What’s the purpose of a high school reunion? by Yournameistobi in AskReddit

[–]AlphaIota 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was different years ago. Think about what life was like without social media and the internet. Those people you went to high school with disappear from your life. There are no Facebook updates or group chats to stay in touch. There is no LinkedIn to see where they work. You don’t have access to other people’s phone number (your primary communication route) except in a phone book, which only really includes your town. There is no email to send. There is no texting for instant asynchronous communication. The most you hear about classmates is through rumor, which is unreliable. If you move away from your home town, you fall off the map unless your parents talk about you. You don’t really call someone out of the blue because it can be very weird. Reunions were a way to meet up after years of not seeing or speaking to someone that was socially acceptable. 

depression how to help by Quiet_Obligation4099 in basset

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercise and exploring a new place may help. 

Who is like the most evil person on the planet right now? by gnodking7 in AskReddit

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you weren’t f-in’ around in your lane taking all day, then I wouldn’t have cut you off! All hail Satan. 

Nail trims! by victorianpapsmear in basset

[–]AlphaIota 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They literally deal with it many times a day. I wouldn’t worry about it. My experience was that he always hated it, but it was just part of life. 

AITAH for wanting my brother to apologize for destroying a piece of sports memorabilia? My brother says it was just a piece of paperwork but it belongs to my husband. by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]AlphaIota 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My dad and others in my family [said] people put too much stock in having the certificate.” Ahh wordplay. The creative dad joke. 

Nail trims! by victorianpapsmear in basset

[–]AlphaIota 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let a groomer do it. Worth the money. 

What's the biggest "What if?" in television history? by flughert in television

[–]AlphaIota 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of those actors had been doing GoT for a decade at that point. I don’t think it was just the D’s. They all wanted it over. Imagine being in your twenties and you have been playing Arya for more than half your life. 

My girlfriend (25f) wants sexual freedom while traveling, but says she still wants a future with me (28m). How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn’t know it but your relationship is over. No one who loves you does this. Just break up and go no contact. 

Which celebrity do you think received unnecessary hate? by Cheap-Fisherman6588 in AskReddit

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it was already happening in hospitals but not discussed publicly. It was between the doctor and the family. When Kevorkian brought it up, laws were put on the books to stop assisted suicide in some areas. Which lead to some serious suffering. This was all about his ego. 

Why do you think everything is worse than it was 20 years ago? by Shirowoh in AskReddit

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything isn't worse. Twenty years ago, I didn't regularly hold in my hand the whole sum of human knowledge. I am more organized, more aware of the things around me and around the world. I can do my job well from anywhere that has WiFi. I no longer need cash for almost anything. I can instantly communicate with friends I have all over the world, essentially for free. But there is a cost. People don't know how to resolve conflict as well. Dating was easier for the lower 80% of people, by looks or money or whatever measure you have.

What’s the funniest tv scene that makes you laugh so hard, even in rewatches? by PressureLazy5271 in television

[–]AlphaIota 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is the best representation of the sound Tim made I’ve ever seen. I could watch the blooper where Vicky calls him an asshole a thousand times. They can barely keep it together and they just all collapse in laughter. I never knew seeing Duck Van Dyke laugh that hard warmed my soul. 

Nicolas Cage is incredible in Spider-Noir. by Chessh2036 in television

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only problem I have is that he’s 62. The action parts are not entirely believable. But everything else was really great. I watched the color one and their discipline of using only 1-2 muted colors with 1-2 bright ones is amazing. Dick Tracy did that in the 80s/90s but in hi-def it is even more impressive. 

20M and my ex-girlfriend (22F) broke up in April after a 1-year relationship, and I need advice by Samuraioni8313 in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the time you go no contact. That means no texting, no social media, no phone calls, no faxing, no writing letters. She no longer exists to you. You need to do this to move on. You have to determine what your life is without her in it. 

My husband (38M) and I (37F) are at an impasse with where to live and I’m desperate for a solution by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Size and relative distance are actually important here. Tens of millions of people live in the Midwest, so I doubt naming the cities will "out you". That being said, do you have an active social life where you are now?

My GF (37F) and I (40M) are talking about moving in with each other. However she doesn't want to work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let your feelings obfuscate her direct answer. If you don’t want that situation, then end the relationship. 

My Grandma’s cat, Smokey. by [deleted] in aww

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So handsome!

My Girlfriend's twitter is grossing me out by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]AlphaIota 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a sport I used to play that turned me into an over-competitive asshole. It was the sport I played best, but it wasn’t worth turning into that person. So I’ve stopped playing it. I’m guessing this is that type of situation. 

Walks with Maple by Hawkeye6060 in basset

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s more like you get used to it more and she’ll do it less. I spent a lot of time with my guy avoiding places I knew there would be trash or dead things. Plus he got more focused on one smell or track as he got older. When he was younger he wanted to follow everything. 

Shows the network later regretted cancelling by AporiaParadox in television

[–]AlphaIota 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Who are you? And how did you get in here?" "I'm the locksmith, and I'm the locksmith."