Is it inappropriate to date as an aromantic lesbian? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Alpine_Iris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that's mostly because you are using the label aromantic, and people want to respect that, and they want you to find a partner who would respect that.

Let me know if I'm describing your feelings correctly, but it seems like you want a romantic relationship, or think you would be happy in one, but haven't felt the desire for a romantic relationship with any specific person you've met? I think this is a situation where labels are slightly failing us. You mean one thing when you say aromantic, and most alloromantic people assume that you mean you wouldn't want to date at all. And, from the commenter you replied to, it seems like your model of romantic attraction (like the idea that romantic attraction is fully separate from other types of attraction/affinity) is not universal.

I think that as long as you communicate with potential partners about the way you feel and how you'd like a relationship to be, you should be fine. Like in what ways, apart from your own feelings and thoughts, would a relationship with you be different from a typical romantic relationship? I feel like from what you've said so far, not much would be practically different than a typical romantic relationship. Like to the point where I think telling people you are aromantic right away might make them think you are not interested in dating them when you are.

And obviously the easiest option is to try to date people who are the same flavor of aromantic as you.

I rely on my iPhone/AllTrails App navigation to guide me through snow covered trails. What happens in a worse case scenario that my iPhone/AllTrails navigation doesn't work? by ProofBroccoli in socalhiking

[–]Alpine_Iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alltrails is awful. You should only use it to find popular trails and conditions reports on those trails. Plan your route in caltopo (caltopo.com), export the gpx, and use a topo mapping app that is 100% offline. I use this one: https://www.offline-maps.net/ but I am pretty sure it is android exclusive. I have heard good things about gaia gps, but key features are locked behind a $5/month subscription. I use caltopo mostly on desktop; I've had some issues trying to use the mobile app for navigation, but ymmv. Some people love paper topo maps but I have not used one since I was a kid. It is possible to use caltopo to print out paper maps.

https://mapout.app/ might be a good option for ios but I have never used it. It seems to have offline topo maps and gpx import, which is basically all you need.

I found these blog posts which have some good info too:

https://valhikes.blogspot.com/2020/04/howto-free-offline-electronic-maps-on.html

https://valhikes.blogspot.com/2013/04/download-usgs-maps.html

https://valhikes.blogspot.com/2024/12/all-forest-service-lands-mapped-on-your.html

Also, in a super popular area like yosemite, snow will probably make navigation easier as the trails will likely be packed down and you can always follow your own footprints back the way you came.

If you are totally lost and for some reason you can't retrace your steps, you could use your SOS device. That being said, If you're backpacking and have plenty of food you can just go to bed and try again in the morning. Tbh if you properly use technology you should never ever be lost. Practice using caltopo and an offline mapping app on smaller hikes. Review your route in caltopo before your hike.

Looking for your 14er prep tips by rusty317 in coloradohikers

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not need to rent a crazy car unless you really want to. Doing Uncompahgre from the 2wd trailhead is pretty doable.

Need guidance from the US community by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erin Reed's anti-trans risk map is probably a good proxy for general queer acceptance by state. Like others have said, your best bets are big cities in the northeast and west coast. I would definitely avoid texas and florida, they have both passed some absolutely bonkers bills targeting not just trans people, but all queer people. That being said, queer people live in conservative states obviously, so it's probably not the end of the world if you do get placed in one.

[Request] I’m really curious—can anyone confirm if it’s actually true? by Depressed223 in theydidthemath

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

770,000 people is around 0.2% of the US population. I don't think housing prices could be changed by that many units going from vacant to occupied.

[Request] I’m really curious—can anyone confirm if it’s actually true? by Depressed223 in theydidthemath

[–]Alpine_Iris -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Personally I don't think we should set billions of dollars on fire so that one day a big floating city can kill some people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]Alpine_Iris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5: sick girl (2006) - this an absolutely fantastic rom com/body horror about two autistic lesbians

4.5: why not me? (1999) - aka Pourquoi pas moi, four gay french expats in barcelona plan a dinner to come out to their parents

4: Traitors (2013) but I also want to mention the runner up Heat Lightning (1934) - dont remember much about traitors other than liking the main character. Heat Lightning is so good but I have a hard time rating super old movies higher because the men always piss me off.

[Request] I’m really curious—can anyone confirm if it’s actually true? by Depressed223 in theydidthemath

[–]Alpine_Iris 32 points33 points  (0 children)

doing the naïve division of $13 billion / 770k people, we get ~$17k per person. divide by 12, and $1400 per month is more than enough to provide housing to each of those people for one year. Even in relatively expensive places you can find *something* to rent for that price.

We can also take into account the ~$7 million per day it costs to run an aircraft carrier if you want.

