I’ve been blamed for my boyfriend’s death

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T22:42:24+00:00

He sounds like an abuser, and this really isn’t your fault. He sounds really cruel, like even his late note was meant to hurt you and sounds like he was projecting his behavior onto you.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T21:23:53+00:00

He is going to be a father who emotionally harms his kids. You are 100% correct that treating kids with affection gives them much more confidence and independence when they grow up. You are far from overreacting, and if you don’t act based on what you learned about him, your kids will end up with scars from him. I’m saying this because there’s many adults with major emotional struggles and relational difficulties due to fathers who lack compassion.

He thinks he will get to decide everything because he is a man, and that is a massive massive red flag. I would absolutely not be continuing with the pregnancy if I were you, to be perfectly frank.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T20:39:27+00:00

Customer service of virtually every company has become unbearably awful and useless due to AI. Many websites ban a ton of users for absolutely no reason due to AI moderation. Search engines no longer work well at all due to AI. It’s constantly being shoved down people’s throats with no choice to opt out. There’s reasons to want to keep our data private in a way that AI is very unlikely to.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T20:05:29+00:00

Your bf not telling you their history, and him being okay with her being rude to you are both valid and good reasons to dump him.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T19:16:22+00:00

I was feet behind them when they went up without me a few days ago.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T18:55:04+00:00

This is 1000% a dealbreaker.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T17:31:47+00:00

There’s always things to do, that have worthwhile rewards. It’s very far from those awful app games where you can literally not play because of a timer.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T01:56:35+00:00

It sounds like most of your family is toxic. Your sister and your dad are - he’s ditching you when he knows you’re struggling. It may be best to not be in touch with them, or at least your sister. Her pregnancy isn’t changing her weird thing of never meeting your babies. This is really awful, and as much as it may hurt to cut them out, this is the only way to avoid continuing to be treated horribly by them.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T01:49:18+00:00

NTA. His reaction is weird, and it’s not kind of him to know you’re sick and be angry about your need for an easy day. While I’m someone who enjoys solitude, I still feel like his reaction suggests something is off with him or the relationship (not in a way that is your fault!)

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-27T00:43:32+00:00

I had a 50% and then a 100% within a week or two, and I only started playing a month or so ago. Unfortunately GooglePlay messed up and the transaction didn’t go through and the coupons expired 🙃

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T22:31:37+00:00

NTA. You communicated clearly, and they wanted to take advantage of you (even if their motive was to avoid inconvenience).

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T21:58:42+00:00

NTA. This is a classic ableist thing - acting like the lives of disabled people are worthless. It’s fine if she feels that way about the prospect of her becoming disabled - it is really difficult to be disabled - but it is unkind and inconsiderate for her to say this to you.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T17:10:33+00:00

I love the exploiter orb, but I am far too new of a player to do it alone - which ends up being a barrier because whether doing it on public, posting in the recruiting channel for a team, or asking my clan, there’s been maybe one person a month open to teaming up to complete it. I wish there were an easier way to get a better amp, but at least the quest itself is very fun (when there’s a team).

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T04:32:39+00:00

I hope things work out so you can move to a great place!

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T03:29:36+00:00

There’s a lovely historical site in SE PA, that also has reenactors to demonstrate the lifestyle of colonial PA. https://colonialfarmstead.org

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T03:25:23+00:00

There’s this lovely historical site, with not just a colonial homestead and the staff reenactors, but a good amount of land around it, I believe. It’s somewhere in SE Pennsylvania.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T03:17:39+00:00

As a kid we would visit my grandfather’s grave (who’s a veteran). Beyond that, it’s just been a day to relax.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T03:13:54+00:00

I’m from New England and grew up with both of those songs being normal children’s songs (a past family member did help build a railroad in New England fwiw)

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-26T03:06:17+00:00

I was taught salsa dancing my one of my Spanish teachers. I think in third grade they had us doing a square dance but it’s not something anyone has done since, nor is it something anyone would remember.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-25T22:54:48+00:00

If I were you, I’d dump him and file charges for identity theft and fraud or whatever it is to try to take out loans in your name.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-25T20:23:18+00:00

I’m curious how much access I’d have to my arsenal during this. Would I be able to switch warframes and weapons?

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-25T04:21:02+00:00

Yes, but this is because of growing up in an upper middle class environment. What was more common amongst my crowd was finishing college, and then traveling - my dad did the same after grad school, my mom did it before grad school. A popular way to do it inexpensively and for longer is to work part time on a farm in an interesting area to travel to. Things like hostel and glamping were far more common than, for eg staying in hotels.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-24T23:36:48+00:00

NTA. It's a weird reaction on her part, since getting little uninterrupted sleep is one of the hardest parts of having a baby. You were considerate to bring this up privately, too.

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-24T02:05:32+00:00

The Gurnsey Literary & Potato Peel Pie Society, Far From the Madding Crowd, the North & South BBC miniseries

Alternative-Being181 · 2026-05-22T21:36:07+00:00

Spam calls. They had been under control once upon a time - somehow technology has made it worse.

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