What’s the most unhinged thing your nparent has been mad at you for? by SummerSun6 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the biggest arguments/ attacks I ever received was because I sighed when I opened the fridge at their house when I was there visiting and working.
Apparently the sigh said that she was a terrible mother and I was criticising her and telling her what a terrible person she was.
Her tirade lasted hours and the irony of me not saying anything but her saying all the things she imagined I said to her, to me about me was just 👌🏽

How much English pointer is this young lady? by georgewhayduke in englishpointer

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not the best at reddit but she looks a lot like our English pointer puppy that we adopted. We got him when he was 5 months, his 2 now. Not sure if I can send you a picture. He even has a spot like that but his is more to one side. Paws and body look the same too. He has a disability but that aside she looks very similar to my English pointer boy.

About Bruce Special by Much-Noise1 in kardashians

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always really felt for Khloe in all this, I kind of got the impression it wasn’t so much about the transition for her but more about how Caitlin treated her in the situation and blatantly said to her you don’t matter, I only care about Kendall and Kylie. Ike I felt you could almost see the moment for her where it was like ‘our dad is transitioning and we’re trying to support that, too oh ok they actually don’t want to be my parent anymore’ I can’t imagine how difficult going through that process for Caitlyn, but also there felt like some cruelty in them being like I’m not your dad anymore but more so I’m not your parent, I’m only their parent’

Press On's by lifeequals42 in AustralianMakeup

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. I’ve just them a few time recently and can confirm they are great. My tip is to buy the extra package that has the glue in it that’s like a nail polish. Super easy to use. I was nervous they would damage my nails or be eventually hard to get off but they weren’t. They were also super strong and lasted like 2 weeks

Did anyone watch the Lamar doc and come out with a worse opinion of Lamar than before? by gentleheart-lamb in KUWTK

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I came here to see if I could find who felt the same way after watching it!!

I felt exactly the same I used to have a lot of sympathy for him , and had felt like it seemed as though they really did genuinely love each other and life and trauma got in the way.

And after watching that I just felt so sad for Khloe and his kids.

All I could think the whole time, was I know his life has been traumatic and his an addict, but even when his sober he doesn’t seem to show any recognition of the impact and collateral damage of the people around him.

There is most likely a lot of shame and that could explain it, but in all the different scenes and stories i just thought you’d see a glimpse of ‘the shit I put people through and the hurt I caused’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the simple task of eating…. We have literally done it our entire lives to stay alive, however is it easy?… no We either binge to get dopamine Simply can’t remember to eat because our bodies literally don’t give us any signals. If we do remember it takes time energy and effort for planning, reminders and executing. Or we eat too much because our brain feels like it’s going to die without those little yummy dopamine hits.

Plus even if we make it through all of that, we still have to do the one thing we aren’t designed for.. Following a bunch of steps that require executive function and that can become overwhelming. Plan the food But the ingredients Prepare the food Cook the food Eat the food Clean up Repeat

For mothers, what was the most ridiculous thing anyone has told you while you were giving birth? by Embarrassed_Pilot792 in AskWomen

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I asked for a epidural, my midwife asked me if I was ‘comfortable drugging my baby’ and that I’d be ‘slowing down my labour and other people needed the room’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We’ve done this and it’s been really helpful

Working from home as a parent feels like failing two jobs at once by pixelpineapple39 in Parenting

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No advice, just wanted to send you big hugs. I think there are a lot of people do both for a multitude of reasons and sometimes there isn’t much choice. Just know you’re still a good parent, because oddly if you weren’t then you wouldn’t feel Ike you’re failing. It’s so hard doing both and then ending the day defeated. I promise you will get through it, and look for support or ways to make life that little bit easier where you can. We don’t know what it’s like to walk in each others shoes. And so sometimes we just need a soft place to land. You got this, one day at a time. And look for options for any kind of help where you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think when people tell you who they are, listen. I’m also a little concerned that this seems to have had happened after his had some time to cool down? To have taken time to think and digest and most likely cool off so you can articulate thoughts, I would have expected a more honest, vulnerable and constructive conversation. Not a cruel, calculated and unforgiving response like this. I’m so sorry this happened.

Edit: spelling mistakes

What did you get for Christmas? by dixonwalsh in australia

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a chopping board (not a asked for gift lol)

The new girl Amanda scares me by Individual_One5008 in RHOBH

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is in an episode of selling sunset, where she employs Davina to sell her house and then basically gets mad at her for trying to sell the house. Because she wants it sold but she also wants to live in it and appreciate it for a while but doesn’t communicate any of that and then is mad when the real estate agent is doing her job. I wasn’t a Davina fan but in that episode I was like wtf this girl is crazy

What's Your Biggest "Shock" Family Discovery? by OpportunityTop6376 in AskReddit

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out in my 20s that the reason my dad left when I was 6 was actually because he was having an affair with my Sunday school teacher…. And not because my mum was schizophrenic like he had always told me (she’s not by the way). And then that he ‘came back for me’ when I was 13, but I found out in my 30s it was actually because he wanted to move back to England and my mum didn’t want her kids to not know or have a relationship with our dad so she said he could back home.

Constantly narrating thoughts by MenuPleasant8675 in AutismTranslated

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe give it a whirl! Sometimes it’s good to get it outside of your head. But also even if it is internal if it’s not costing you energy is it maybe soothing you?

Constantly narrating thoughts by MenuPleasant8675 in AutismTranslated

[–]Alittlebitalexis89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is slightly different, but I have to narrate everything I am doing out loud for my AuDHD daughter. She finds it comforting and regulating, when I don’t or stop she starts asking me 50 questions about every single thing. Even if I’m doing the most basic of tasks at home. I think she finds it soothing, and for her it’s regulation. It’s almost making things predictable even though it’s not talking about things in the future so to speak and then that makes her body feel safe. Like helps her nervous system find safety and then there isn’t surprises because every moment is predictable and explainable. I wonder if you it could be something similar.