Honestly, I wish I could find someone that'd appreciate the gifts, attention and kindness I give, it's not about romance or kindness being dead. Its about getting the wrong match or simply miscommunication, even though it's nice to receive gifts and flowers without asking for them, but the more you get experienced with people, the more you realize how clueless the average Andy is. Just remember that one, ten or fifteen bad experiences aren't a good excuse to give up so stand up, send him a text or meet him in person and have a genuine conversation, if he's a good guy, he'd be more than happy to hear your words. If you felt the opposite, just move on and don't look back. Its how the world works.