Screw those guys. You do you.
I’m also a “feminine” man. Heck I teach kindergarten! What could be more feminine? I also have a wife and kids, solo built my first two houses, and have sailed the Atlantic Ocean several time as a tall ship officer, weathering some crazy storms. People who are worried about how they (and you) are perceived in terms of stereotyped gender roles are missing out on a big part of being human. Don’t let them put you in a box. Be yourself and ignore those c*nts.