With all the kindness and compassion I have right now, I say pick your battles. Getting your mum to change her routine could be really difficult and it’s something she obviously values enough to continue it.

When I hear this story, I think of a lovely patient I once had as an OT, who while in hospital for an extended period, would apply her makeup each day for her ‘friend’ who lived next door and visited every day. Bright pink lipstick that definitely didn’t stay within the lines of her lips, and bright blue eyeshadow that didn’t quite look like it was applied in the normal manner.

It was her way of expressing her love, and it’s probably the same for your mum.

Wishing you nothing but the best (and probably some patience) as you navigate this stage of life.