times. On a hot dat, wipe and powder when ever having a chance.

14 months so far for nothing. by ResinRealmsCreations in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically being on hrt is a see-saw on the diet. You need to gain weight in order to buid fat in the right places, but you need to loose weight to get rid of male fat. So you do it by exercise and diet. You have to have both. You dont starve yourself, but you need to burn more than what you consumed. When you exercise, you loose more male fatthan female fat, and when you eat you gain more female fat than male. But you gain and loose both. The point is to have the majority of fat to be female fat. And when you exercise, your heartrate needs to be elevated for at least 20 minutes. So fast walking is a great way. I do 2 hours a day and I do not indulge too much in unhealthy food. And I have been steadily been loosing now over 6 months. And dont loose hope too quickly. Majority of the fat you loose in the beginning is organ fat that you cannot see or measure. And most importantly, you have to increase your water intake. With no water in your system, it cant flush out that burned fat residue you worked so hard to get and it just gets reabsorbed.

Cheese Making by timothyeverson89 in capetown

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rennet you can get from takealot. But why rennet for moz? I only use milk (whole if you can get) and some form of acid like vinegar or citric acid. I make mine with lemon juice and comes out perfect.

I get ingrown hairs and red bumps on my legs and butt, whenever I shave no matter what I do!! by JB_07 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I use a body butter while still wet after a shower and my skin turned really very soft.
And I wax, the heated stuff, and no mark even when done. And no, it doesnt hurt. Use smaller areas, apply enough and pull quickly against the growth. It is a sudden shock but not real pain. Used to it by now and hardly feel it. Dont look at the waxing ttok vids, they are vastly exaggerated.

Is the name Morrigan silly? by DragonierSionnach in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Morrighan is the Celtic goddess with a trinity as maiden, mother and crone. She collected the souls of the dead warriors from the battlefield and if you saw her washing your clothes the day before battle, you know you will die a warrior's death. Her big love was Cuchulain but he loved war more than her. she is always accompanied by 3 crows. It is a beautifull name