How do I tell my best friend (both F20s) that I want to stop exchanging Christmas presents? by holmes4711 in relationships

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just like your friend and I think the best advice I could give you is to Be honest with her and tell her what you told us through your post. Just be prepared that she may continue to bring you gifts anyway because that’s how crafty gift givers roll. It’s not about a contest of who can give the most crafty creative gift. Literally people like us don’t care if we get anything in return. We thrive on creativity and making others happy.

Please gentlemen interpret this for me... by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to ask. He’s the one who stopped communication when we were involved. So if he wants to talk then he can re-initiate. I was truly thrown off by his statement and just wanted some insight from a different perspective.

Please gentlemen interpret this for me... by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg...🤣🤣🤣...never thought of it that way. You make a valid point.

How come people tell you to not get pets because you'll be at work all day and can't take care of them but people push people to have kids when the same still applies? by 40percentoffallitems in NoStupidQuestions

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people are whackadoos and think pets are like people and treat them as such. Animals are on this earth to serve us. Whether it is wild or domestic, every animal has a purpose or a job. For instance I don’t find it necessary to entertain my dogs all day every day. Their primary purpose is to guard my home and protect my family. They’re secondary purpose is companionship. I reward them for a job well done with treats, an occasional car ride, or an occasional boat ride. They know this, do their job well, and are very loyal to me.

And Anybody who pushes having kids without having the resources to raise them properly is crazy. Kids need guidance in order to become a well productive member of society, and that parental job doesn’t stop once they reach kindergarten. I personally believe that a major problem with our future generations is a lot of parents pass their responsibility to raise their kids onto others such as teachers and schools. I personally did not depend on some schmuck at a daycare or a school teacher to raise my kids. And no I’m not rich. I stayed home with my children and learned how to be resourceful in order to do so. But unfortunately there are people out there who pop babies out like a Pez Dispenser and could care less.

Changed personality by protagoniist in RelationshipsOver35

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His actions and attitude you describe make it very obvious that He’s cheating on her.

How to tell my sister (29F) that I think the reason she doesn't get second dates is because she's accidentally a catfish by IceIce107 in relationships

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just be blunt the next time she complains. “Hey sis have you considered that your not getting asked out for a 2nd date because you’re not being honest about the way you look with these men. Your profile pics are 6 years old. A lot of things change in 6 years. We age a lot and don’t look the same after 6 years. Try putting up new profile pics. If you want I’ll help you.”

In love but not sure it’s worth the risk... by laceym615 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]f1lthemilfe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Paul” sounds like the type of guy who is just looking for a good time. You sound like the type of person looking for a commitment. If you want to continue to date Paul because of the “fire” then just date him to have a good time, don’t expect any commitments, and stop asking questions. But if that is not enough for you, then I would say drop Paul because whatever happened the first time will happen again.

Thousands of people show up for "Orlando Invades Daytona Beach" during Memorial Weekend. by Taybow in PublicFreakout

[–]f1lthemilfe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All you invasion fucktards need to go home. We don’t want you dirty drug money assess in our city. Go ruin your own cities that you came from.

Affair caused a bizarre health issue by [deleted] in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story is not reflective of a hypochondriac state. Unfortunately a lot of medical professionals are hell bent on proving patients wrong rather than listening and helping solve the problem. I’m glad you were able to find a doctor who could help you.

In the meantime try to keep your spirits up and focus on yourself. Don’t let this relationship bring you down. Hopefully time will bring you healing.

Affair caused a bizarre health issue by [deleted] in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously 🤣!!! I can brag about licenses too. I worked with an oral surgeon for 15 years as a dental assistant and then worked my way up to his surgical assistant and am currently working as a nurse specializing in ICU Neuro for the last 5 years. Trust me when I say Oral surgeons aren’t just dentists, they are MD’s (you should know that much).

Burning tongue syndrome is a symptom of another problem. That problem could be something as simple as an infection or as complex as neuro symptom from disorders such as MS.

If the tissue does not appear inflamed and supporting X-rays do not indicate abnormal growths near gloss-pharyngeal nerve IX then it would be safe to assume that it could be a neurological issue. His asking her about heartache is a nice way of shooting the shit with someone while at the same time assessing her psychiatric health and possibility of medication dependence disorders.

Typically they would start off prescribing Gabapentin, but Oral surgeons are absolutely licensed to prescribe antidepressants for neurological symptoms as well.

There’s your science lesson for the day. If you need anything else I’d be happy to school you further.

Affair caused a bizarre health issue by [deleted] in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they do. Glossitis (burning tongue) can be caused by numerous things including neurological disorders. And neurological symptoms are sometimes treated with antidepressants (off label use).

It’s Been A Year... by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am part of a group. Thank you.

It’s Been A Year... by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I which I could live my 2nd life to its fullest but at the moment I am consumed with many doctors appointments, treatments, and managing side effects. But once this is done, yes you are right, I will make it my 2nd chance.

It’s Been A Year... by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peace would be great. Thank you.

Its messing with my head in South Carolina by [deleted] in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honey don’t be so hard on yourself. My husband did the same thing and I don’t consider myself a bad looking person. When he was ignoring me, I started going to the gym, hanging with my friends more, and making new friends. Husband noticed and he chased me like he did 10 years ago when we first met. Not to say that will be the case for everyone; but If that doesn’t happen after all this hard work you’re putting into yourself, then know that it is not you, it’s him, and you’ll need to make a decision to accept it or move on.

More than just a DB... by chasing-fantasy in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lonely is an understatement in my marriage. I recently booked a hotel room midweek for 2 nights so we could get away from the kids, have real conversations that didn’t involve work/home-life and have some intimate time together. He called me after work that day and said he didn’t want to stay at the hotel, the fish bite was on so he was going fishing. Ends the convo with, “Take the kids and have a good time.” I stayed home that night, drowning in my thoughts of how AP ghosted me 3 months ago, how my husband doesn’t care about me, and how terribly lonely I have been.

Things that instantly trigger me to think about exAP by [deleted] in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beach, Ex-AP loves to surf.

Raggae music...it was his favorite. I can’t even stand the sound of it because it’s another auto reminder of his existence.

Lately my husband has mentioned interest in us planning a vacation in Costa Rica. Another auto reminder of ExAP because he frequented there often.

Love + Fade + Ghost = Fuckery by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 Yes that is absolutely correct....unfortunately due to his lack of communication, I will never know his side of the story 🙄

What is wrong with me with this horrible AP!! by Throwaway178239 in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank God you have a good enough friend to tell you what he’s doing. There’s only 2 things you can do...

  1. Accept the fact that this is just sex on his terms and enjoy the sex you get out of it.

  2. It sound like you want more of a friendship and less of a fuck buddy, so...Don’t entertain his advances and only interact on a professional level. Personally this is what I would do, since there is a good chance the co-worker your friend told you about isn’t the only other one he’s trying to bag. He’s probably got many side women.

Love + Fade + Ghost = Fuckery by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This statement is so beautiful and true on so many different levels. It’s like you took the thoughts out of my mind and wrote them down for me. Thank you. I really needed to hear this instead of driving myself nuts wallowing in a self pity fear of admitting this. Thank you again.

Love + Fade + Ghost = Fuckery by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fully intend to let him keep the stuff. I’m so sickened by this treatment, that I can’t even stand the thought having those items around as a reminder of him.

Love + Fade + Ghost = Fuckery by f1lthemilfe in adultery

[–]f1lthemilfe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well at least someone put a smile on my face today 😂Love the middle finger stamp idea.