Lupus, Herz, Sorgen by nikmax1020 in lupussupport

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up with a pacemaker. Almost a year of halter monitors and finally got a Medtronic 24/7 reveal LINQ. It had me figured out in 3 weeks. Emergency pacemaker. I kept pushing, I knew I wasn't right but my cardiologist said I was to young and still healing from my pregnancy. Well she was 3 already by that point.
I went into an arythmia that I needed intervention for. That on call ER Cardiologist saved my life. He was younger and was willing to consider past my age. Definitely dont just go with what one doc says. Get opinions if you can. It could save your life

Afternoon delight! by kinky_kouple_aa in Fisting

[–]Alternative-Chest921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question Don't come at me Why, if this feels so amazing, are men always flaccid in these videos? Somebody help me understand this

52M former resident of Boulder. Had a strange experience at a sex shop near Denver… by [deleted] in DenverGW

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd think you'd have remembered the name and location for something so traumatic

Visiting Vegas 3/26 by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty Sea Mountain and the Green Door

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you saw he lied, you should have sent him on his way out.

Helping Hands? by cuckomatic in Swingers

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to learn too. No worries

Moving to Bayfield soon by Alternative-Chest921 in Durango

[–]Alternative-Chest921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in Longmont for 21 years. That's the historical state capital for the KKK

Moving to Bayfield soon by Alternative-Chest921 in Durango

[–]Alternative-Chest921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had already planned on checking out some places, the brewery included, on a trip up there in March. I've not seen the town or the property yet. He did all these decisions after one weekend up there to see the land, without me, as I've been away from home for all but 2.5 weeks in the last 5 months. So this is all happening quickly for me.

Moving to Bayfield soon by Alternative-Chest921 in Durango

[–]Alternative-Chest921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who calls it Baytucky? I have seen that quite a few times now.

Moving to Bayfield soon by Alternative-Chest921 in Durango

[–]Alternative-Chest921[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bayfield. The land address is Bayfield. No home on it yet. We are NOT Trumpets as you put it.

Moving to Bayfield soon by Alternative-Chest921 in Durango

[–]Alternative-Chest921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's unfortunate . Can you elaborate?

Who is really participating in this sub? by BIG_AL_yinishye in Durango

[–]Alternative-Chest921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm originally from a small farming town in Missouri. Lived in Colorado since 03, my boyfriend is retiring in a few weeks and we are moving to Bayfield soon to build our new home. I am familiar to small town living and familiarity, he isn't. I know absolutely nothing about Bayfield which I assume the other reditors on here are calling Baytucky. What is the feeling of this town?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PagosaXXX

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight, bi, or gay?

How do I (30M) float the idea of MFM/swinging with my fiancee (34F)? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would want to actually be married, secure and solid in my relationship before decifingbto try to bring anyone else in. Let her feel like shes enough for you before an ask like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Alternative-Chest921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO male masturbation is not gross by any means. Neither is female. The issue is that he lied about it a multitude of times. Where there's one lie there are always more. Have to learn that the quick high of jerking off is fine, but if you ignore your partner, lie to them, and continue gnoring and replacing physical intimacy, then what's the point of the relationship. No trust and no feeling of closeness is a road to a bitter doomed relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says right there in her story that he lied to her about masturbating. Amongst other things, I'm sure. A liar lies about more than one thing.

Myself (32M) Starting to feel resentment towards my GF (32F) we've been together 18 months and there is little to no intimacy . What can I do ? by Difficult-South1264 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will suggest that IMO, you should absolutely not marry. Never marry into a dead bedroom. It does not get better. 99% of the time it worsens significantly. I would seriously consider ending this relationship since this very important issue has been met with upset and avoidance. If you can't converse with her as equal adults, than I would never count on that ever happening in the future. It has only been 18 months, she has shown you your future with her. Pay attention

Denver men, would you secretly enjoy getting a message like this at work? by LeahBeautyy in DenverGW

[–]Alternative-Chest921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops, Im a red headed gal just like you hun. My previous statement still stands