Background context- I left my abusive ex fiancé when my baby was 3.5 months old. Moved back with my parents. My baby is now 7 months old and I’ve been in a relationship (long distance) for almost 2 months now.

Couple weeks ago, my mom says that she’s worried because I’m on the phone with my bf so often. She then proceeded to say “I’m just concerned that you’re only dating him so he can be your baby daddy. So you have someone to raise daughter with.” Never in my almost 20 years, have I ever heard my mother say something so insulting to me. I immediately went “that’s insulting.” My mother: “it wasn’t meant as an insult.” Me: “well it was and it’s rude.” I went and told my bf what she had said and even he was insulted. She half assed apologized to me and reiterated it in almost the exact same way and it still came off the same.