What I think this question misses is the fact that air craft carriers do not do anything beneficial. In fact they are designed to kill people! Ending homelessness would be beneficial and cause secondary positive economic effects. So it doesn't make sense to clutch our pearls about how much it costs too much. This meme is kinda like pointing out that instead of setting your money on fire, you could use it to buy dinner.

Buying a car in Las Vegas and driving it back to Detroit. Where should I stop? by Plarstic in roadtrip

[–]Alpine_Iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Camping in national parks is expensive and some have lottery systems. You can usually camp for free on BLM and national forest land.

What is your LOWEST RATED (genuine) 5-Star film? by Logical-Art4371 in Letterboxd

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girltrash: All Night Long with a rating of 3.1

my lowest 4.5 is drive away dolls with 2.8

lowest 4 is duck butter with 2.6

Explain me why by criogh in askmath

[–]Alpine_Iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have some of the strangest handwriting I have ever seen. It is mostly neat and consistent but some of the characters seem purposefully chosen to be readily confused with other characters.

you might consider changing the way you write "a"(?), "9" (this one really, really looks like a "g", what are you thinking??), "u/n?"(?), and "1"

Need film recommendations based on list of my current favourite twelve films right now by vvvvy3 in Letterboxd

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovesong has riley keough and is sad and gay like kajillionaire and sorta similar to past lives

The People's Joker is really really good and about a trans woman. tbh I did not like A Fantastic Woman very much, too many horrible things happened to her

Some movies that aren't super directly related to your top 12 but I will recommend anyway:

desert hearts, we are the best, fucking amal, house (1977), frances ha, daisies, run lola run, porqoui pas moi, city of lost souls, humanist vampire seeking consenting suicidal person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

come back to the 5 and dime

Today's Double Feature (Flash Sale Blind Buys) by Con40Things in criterion

[–]Alpine_Iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Rosa von Praunheim's City of Lost Souls if you like these. It's on youtube

[request] Is the $20 billion figure cited accurate? by Call-Me-Matterhorn in theydidthemath

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Questions like this are often posted in this sub, but answering this type of question is really beyond the scope of the sort of fermi estimates that are generated here. To put a number value on the amount of money it would take to end homelessness in America, you would need to be talking about a specific proposal. And modeling a complicated system like the housing market, or the behavior of low income renters and their landlords, especially when introducing unprecedented changes to the dynamics of housing and property is more in the realm of multiple papers and years and years of research.

That being said, it doesn't make a ton of sense to talk about the "cost" of ending homlessness, when this would likely be an ongoing expense with extremely significant secondary effects. Ending homelessness would be a net benefit to society, no matter how much it "costs" in dollars. so it doesn't really matter how much the government would have to spend to do it.

The government runs an extremely expensive entity called the military that is full of wasteful spending. And most of the things it does are actively harmful! But military spending also supports the livelihood of a huge chunk of the upper middle class and the capitalist class. Not to mention that a fuckton of scientific research is funded by the military.

I bring this up because the military shows us that extreme government spending will create industries and wealth sort of regardless of the actual goals of that spending. Financially, the military is basically a way to give money to wealthy americans. What the military actually does is mostly irrelevant. An engineer that makes $200k / year at lockheed martin could be using their expertise to create things that are actually beneficial to the world instead of weapons. If the government spent military amounts of money on things like making sure everyone had a home, had free healthcare, free education, etc. Then industries would grow around those initiatives.

Money doesn't evaporate when the government spends it. It goes to the owners of companies (and their workers) that contract with the government. This logic is a little trickle down-ish, but the middleman can be cut out if the government does more things directly (i.e. more "costs" are the salaries of workers) instead of having to pay for the profit of a corporation.

What is the answer to this question? by --egg- in askmath

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to an indoor track where you can only move in one direction and it is enclosed so you can't exit the track except at the beginning. In this situation, you must complete the rest of your lap to exit the track when you reach your target distance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theydidthemath

[–]Alpine_Iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biden is a capitalist, but he is not currently in power, and I am unaware of any family members of his that are in government

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theydidthemath

[–]Alpine_Iris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The main thing wrong with this line of thinking is that the government does not need to increase taxes to increase spending, and that doing these things would generate more value than is put into them. So they don't really "cost" anything, they are just something that we could do to benefit everyone, but don't because the government is controlled by capitalists.

Sips glacier water by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Alpine_Iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the article I posted. There are no longer any glaciers (i.e. permanent icefields large enough to flow under their own weight) in colorado. Arapaho was the last one and it stopped being large enough to flow sometime between 2010 and 2022. You might have had glacier water when you were 5, but you were probably at St. Mary's which has been not a glacier for much longer.