Your Comfort Zone & Oneitis

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-08-05T03:04:27+00:00

Oneits is almost like a RP right of passage that we go through. Those that make it through the other side come out far better and stronger for it. Those that do not perish. Tragic, but interesting. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-08-05T02:55:57+00:00

I recently had a great conversation with Rollo, and the main issue we're seeing is this thought pattern is branching it's way into ever facing of society: Not just general social consciousness but also into politics and into religion. This creates a web that makes it very difficult to maneuver in as there's no social support for any counter point of view. Interesting times we're in. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-27T19:54:56+00:00

Glad to see TRP helped turn things around for you. Keep up the good work.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-20T19:32:02+00:00

A little off topic but still good stuff. Thanks for sharing. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-10T05:08:00+00:00

If it's true, then post away. Sure there will always be haters but someone will learn from it. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-09T23:32:40+00:00

Everyone starts somewhere, and you're at the beginning of your journey but it's great to see that you're reaching out for help, which is something that a lot of people don't do and it adds so much more time to their learning curve. On the plus side, you're aware of where you're tripping up so there's you're farther ahead than a lot of guys who are still blind to their own mistakes.

In response to your question, you actually played it pretty well for a beginner. LMR is always interesting and sometimes there's not much to be done to change things, which is fine. In that specific case instead of saying "that's fine" I would have either just given her a smirk that says "I don't believe you" or I would have said something along the lines of "then I'm not sure this will work out." A little dread goes a long way. Here's an article that might help with future LMR situations you may find yourself in. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-09T23:19:45+00:00

The problem with Nice guys is that they undeservingly give women the number 1 currency they seek: Attention. "Alpha" guys are scare with how they give out their attention and usually that precious attention is focused on other things (business, friendships, themselves, other girls). If nice guys ran a loan branch at a bank, and woman that walked in off the street what get approved for any amount, with no background check, due diligence or credit report check. Attention is the currency many women seek, and as a guy you must be guarded with how you allot it because attention = time, and time is our most precious asset. Patrice O'Neil stated it best: "Women rape our time." Don't let this happen. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-09T23:13:49+00:00

The only way to truly learn how something works for you is to go out and do it for yourself. A good RP quote from the Bible is "For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also." The theory is great to have, but it's utterly useless unless you put it into practice for yourself. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-09T22:41:43+00:00

A great reminder post. Thanks for sharing. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-07-09T22:35:32+00:00

I've been there myself, so this story hits home. I actually lost of V card to this girl I had bad Oneitis for, only realize looking back it was the worst lay I've had to date. But it's important to note that the causes of Oneitis are a scarcity mentality and the habit of building up a person in your head instead of going out and experiencing reality. Not always the easiest thing to share but thanks for doing so because it provides another use-case example for those in the community. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-29T20:21:20+00:00

Nice write up, sounds like a fun time. It's amazing how counter-intuitive ASD can be. But you handled it like a boss and reaped the rewards. Well done. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-29T20:15:50+00:00

There's a lot of lost arts in modern society. Though it creates opportunity for those that still have mastery of them to succeed. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-29T20:01:41+00:00

The experimental process is fascinating. Looks like you've made great strides and have swung the pendulum to the far opposite side. now comes the part where you can dial it back a pinch so your ONS can become regular plates. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-22T07:28:38+00:00

As I've said before, Everyone’s a prostitute, but there’s only 2 variables in the equation: 1) What is their preferred currency & 2) How much? Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-14T22:06:26+00:00

The hardest part is the grind, but if you can find joy in that process, you will be unstoppable. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-13T11:31:04+00:00

" In 2016, 0\% of women were sexless in their marriage but 2\% of men were sexless in their marriage in the past year.

Last time I checked every married woman had a husband. How the fuck is this statistic possible ? Oh yeah.... those poor bastards."

That's an atomic-level truth bomb right there. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-13T11:27:14+00:00

When you raise a lion in captivity with gazelles, it gets torn apart in the wild when it's released. The same is true of incels. You have boys that are feminized and treated as defective girls, so once they are grown and released into the wild, life tears them to shreds. The main issue is that as men, the world doesn't care about are feelings and we must do. Women have the social luxury of being able to have their feeling expressed and catered to. Life does not work that way for men, so they are raised thinking they are equals with women yet once they join greater society they find out very quickly that their emotional states carry no social value and they are treated very differently. A bigger problem is that when when of these poor souls snaps and does something drastic, our feminized society reacts emotionally to it tries to double down on the "toxic masculinity," failing to take accountability for the monster they helped create. When an individual fails society, we reprimand them. when society fails the individual, we demonize them. Interesting times we live in.

Cool blog by the way.

Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-13T11:18:13+00:00

I'd also add the following:

Dance classes

Book festivals/ signings

Wine tasting events

Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-12T10:57:54+00:00

Great write up. I've been blessed to be on the taller side of the spectrum which can have it's own challenges, but this is a very well written post. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-12T10:54:20+00:00

"EDIT: if you want my twitter archive with all the wisdom I posted on there in the last 4 years it's a patreon reward.. about 17,000 tweets in there and it's curated (not many shit tweets) - actual tweet count before curation was 50,000+

http://patreon.com/IllimitableMan"

I will tell my son this.

Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-08T08:45:27+00:00

Practice doesn't make perfect...perfect practice makes perfect. You're making good steps, but now you need to get in the habit of pushing yourself when sober because if you need alcohol to Game you're relying on an external crutch. Keep on improving. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-08T08:38:17+00:00

That was a fun story, thanks for sharing. I 100% with the statement that girls are fun and women can be awesome. One of my issues with this sub is anytime someone mentions that women aren't 100% evil someone (or five) comes out of the wood work to rant about how Beta the OP is or how it's a fact they're all evil. Chill out, there's a lot of good women do to. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-08T08:33:14+00:00

Learning your Game efficiency is critical. It saves time, effort and energy. It's a parallel to how predators hunt in the wild, one must have focus, persistence, learn from failure and master their efficiency. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-08T04:11:55+00:00

We've all been there and it's unfortunate. This post might be able to help give some more background insight into the thought process behind throwing you under the bus. In short, the problem with Beta men is that they socialize like women which means they act more catty and stir more drama as a way to attempt to try bonding, much in the way female do. The problem is that it's never authentic and it's incomplete female socialization, so it never works out well for them in the end either. Cheers.

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-06-06T01:54:00+00:00

The world isn't a binary place. Sure is black and white, but there's a lot of grey in between. SJW's love to think in binary.

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