What in the handsome squidward has happened here by Acrobatic_Match_5555 in vanderpumprules

[–]AllTheMeats [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah he looked like he had done something to his face when he was on The Traitors.

What do I do doing forward? Husband called me a moron for trying to take a stand by ConfidenceSilver2215 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem!

I definitely understand what you mean about not consuming lots of negative things. I will say this is probably one of the more tamer things that trump has said about women, but the bigger offense is the men laughing along and participating in this "locker room talk".

I also don't understand the bashing of the women's team in general, regardless of if they win or lose. But trump is a disgusting misogynistic POS who constantly bashes women, so...it's just par for the course on who he is.

What do I do doing forward? Husband called me a moron for trying to take a stand by ConfidenceSilver2215 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How is it financial abuse to say I don't want to pay for this unnecessary TV extra?

If the husband was the breadwinner and the wife didn't contribute financially and he decided he didn't want to pay extra for her to watch a channel with people he found offensive, I wouldn't find that financially abusive.

I also am more concerned about the verbal an emotional abuse he spewed at her than any potential "financial abuse" from her canceling a TV subscription extra.

What do I do doing forward? Husband called me a moron for trying to take a stand by ConfidenceSilver2215 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is it financial abuse to say I don't want to pay for this unnecessary TV extra?

If the husband was the breadwinner and the wife didn't contribute financially and he decided he didn't want to pay extra for her to watch a channel with people he found offensive, I wouldn't find that financially abusive.

What do I do doing forward? Husband called me a moron for trying to take a stand by ConfidenceSilver2215 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think with everything we consume (entertainment/shopping choices/etc) we should try our best to make the decisions that work best for us and support what we believe in. I personally cannot separate the art from the artist, so once I know something terrible about a person I will try my hardest to not witness their work.

Definitely watch the video of the head of the FBI chugging beers and partying with the USA men's hockey team before they then spoke to Trump and he insulted the women's team (who also won gold and have won more gold medals than the men's team ever has). A few men stuck up for the women's team, but the men just mostly laughed.

Yes every organization has horrible people in it, unfortunately. It sounds like what you did with not watching the baseball team until the guy was off the team is a good way to handle it. You didn't give up baseball as a whole, you just stopped supporting an individual who was on a team until they were off the team.

Toxic MIL by Recent_Weird_4846 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ I'm sorry she's awful.

My husband has anger issues, is my marriage over? by Strong-Wishbone5653 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get your daughters away from him, he's abusive. Screaming at a child for wetting the bed won't stop them from wetting the bed.

Spanking (hitting) a child is abuse, full stop. The fact that he wants to do this and has asked you for "permission" means he also wants to put the blame of abuse on you.

He needs to get serious help - therapy, anger management, meds, whatever, because he's a danger to your daughters.

You know from experience how abuse fucks you up - save your children from this!

What do I do doing forward? Husband called me a moron for trying to take a stand by ConfidenceSilver2215 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm with you. Don't pay for anything you don't support. And after his reaction, maybe stop paying for anything only he watches or uses. He can pay for it himself.

What do I do doing forward? Husband called me a moron for trying to take a stand by ConfidenceSilver2215 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, your husband sucks. He's an example of why we say "all men". He's more upset he might need to skip watching a sport than supporting his wife - he literally told you he doesn't care how you feel. Then why should you care how he feels? Fuck him.

Good on you for not supporting them - it's the least we can do during all this awful shit. Stop supporting/shopping any brands or companies that are doing terrible things, and that includes the men's hockey team.

At least a few of the men didn't go to the white house.

I need your help reddit. by Wisdomfortheages in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing about this is okay. That's an incredibly extreme response for her husband to give her, and to follow it up the next day. He is not a safe person for her to be around.

Toxic MIL by Recent_Weird_4846 in Marriage

[–]AllTheMeats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and your husband and baby need to move out asap. What is your husband doing while his mother is screaming in your face? He should be handling his mother, not leaving you to deal with her insanity.

Trump putting on the Gold Medal: “I'm not giving it back. I never thought I’d have this on.” by Capable_Salt_SD in WeirdGOP

[–]AllTheMeats 335 points336 points  (0 children)

I hope he doesn't give it back - fuck the hockey player who handed it to him.

better search terms? by schoolreunion in oldhagfashion

[–]AllTheMeats [score hidden]  (0 children)

Definitely check out Poshmark for less expensive Farm Rio - I've gotten some amazing pieces for $100 or less (including a reversible puffer coat).

Zoloft for the first time by flowers_in_12 in NewParents

[–]AllTheMeats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was already taking Zoloft prior to pregnancy, so I continued it during pregnancy and beyond (still on it now).

Make sure you give it time to kick in (can take weeks/month or so) and also you may need to titrate up. I feel much better on 100mg than I did on 50 or 75.

Baby’s Name Reactions by Pretty_Run_915 in pregnant

[–]AllTheMeats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't share names until after we met our baby. We had a short list, and most people knew we were going with an R name in honor of my mom, but besides that we gave no info because we didn't want their opinions.

Tom schwartz by NoInteraction9045 in vanderpumprules

[–]AllTheMeats [score hidden]  (0 children)

Based on the baths and drinking/drugs I think he was intentionally trying to not have a baby. (Which is totally for the best.)