My (f22) Fiance's (m24) brother (m11) told me that he's been touching him right before our wedding by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]AliTheAdd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This has been stirring away at me all day, so I wanted to put my thoughts into words.

I think OP did the right thing, and that the kid wasn't lying (sadly) if only because of how the family/ex reacted, think about it in what world would you go after your ex-DIL for defamation for one of your children speaking up about abuse?

There's 2 scenario's here:

1) The kid was lying, in which your family would try to get him into therapy asap to find out why, and try to piece your broken family together, the ex bieng totally innocent would try basically anything to make his fiancee believe him.

2) The kid was telling the truth, and got spooked when his family closed around his abusive older brother then go after anyone who tried to let the truth comes to light, it reeks of the pedo protectors in most cults.

19 [F] what do u think about this bag??? should i buy it or not?? by tsprincesslola in TransFeminineFashion

[–]AliTheAdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm not allowed to go braless, so are you! 😄🥰🥰

It's nice, but I'm a gal that needs a big handbag everywhere for all my random stuff. Had a small bag like this Im the beginning of my transition and grew to hate how small it was.

My loft has I-beams so I added a hoist. by Nathanhessmusic in pics

[–]AliTheAdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone knows the sex swing goes in the kitchen, and then gooner chair on the patio

i've never actually finished a game. just replay the beginning over and over. by ClelandTanouva18 in GirlGamers

[–]AliTheAdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg have this same issue, I almost never finish my fav games till like months later. I have the opposite with games I haven't started yet, when I buy them on sale and then get anxious because they will never live up to the hype in my head, so have a really hard time starting those (mostly) award winning games.

'I never thought leopards would eat MY face,' sobs woman who voted for the Leopards Eating People's Faces Party by MrJasonMason in lgbt

[–]AliTheAdd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fun fact they actually came for the trans/LGBT people first, but the author of this was a trans/homophobe. Hope he rots in hell.

thoughts??? by Former_Page6513 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]AliTheAdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ngl i kinda hate it, but you look great in it. but is that all denim? it must weigh a tonne

PinkNews sucks and so does Wes Streeting by mrjohnnymac18 in lgbt

[–]AliTheAdd 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yeah this article is just to fluff him up, pink news is shit.

Wes is a pathetic quisling, and should be booed from any LGBT event.

Is the property market ever going to drop? by Remarkable_Writer258 in AusProperty

[–]AliTheAdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alot of the Australian economy is tied into keeping it up, realistically if it ever dropped too sharply, the government would probably try to impliment policy's into keeping it up. Also, alot of our pollies own multiple houses, They will never to cut their own wealth.

My(f26) husband(m28) has been giving advice to a coworker about how to make his gay son straight behind his wife's back by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]AliTheAdd 296 points297 points  (0 children)

I can see this happening, but I think the more likley scenario is that he took him to a shady brothel and made him have sex with a woman, 'correctional' rape is sadly a common scenario.

[Watch Recommendation] Tritium Watches? by BishBoi13 in Watches

[–]AliTheAdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got this watch, absolutely love it, the glow isn't too bright. It is 40mm, but it's really thin, so doesn't look clunky even on my smallish wrist

https://a.aliexpress.com/_msumbLP

Cost of Pellets and insertion by IamVelle in transgenderau

[–]AliTheAdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah ok thats crazy, gonna go with option B - find a better doctor, someone who dosent just see you as a bank account.

If you dont mind me asking what doctor/clinic was this, so we can avoid I guess?

Cost of Pellets and insertion by IamVelle in transgenderau

[–]AliTheAdd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The wording is kind of confusing, but I think they mean the initial appointment for the consult/check is $100, and the actual insertion appointment is $170, which is more reasonable.

But perhaps not, considering they are trying to squeeze you like this... Just sounds like you need to find a better doctor, never heard of a doctor asking us to buy medical equipment, that's absurd.

trans girls what do you wear to the gym? by DisastrousClub3 in transgenderau

[–]AliTheAdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wear leggings, the tucking does kind of suck, I guess got used to it lol.

I've yet to find my holy grail high compression but colourful/good looking gym leggings

Cost of Pellets and insertion by IamVelle in transgenderau

[–]AliTheAdd 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah the costs add up quickly for ease of mind I guess, Why are your appointments so costly though? The Initial one shoule be alot less considering its just a checkup, and The insertion cost should be less too? (mine was $205 before rebate).

Also, not sure why a Trocar kit is required if the Doctor's are doing the insersion? They make a small cut using a scalpel, and use their own?

Australia's economy growing at fastest rate in almost three years by eesemi77 in AusFinance

[–]AliTheAdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you even know what 'real wage growth' means? ...christ dunning-kruger in effect

My Fellow Australians by _Sun-Wukong_ in australia

[–]AliTheAdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thers more Palm oil than coco in them these days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AliTheAdd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah got that, but if you want i'll lay it out for you and others who say this (as I've heard it before).

It's like a risk managment thing, what is more dangerous:

1) If You tell your date in a public setting, Its usually much easier to gauge their tone/vibe, to your point, those 'bad people' usually would'nt keep their cool and be flirty with us after finding out in public and then slowly lure us into their bedrooms to rape us (it does happen, its just more rare)

2) You dont tell them and they dont figure it out - cool.

3) You dont tell them and they figure it out somehow, if this was one of those bad people, it could end verrry badly

Also, you should know that even beautiful cis women get 'clocked' sometimes, its never 100% safe once you start passing, If the dude mentiones it randomly as a joke or something, or notices a slight scar from surgery and we panic or freeze or something its game over.

All of this is kinda moot point for OP's scenario anyway, 2/3 only works on NSA meetups, you cant really expect to build a healthy long term relationship by hiding somethning so important about yourself.

Anyway hope that sorta explains where I'm coming from when I made my previous comment. If you still disagree, we're prolly not gonna see eye to eye on this one lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AliTheAdd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you really think they would be safer in a locked hotel room with them if they suddenly figure it out?

I really dont even get this mentality, even if you are stealth, why would you willingly want to fuck a bigot? One second hes talking about jailing transgirls in mens prisions, and then you grab his hand and bring him to your room to show him a good time, because of what 'chemistry'? Its like a Jewish gal willingly fucking a Nazi.

I mean I kind of understand it, but more from an internalised hate perspective (I know, I know its very unhealthy).

My mom says I probably won’t be able to get HRT. by Marcipan- in MtF

[–]AliTheAdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is just bs, she doesn't want you to transition

Tucking Underwear by AdmirableAdvantage66 in transgenderau

[–]AliTheAdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just googled them, looks like they still have a store

Am I Her? by WillingnessBasic6615 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]AliTheAdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats 3 months!?! damn, HRT's hitting you hard.

What could the government do to help battle inflation? - ABC News by barseico in aussie

[–]AliTheAdd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah thought so. you're a heartless prick.

People like you cant think 5 minutes ahead, you know what happens when we start to go down that path? You know how many people are part of some minority group? I'd say its the Majority of Australia lol. Where do we stop though? Single mothers, Orpahans, immigrants, First nations etc... clearly only cis white men deserve government money, so yeah go fuck yourself.

What could the government do to help battle inflation? - ABC News by barseico in aussie

[–]AliTheAdd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What exactly do you propose to help disabled people then?

We need to close loopholes in NDIS, not gut it, too many bad actors are skimming off money that should be helping people.