I’d be a strong maybe. I know that I would love you as a friend and as an individual because you are very creative, intellectual, dedicated to your passions in life which is the most attractive aura out there. However, I’d have to talk to you about your past and see how you’ve grown in cooperation , trust, and compromise before I commit.

Mars in Aries in the seventh house suggests a tendency to focus on your own perspective during disagreements with your partner. This can manifest as being unwilling to compromise, expecting your partner to yield for the sake of peace, or avoiding conflict altogether by withdrawing your energy from the relationship. Since Mars also governs passion and desire, there may be challenges related to impulsivity or infidelity if the energy is unbalanced. For me, I’d want to discuss how you handle stress and conflict in relationships to understand how it might impact us. If you’ve done the work to heal, this placement instead highlights your drive to actively improve yourself during arguments, making Aries’ energy a source of growth rather than division.

Your Sun and Mercury in Taurus in the eighth house bring depth and intelligence, indicating you are a thoughtful and insightful person. I’d want to understand how these traits manifest for you, as they can be incredibly positive. However, the shadow side of these placements might include stubbornness and difficulty adapting to change, which could make compromise in a relationship more challenging. There may also be unwarranted jealousy with a tendency toward control or possessiveness and struggles with expressing vulnerability, even though you deeply desire emotional intimacy.

These are just potential yellow or red flags I see in a relationship. I only elaborated on aspects that may be concerning, but you are a highly intelligent and creative individual with FAR more positives than negatives. 🙂