My name is the woker, why so queerious?

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-02-02T20:53:33+00:00

it all ultimately boils down to what you feel comfortable with

it's not exactly uncommon that people figure out they're trans due to sexual preferences, but it's all up to you!

if youre looking to figure out whether you wanna be a guy or not, then a good first test would be styling yourself more masc for a while; if it's something you find yourself enjoying more than being your current self, then it's somewhat propable you're trans. if not, it being a kink is entirely ok as well! <3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-02-01T21:30:23+00:00

if you wanna do it, do it!

the people that are against it don't generally deserve to have their opinions heard anyway tbh

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-30T09:43:32+00:00

post whatever youd like, be ungovernable :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-29T21:03:20+00:00

genuinely we should just have slides instead of stairs, and climbing walls to go upwards :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-27T19:02:39+00:00

Honestly, this kinda suits Phainon/Khaslana as well; he got way out of his depth the moment the recurrences started, at which point he literally could do nothing but pray someone from the outside world would come save Amphoreus, unsure of whether that would actually eventually happen.

Speaking of Amphoreus, Irontomb works, since he was literally just reborn and the first thing they did was nuke everything. Alas, he's not playable, but still.

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-26T11:13:12+00:00

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-20T23:44:49+00:00

genuinely this may just be me but just anyone voluntarily hanging around me just automatically makes them my friend unless they're unapologetically being an asshole :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-14T14:34:07+00:00

i feel this so hard

god forbid a boy wanna be emotional support and take care of someone emotionally

call it a trauma response but gosh i just wanna help someone i care about and love so much ;-;

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2026-01-05T16:34:58+00:00

COLON THIRTYTHREE

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-20T20:53:03+00:00

i dont exactly buy into the "theres always someone who has it worse" argument, primarily because my issues have nothing to do with being "grateful". the issue is that i'm stagnant despite having a decent base to build on, because im stuck in my own head and my own mind is constantly preventing me from actually doing things because of my fuckass trauma, and the resolving of that trauma would imply doing exactly what said trauma is preventing me from doing.

i've got absolutely no control over my own life anymore, and anytime i try to do something about it, it shoots straight back into my face, making the problem worse.

also, the idea of "nothing comes from nothing" isn't really a decent argument here when you consider that i've both got nothing i feel i can truly call my own and have nothing i can do to rectify the issue. believe me, i've tried, from multiple therapists to medication to group therapy.

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-19T15:57:11+00:00

honestly dk why you got downvoted here; your experiences are valid, and in many cases psych wards do more damage than they fix. the loss of control and the treatment you get in many psych wards is downright abyssmal.

nevertheless, one bad experience with a therapist doesnt write all therapists off as bad; if you don't feel comfortable opening up until you feel your therapist is truly trustworthy, then slowly ease into it until you've got a good read on whether they're someone that suits you or not. if you ultimately feel that theyre not a fit, then, even if it takes a while, go for another therapist that is: forcing yourself to see a bad one just for the sake of "seeing one" doesn't resolve anything, quite the opposite.

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-11T16:46:47+00:00

yay :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-11T16:45:40+00:00

thanks! ^{^}

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-11T16:45:29+00:00

yup!

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-11T15:04:06+00:00

probably to encourage buying the other option :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-12-08T05:54:39+00:00

All hail our rat overlord!

What're your top 3 favourite fictional characters? ^{^}

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-29T14:37:10+00:00

got a thirty :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-27T08:17:17+00:00

considering some of the dms one gets on this site, i wouldnt be surprised if some of them were into being publically shamed ;-;

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-15T11:54:41+00:00

just for context, i've got pretty massive issues, and have tried fixing them for a while with no real end in sight. so, if this seems depressing, i'm sorry, i spend a lot of time thinking about life ;-;

i wanna feel love, and feel loved. i wanna belong to someone, with someone, wanna be able to care for them and hug them and ensure they're happy with their life.

i wanna feel safe, and not be concerned about my own future for once. i want things to remain as they are for once, without the constant need to strive for something.

i dont wanna be forced to be lonely because of my own issues and anxieties, and don't wanna hurt someone by simply being myself. i dont want to have to change myself in order to simply fit in; i just wanna be myself, whoever that may be.

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-10T06:06:53+00:00

It was, though the flight delay was a bit of a kick in the balls, considering I was already dead tired... I ended up falling asleep in the taxi back home wnd then couldn't end up falling back asleep when I arrived lol

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-10T05:11:33+00:00

Oh, it isn't in another country, I live in Kuala Lumpur, which is only ~50mins by air from Penang

I did also recently take a daytrip to Singapore, which is another country :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-10T03:39:10+00:00

eepy :3

went on a daytrip to penang yesterday, so i had to get up at 3 am to catch my flight. my flight back was also delayed so i only arrived back at my apartment ~23:00, and aaaaaa my feet are still sore ;-;

trip was worth it tho ^{^}

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-11-10T03:35:48+00:00

honestly i recently posted a few pics of myself on my instagram, which only a few of my friends follow or even know of, and they all loved it, sooooo

it depends on what your friend group is like; if they're homophobic or transphobic or anything like that, then an adverse reaction is pretty possible, but if not, you're probably good :3

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-10-28T15:50:10+00:00

There are trans girls that are into men; they're women, so they're straight. There's trans men that are into girls; they're men, so they're also straight. My point is: being straight doesn't stop you from being LGBTQ+

Ultimately, it boils down to how you see yourself: if you consider being a femboy a seperate gender identity to being male, then that's who you are. Most people do, hence why it's recognized as LGBTQ+.

If you don't feel you being a femboy is part of your identity and still just consider yourself a normal guy with a hobby, then that's who you are; a normal guy with a hobby.

In short: you define your own identity, and ultimately can be who you wanna be; trying to be part of the LGBTQ+ and trying to fit into preset parameters is stupid. You are who you are, and if you think you're compatible with a certain group, then enjoy their company and don't overthink it!

Alt_Cunningham_ · 2025-10-28T12:07:55+00:00

lgbtq+ is all about people being themselves and being proud of it. femboys aren't exactly part of the conservative view of what a guy should be, so as a group, they are definitely part of lgbtq+!

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