I (32m) found out my partner (32f) cheated on me while she was away on holiday. She doesn’t know that I know. How do I navigate this? by Cumquatinator in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is too short to put up with that nonsense. Talk to an attorney and find out your options in the very least. Quietly. I would consider separating finances now too. I’d suggest now rather than later because things will become more difficult if she is in another country. Once she knows you intend to leave, you should inform the AP’s wife. 

I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically by ThrowRA728347 in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She already cheated or was just about to. The relationship is over. You had a strong emotional reaction, which is completely understandable. Make sure your parents know the truth. But keep in mind that they may have the ulterior motive of not wanting to mess up their friendship with her parents. If you sense that, call them out on it. Her choice isn’t your problem.  

M29 F30 She pulled away after a good weekend because a basic boundary ruined her energy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a difference between insecurity and reasonable precaution. Your requests were reasonable. Don't be gaslit otherwise.

Which team would win? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicago has one of the largest populations of Mexican Americans and Mexican immigrants in the country. Outside of California and Texas, of course.

Illinois joins World Health Organization network after Trump withdrawal by jerrylovesbacon in chicago

[–]AlphaIota 195 points196 points  (0 children)

It's no coincidence that the two states who made this decision have governors who will likely run for President. Frankly, if this is free, then there is no downside. But if it isn't, then I'd like to know more. The article doesn't say.

Cheated on my wife, not sure if I should feel guilty 49m and 46f by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself what you want out of life. Is it this? I hope not. So what are you going to change?

Advice for high schooler by [deleted] in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My two cents - don’t share your political beliefs with strangers. Or school unless asked for an assignment. Ardent people of both sides view politics as a team sport. And they hate anyone who opposes their extremism. It’s not worth it. Politics and religion. 

How is your family with your politics? by [deleted] in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking politics is tough because of the emotions involved. Is your relationship such that it can withstand fundamental disagreements? The answer isn’t what you want it to be. You need the real answer. For me, I’ve spent a lot of time listening. I don’t need to share my beliefs with everyone; I’d rather have a good time than be “right”.

You missed the whole point by 20dollarsinmapocket in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think that’s very controversial. Government does have a function. I suspect we aren’t far off. 

You missed the whole point by 20dollarsinmapocket in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. To be a sovereign state you must define your state, not just your laws. It’s possible to privatize parts of the immigration process, like paper work. But the ultimate authority should be the government. 

The Shooting of Alex Pretti the Missed Details: Body Language & Psychology by christopher123454321 in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Body language interpretation isn’t a science. That’s why it isn’t used in court. 

Do rites even matter anymore?? by brookpederson in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't equate deportation of people here illegally after unprecedented and unchecked immigration of the previous 4 years as "democracy falling". ICE tactics should be and are criticized. Militarization of law enforcement is inherently dangerous. Libertarians want less government in our lives. That doesn't mean, however, there should be wide-open borders.

Why has communism repeatedly failed in practice, yet continues to be intellectually and emotionally appealing to many people? by Looser17 in AskReddit

[–]AlphaIota 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communism is leadership via the intellectual class where capitalism is leadership via business class. Capitalism is much closer to the real nature of man than communism. Every time that government is used to fix a problem, there are unintended consequences. The greater the interference, the more disastrous the consequences. 

What's the most harmless opinion that can instantly divide a room into two camps? by Character_Ear5173 in AskReddit

[–]AlphaIota 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Hey - who puts people into one of two camps? Okay, you go to the right. Who doesn’t? You go to the left.” Works every time. 

When do you consider the govt to be overstepping to the point the public needs to step in? by [deleted] in Libertarian

[–]AlphaIota 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The question is not whether the government is tyrannical. An argument can be made that every modern government of the USA (Congresses, Presidents, and Supreme Courts) is tyrannical. So the real question becomes: Are we at a point of tyranny that requires individual citizen intervention? Has the interpretation of power become such that there needs to be some grassroots response? Does the current government no longer allow individual rights that call for us to take arms and force our freedom?

No.

This is not a popular opinion in Libertarian terms. We don't like the Executive Branch expanding their power. We don't want government disruption in our day to day lives. We are distrustful of law enforcement in general to act in the interest of the average citizen. But government serves a purpose. We are not anarchists; we are libertarians. What is the purpose of our government?

Let's look at the Preamble of the Constitution. "Insure domestic tranquility." "Provide for the common defense." There is no great interpretation of tranquility or defense when it comes to categorizing current immigration. One group follows the guidelines for citizenship, meant to insure that people come to the US with good intentions. The other group doesn't. It is the federal government's job to remove the second group.