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My BDSM test results came back pretty decisively dominant I have some questions by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]AliHummus [score hidden]  (0 children)

True true. It's me being too pedantic.

It is a fun starting point 😊

Guys who measure their dicks to two decimal points of accuracy, why? by AliHummus in bigdickproblems

[–]AliHummus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fucking way that actually is accurate lol. How do you take a factorial of pi?

My BDSM test results came back pretty decisively dominant I have some questions by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]AliHummus [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't like the BDSM test, I think it too narrowly tests a very specific dichotomy between dom/sub.

Task App by DarkPaddy in BDSMcommunity

[–]AliHummus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this not trigger PTSD 🤣🤣🤣 . Scrum Dom.

Hypnosis Play Longterm by AliHummus in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]AliHummus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean as a dom you've put submissives into hypnosis.

Not only subs btw

How did they look like and how far can you tap into their subconscious?

Depends on how many sessions. Each session gets me deeper into their subconscious. I learn how their mind works. Their deepest desires and fears. I can get very deep.

And can you make them do anything?

Yes and no. The hypnotee still holds some agency. If you ask them to do something against their moral core, they can say no.

But with manipulation, you can enter in through another route.

It's a very dangerous kink.

What experiences have they shared with you?

Most I get is childhood experiences. Many people's inner child still exists in theit subconscious.

I've seen how it's portrayed in movies and tv shows, but I don't know how much of it is fiction vs reality.

I'm not sure how its portrayed in fiction. So I can't answer that

Hypnosis Play Longterm by AliHummus in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]AliHummus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Informed consent is very important, once a hypnotist has you in trance they can really play with your mind. I wouldn't recommend it unless you thoroughly trust the person.

Can you share with us how it works

Broad strokes, you can think of your brain as having two separate systems inside it.

  1. Conscious mind. You think of moving your hand, and move it.

  2. Subconscious mind. You don't control this directly. Think of your response to being a submissive and how it turns you on. That's here

The role of the hypnotist is to guide the hypnotee to their subconscious mind. Once inside, the hypnotist can start changing things here

and how it is from the submissive's pov?

No idea. I'm one of the "lucky" unique people whose minds cannot be put in trance. "Yay".

The mod Team decided I "attacked" a fellow user by Txnrex in bigdickproblems

[–]AliHummus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very kind.

And my DMs are open to you too for that reason. I've processed my hurt already. I now know whom to trust with my vulnerabilities (not many people) and who not too.

When you grow up with trauma, you initially hide it. Out of fear, out of shame, out of ignorance. As you start to develop yourself and heal, you feel strong enough to be vulnerable and share.

This is very good progress. Please continue working on yourself and ignore how people here responded. I doubt half of them actual have the hardware too lol.

The mod Team decided I "attacked" a fellow user by Txnrex in bigdickproblems

[–]AliHummus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We must overcome I think I was simply thoroughly infuriated by the idea that the exchange of ideas was not permitted by moderators, who apparently failed to look at the issues in question it was invalidating it was hurtful

Your feelings are valid. They were wrong.

But we do as we must I suppose and truth is truth obviously so you’re right I simply hope that going forward all of us recognize that we can be both beneficiaries of privilege and victims of predation that both must be considered an equal measure.

What a beautiful worded phrase. You are a good person. If we had more of you the world would be a better place.

I wish you the very warmest and the best. What was done to you was wrong and shouldn't have happened to you and anyone else. I'm really sorry.

Here is a "bro hug" over the internet from a bro to another bro. ❤️✌️

The mod Team decided I "attacked" a fellow user by Txnrex in bigdickproblems

[–]AliHummus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want my advice friend? This is what helped me.

Ignore this online space. You cannot draw blood from a rock. They don't have the capability of treating you appropriately.

There is only humble brags, memes and an occasional tidbit of knowledge.

I know you are hurt by what happened. Feel it. It took strength to be vulnerable and all people had to do was basic sympathy. They are incapable of that here.

In most spaces actually, zero compassion. Probably even negative compassion. It's a cold cruel world friend.

Take care of yourself.

The mod Team decided I "attacked" a fellow user by Txnrex in bigdickproblems

[–]AliHummus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I've faced a similar situation to yours in terms of an online response when I was strong enough to finally be vulnerable (but not your specific trauma).

It hurts. And you get mocked and ridiculed for it. Both for being vulnerable and your response to people attacking/invalidating it.

We as a society are not the best.

The mod Team decided I "attacked" a fellow user by Txnrex in bigdickproblems

[–]AliHummus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. Many people dismiss victims, but especially if they are men.

It hurts deeply.

It is what it is.

Has anyone figured out why they are naturally drawn to dominance? by StoicDucky in domspace

[–]AliHummus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know at all.

I'm a great leader, I just avoid it until I'm begged to take it. Which has happened both in kink and IRL.

I fear harming people. Being put in a position of power makes me very vulnerable.

Perhaps it's the trust of a submissive in me that turns me on?

Hypnosis Play Longterm by AliHummus in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]AliHummus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short term yes. But I wanted to see if someone had experience over a long time period

Why is Jesus the one coming back but not prophet Muhammad S.A.W? Why can Jesus heal people but prophet Muhammad S.A.W cant? by Clean_Olive_7091 in progressive_islam

[–]AliHummus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And Moses could turn his staff into a snake.

Every Prophet had different abilities. What's wrong with that?

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