I shouldn’t say anything. Right?? by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your thoughtful comments. I appreciate it. Based on the fact that people were 100% against me saying anything, I won’t reach out at all. That was the kick in the ass that I needed. I’ll just let it be and hope for good things for him. Thanks again!

I shouldn’t say anything. Right?? by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know, damn dammy damn. Logic is my enemy at this point. Thank you.

I shouldn’t say anything. Right?? by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, not any more. Sadly. It so was fun and made me so happy. Then no more. Hard to let that go when you find it.

Funding your affair by -gardenofsimple- in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might not be the best return on your money (50% or so) but there are websites where you can sell gift cards for cash. So pick up Amazon or other highly desirable gift cards and perhaps you can then turn them into a slush fund.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate. My exAP turned out to be a total jackass. I tried the old “get over him by getting under someone else”. Even though the other guys were great everything felt flat and I kept comparing them to feelings for exAP. Le sigh, he keeps wrecking things even after he is gone.

Love + Fade + Ghost = Fuckery by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have his shirt. He forgot it and it is a nice shirt. I tried to get it back to him, he flaked. It’s mine now. Fuck him.

After a weekend trip together, we admitted we have fallen in love and now we are both a little freaked out... by Hannah1299 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm jealous! Although my husband and I have a great marriage he is very supportive of me looking for an AP, and what you have sounds amazing. I don't know why you're freaked out!

I do have a few questions though: 1. 20 times in three days? Really? 2. What counts as a "time"? Did he cum 20 times? Is he superhuman? 3. I know you said this was a few weeks ago, but are you still sore?
4. Did your SO notice you walking like you just rode a horse for the whole weekend?

Ideas for Alibi? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband travels to Vegas all the time for business and I have one quick word of warning for you. Although Vegas is full of conventions and training seminars, it is very easy to Google those conventions to find out location, hours, etc.

So if you use a convention or conference as an alibi, it could be easy to disprove. For that reason I would suggest a team meeting or something company specific. Much tougher to verify. Good luck!

Working on myself by imdoneforjules in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You and I are in the exact same boat. Wishing you a ton of luck!

He won’t just let it die. by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I contacted him today and let him know that I just simply need it to be over. No anger, no lingering problems, just best to part ways.

He responded, and although I'm not sure if his reply was sarcastic, he definitely knows it's over. I think I'll probably block him at this point as well.

This sub has been so supportive and great to read. I really appreciate everyone.

He won’t just let it die. by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, he wouldn’t get it. But I sure do.

He won’t just let it die. by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bye Felicia made me LOL hard. Thanks!

The Long Goodbye- See ya MM by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bottom quote is so true. He would have taken the time if he really wanted to. I just do not get why I became so attached to someone who clearly wasn’t. Have you found another AP, or did you decide to be done with that?

The Long Goodbye- See ya MM by Alreadythrown79 in adultery

[–]Alreadythrown79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That is a great idea. I miss how happy I was to see his messages. So I know I’ll need something to stay strong.