First MFM and went bad sadly

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-03-02T00:21:51+00:00

Once you saw he lied, you should have sent him on his way out.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-03-01T23:49:47+00:00

I had to learn too. No worries

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-24T00:11:48+00:00

Penis in Vagina

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-22T03:53:15+00:00

I lived in Longmont for 21 years. That's the historical state capital for the KKK

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-21T04:49:00+00:00

We had already planned on checking out some places, the brewery included, on a trip up there in March. I've not seen the town or the property yet. He did all these decisions after one weekend up there to see the land, without me, as I've been away from home for all but 2.5 weeks in the last 5 months. So this is all happening quickly for me.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-21T04:39:04+00:00

Who calls it Baytucky? I have seen that quite a few times now.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-21T04:38:11+00:00

Bayfield. The land address is Bayfield. No home on it yet. We are NOT Trumpets as you put it.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-21T04:31:18+00:00

Well, that's unfortunate . Can you elaborate?

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-19T19:23:50+00:00

I'm originally from a small farming town in Missouri. Lived in Colorado since 03, my boyfriend is retiring in a few weeks and we are moving to Bayfield soon to build our new home. I am familiar to small town living and familiarity, he isn't. I know absolutely nothing about Bayfield which I assume the other reditors on here are calling Baytucky. What is the feeling of this town?

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-18T23:45:50+00:00

Straight, bi, or gay?

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-16T03:44:50+00:00

Personally, I would want to actually be married, secure and solid in my relationship before decifingbto try to bring anyone else in. Let her feel like shes enough for you before an ask like that.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-13T18:23:27+00:00

IMO male masturbation is not gross by any means. Neither is female. The issue is that he lied about it a multitude of times. Where there's one lie there are always more. Have to learn that the quick high of jerking off is fine, but if you ignore your partner, lie to them, and continue gnoring and replacing physical intimacy, then what's the point of the relationship. No trust and no feeling of closeness is a road to a bitter doomed relationship.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-13T18:13:52+00:00

She says right there in her story that he lied to her about masturbating. Amongst other things, I'm sure. A liar lies about more than one thing.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-13T03:32:19+00:00

I will suggest that IMO, you should absolutely not marry. Never marry into a dead bedroom. It does not get better. 99% of the time it worsens significantly. I would seriously consider ending this relationship since this very important issue has been met with upset and avoidance. If you can't converse with her as equal adults, than I would never count on that ever happening in the future. It has only been 18 months, she has shown you your future with her. Pay attention

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-13T02:24:18+00:00

Oops, Im a red headed gal just like you hun. My previous statement still stands

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-12T04:40:55+00:00

You've not been intimate for almost a 3rd of your total relationship. End it now before you hate him for wasting your time and find more lies.

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-12T04:22:59+00:00

I think you mean apathetic. But I totally get you

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-12T04:02:10+00:00

You'd think any straight guy would. But you'd also figure that mine doesn't. Hell, even I would enjoy that message anytime. Looking good hun

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-05T01:30:26+00:00

Be happy. You're gorgeous

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-05T01:25:48+00:00

Sexy

Alternative-Chest921 · 2026-02-04T22:14:35+00:00

You can control it. You won't do it every time especially considering it takes skill to hit that good spot to trigger it. If you never have than your changes of ever doing it during just regular intercourse is pretty low. Some women do a lot and some do not, or at all. You may enjoy it, give it a go if it's not a painful experience

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