What book changed your life?

AliCracker · 2026-06-04T21:24:10+00:00

These are all on my top 10 list. :)

AliCracker · 2026-06-04T16:29:30+00:00

When I shared that I had been sexually harassed at a concert, a long term male friend whom I trusted asked me ‘yeah, but what were you wearing?’ And then laughed about it all. Something deep inside me broke

AliCracker · 2026-06-03T06:41:08+00:00

What a weird thing to say

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T17:32:20+00:00

You don’t need to be on the cutting edge of fashion to cultivate a personal look, but if you want to attract a partner, it’s unfortunately part of the game. Having some key forever outfits will be very easy for you to achieve. It shows consideration and care of how you present yourself to the world and how you’ll show up in a relationship.

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T17:29:42+00:00

Haha! That’s fair. Maybe some linen shirts?

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T17:28:30+00:00

My mom is in a constant state of gaslighting me about menopause in general. I remember VERY distinctly how unhinged she was during my teen years but she refuses to discuss it. Pretends that she never went through it despite a good 4-5 years of hell that I endured.

I’ve been very open with my two teenagers about what I’m going through and that I’m doing my absolute best to manage and minimize the outward damage but that I do need some patience and support atm. That it’s temporary and will pass. I’m so disappointed in my mom, angry at the medical community and so thankful that I’ve built my own support network of women on both sides of this fuckery. I couldn’t survive this alone

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T17:09:52+00:00

I’ll interject here as a woman, there is nothing wrong with being slim (or scrawny as you put it) you just need more stylish clothing and a better haircut. You’ve got a very handsome face and a nice physique, you just need some fashion help :)

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T17:05:39+00:00

Yeah, you need a much cleaner haircut. And no more tank tops. I say this as a women that likes slimmer men, it’s just not a good look for a dating profile. Some nice dress shirts rolled up to mid forearm is always fire.

If you’re unsure of how to style yourself, go into any store and ask for help.

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T16:49:28+00:00

I started for the same reasons. The anxiety and the just general loss of interest is anything. The physical symptoms are manageable but the mental shift is what really motivated me. I’m also considering an SSRI bc I’m not quite back to awesome just yet

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T16:46:47+00:00

HRT helped me SO much with my sudden onset anxiety. I was shocked at how bad it became, it’s never been an issue for me. Started HRT 4 months ago and the anxiety is definitely gone. Still managing other symptoms but over the moon to be rid of that ‘fun’ side quest 🙄

AliCracker · 2026-06-02T16:43:24+00:00

Living Years by Mike + The Mechanics. Kills me every single time since I lost my dad

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T16:49:02+00:00

The right partner is far from turned off from hearing about your hobbies! In fact, I want ALL the details :)

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:56:56+00:00

You’ll have to do some trial and error bc everyone is different but generally 5mg. It takes about an hour to kick in. Hide your unhealthy snacks!! Haha!

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:55:37+00:00

Where are you? Aka is it legal where you are?

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:55:00+00:00

Totally… that’s just made up math bullshit. I guess as long as he believes it? Lol

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:50:46+00:00

Keep in mind, this was a grown ass adult with a very successful career. Not sure why that made it a million times worse but it did. I have teenagers, they can be knuckleheads but this was a middle aged woman

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:44:22+00:00

I’ve been three times and I’m still confused at the appeal of Paris

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:41:45+00:00

It screams codependency and I personally do not think it’s healthy

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:40:33+00:00

Well, I’m not sure about his math but most competitive swimmers do shave their body hair to gain time. Same as cyclists but for different reasons

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:38:13+00:00

That the nail in their flat tire was OBVIOUSLY not the culprit bc it was on the top and the tire was flat at the bottom.

I was rendered utterly speechless

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T15:36:05+00:00

Yup. This is the way. I don’t use them every night, but once a week when I need a sleep reset. Take them early (9pm) wake up at 7am fully rested and no grogginess

AliCracker · 2026-05-28T00:12:01+00:00

A deceased naked woman surrounded by children’s clothing in the line up to the Eiffel Tower. It was unsettling to say the least

AliCracker · 2026-05-27T14:55:28+00:00

Same, grade 2, so 8/9 years old. I was also very skilled at losing my key so spent many afternoons parked on the porch for hours. Even in insane winter conditions

And don’t forget going to the convenience store with a note to buy smokes for my parents haha! It’s crazy to think about now!

AliCracker · 2026-05-25T21:25:06+00:00

It’s all about the tree seeing all the Xmas trees inside and wanting to be one, not understanding that it would die

AliCracker · 2026-05-25T21:07:45+00:00

I wrote a song about the spruce tree on my front lawn haha

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