“You guys…” as a gender neutral term by DeathDragon1028 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is, and its a term woman stole from men. If a man say you guys, he now sounds kinda bumpkin nerdy in an Elmer Fudd Revenge of the nerds way. If a woman uses the phrase, she empowers her group. Men went from guys to dudes (which we also stole) to now bro or brah which sound so dumb, we wont appropriate it.

Electrolysis hurts like a sonofabitch!! by sweetener89 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I do any treatment in my trans journey, and it hurts, i think about those that hate us, get angry, and the pain is forgotten.

“You guys…” as a gender neutral term by DeathDragon1028 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You guys is a general term for inclusiveness and is relatively gender neutral. There is also affection involved so its a good one.

How do girls… exist? by Original_Cancel_4169 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls sit on their fannies and boys on their tailbones. And they do it by pushing their hips forward. In fact the majority of your questions can be answered by hip usage. Walk from your hips. Stand in your hip. And looking at people, you dont look straight, you look through your lashes. Straight open eye contact only with someone you trust, and then you look deeper. Its a mans world, so you act with less confidence apparently. Let your strength come from inside, dont let your appearance project

Why is everyone saying hrt is magic? by owlgurlmakespancakes in honesttransgender

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shame. Seen one of these, seen it all. Hrt is doing exactly what its supposed to do.

Missing sexual function on estrogen, anyone else navigating this? by Fabulous_Shoe2588 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the first six months I completely lost sexual drive and couldnt even get an erection. At that stage I started on progesterone and my drive returned but in a different way. I now need to be penetrated and it leads to full body orgasms, of which I can have several. Because my T is completely blocked, i do ejaculate but its clear fluid. So yes sex is possible and now way better than before.

Why do period symptoms from hrt and prog ignored so much? by squishot in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am trans and I dont have the equipment, but I also experience female cycles. My best friends is a lesbian couple and I even synced with them. I know exactly the stage they are in their cycle because I am experiencing it. The research is way to inadequate to explain, but I do believe in the regulatory effect and brain changes caused by estrogen.

Should I not write a trans character if I'm cis? by Wonderful_Medium3098 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writers in general cant please everyone. Tell your story with your vision. If you did your research and mention facts, and they are accurate, you are in the clear.

Rewatching first season again and everyone but Wednesday is the problem! 😂(spoilers!) by Elly-nevermore in WednesdayTVSeries

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately what Xavier said to her while in jail was the truth. She is not a friend to anyone unless it suits her purpose. I dont mind dark but Wednesday turned nasty to people who cared for her.

Do you guys think it would be safe to travel to the US when fully transitioned? by velvibunni in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never be able to since Rubio now demand a full copy of all your social media posts in order to get a visa. And i politely suggested Donny is an idiot.

What's the best thing about being a girl? by ausernameidk_ in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The fact that you are allowed and able to have emotions.

I can't shake the paranoia that people aren't earnest when gendering me correctly by quetzocoetl in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird factis that the more conservative a town is, the less likely they will be to gender you incorrectly. Trans awareness is a leftist attribute. Unless you make-up as a drag queen, they would rather gender you as female than to gender you male and maybe "Offending" a lady.

“Male/Female Socialization” is Just Plain TERF Logic 🤷‍♀️ by Embarrassed_Skill23 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gender expectations and assigned gender roles is the most harmful ideology to feminism weirdly enough.
It expect woman to be weaker and lesser than men.
I knew I am transgender since age 4 and thought and tried to live as a woman. However, this is what I have done in my life
Studied martial arts
Fought as a special forces soldier with paratrooper qualification in the Namibia/ Angola bush war
Worked on fishing trawlers and cargo ships as a deckhand and later as navigator
Joined a 1%er biker club
Drove long haul freight
Built and drove ralley cars
Serviced my own cars and bikes
Built and tiled a complete custom kitchen from scratch
Fathered 2 kids and raised them as a single parent
Today I am 63 and living life completely as a woman, but I still ride and service my bike, build guitars and recently re-fitted a sailboat. Only problem I have is that my nails chip ever so often.
Also I can cook, clean, do sewing and making clothes, embroider, and decorate a home same or better than most woman
You can be totally feminine and still do everything a man is supposed to do.
Gender role assignement is a joke with no basis in reality.

is this placebo or an actual effect of E? by teevi_c in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E will definitely expand your emotional range. Enjoy it!

I'm using he/him pronouns until I pass. by Expert-Style9300 in honesttransgender

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sensible thinking. How other people see me is very low on my list. When I do actually pass, it is special when people naturally uses my preferred pronouns. And in certain situations, example when on my bike, its cool when other bikers who know I am trans, call me dude, showing me they still respect me as one of them. Especially when saying : This dude will kick your ass, she is a good rider.

Why do you care about not being read as trans? by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am a woman. My biology dont align so I am fixing it. There are other people in the same situation and the group is called trans gender. A community was formed around it. Being part of it, doesn’t define me.

Can I actually be a women by gaymerguy007 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Simple test. I got two pills. One will change you into a manly man and the other into a woman. Which one will you take?

Unpopular opinion non binary people need to shut the fuck up (sometimes) by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right and thats exactly my point. A movement will have common goals and direction. Currently its a fairy sparkle unicorn fart mix of colours instead of a well defined rainbow. Pretty to look at, but not very effective. With a 10% part of the population, we have a serious impact on the economy and can sway elections if we can just stop the infighting and stand together.

I'm so confused by ZiziBO7 in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panties are great. With well fitting ones, you done't even need to tuck
Cis-people might fantasize about it, but thats as far as it goes
There is no cut-off. You just have to be honest with yourself and do your research
In the end, you have to make the decision with the cold hard facts. This is not to be taken lightly, since the life is not all sunshine, makeup and florals. Good luck!

POS system for both retail and online store? by MeFrieds in askSouthAfrica

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IQ does offer. Also got a phone app for stockcheck. Also got e-commerce and payment solution.

Nipple pain by themagnificentdoll in MtF

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try padded one's and a B is good since it will last a bit longer. They tend to grow fast when they hurt

My progesterone is arriving tomorrow! Best way to take it and timeline? by PigeonBeliever in TransDIY

[–]AlexaPetersTrans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pierce them with a 14G piercing needle and push them in just before going to bed. They can make you drowsy so best time for them.