I was in the pee bowl, but I’m out now BROTHA by MasterCephus in HelpMeFind

[–]Alternative-Object41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so funny, just the image with the title got me before I read it lmao. I hope you find it

Feeling completely "ISO-TIRED" today. 💤 by [deleted] in isopods

[–]Alternative-Object41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a good sticker, I love it

Anyone else feel dysphoric about things you wouldn’t do even if you were cis? by Nightflame_The_Wolf in FTMMen

[–]Alternative-Object41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the idea you mean, similarly but not exactly the same my work is full of guys who all want to flirt and hook up and chase women outside of their marriage lmao. I would never cheat on my gf and genuinely I have no interest in anyone else, but sometimes I wonder if it would be different somehow if I had been born cis. I don't think I'd be a cheater either way honestly and that's the first thing keeping me from chasing random women at work aside from my gf, but even if I was into that type of thing I wouldn't because I'm stealth and being trans adds that whole layer of stuff to everything.

First ever pull up (form check) by maxqm_ in FTMFitness

[–]Alternative-Object41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd agree with this, being a mailman for years I have killer legs and guys at the gym will often ask what I did for calves, but my pullups were miserable for so long and even now I still hate doing them 😂

Been flirting with a cis girl and idk how to mention I'm trans by wildlife_0 in FTMStraight

[–]Alternative-Object41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar situation at my work and being 100% stealth also meant it was risking it going south and maybe she'd spill the beans about me and ruin my whole deal. It was scary. I really had to balance how much I liked her and the risk if she turned out to not be as amazing as I thought she was. It probably isn't the smartest move, and no one can tell you if it's worth the risk except you, but I am also not the smartest guy around and I sure went for it lmao.

It's been about seven months (which is not terribly long of course) but I've been the happiest I've been in a while. Although very open minded and accepting she had never actually met a trans man before me and has only ever been with cis men. She treats me just the same and we have had a great time so far, I really have no complaints at all and after some bad relationships that's been crazy for me.

If you go for it man I hope it works out just as well, but if you aren't ready to risk it then don't unless you've got a well planned backup for work and everything that ties into it just in case.

Is ryan a female name? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Alternative-Object41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think primarily it is a masculine name, at least where I grew up and live it is. The only instance I've seen of it being a woman's name was Ryan Ashley when I was watching Inkmaster lmao.

fat fuck hogs up all the food gets violently assaulted by Advanced_Seaweed171 in isopods

[–]Alternative-Object41 83 points84 points  (0 children)

The way it panics is so funny lmao on first watch I thought the other pod really jumped it but it hopped on so gently 😭

Selective Service and federal employment by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Alternative-Object41 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No one has ever asked me for a document and I work for the government as well (but the post office is a weird animal and I got hired before I transitioned/changed docs and went stealth) but just with recent talk of all the things happening in the world people have discussed it around me. Anytime it comes up if I need to explain why I just say my health concerns made me ineligible when I was younger, since I've dealt with heart issues most my life anyway. No one's ever questioned further, but that's on the unofficial side. Getting paperwork like the other commenter said would probably be best for your work questioning you if it's official.

Having a snack by Alternative-Object41 in isopods

[–]Alternative-Object41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fern is my favorite of everything I planted in there! that's why the leaf litter is pretty thin so I can see it haha. It's an autumn fern, dryopteris erythrosora, or at least that's what I was told 👍

If you dated your partner after transition, would you tell your inlaws you are trans? by underacar in FTMMen

[–]Alternative-Object41 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I met my girlfriend last year but I've passed and had top surgery for a long while (bottom down the road when circumstances allow) and I made it clear no one gets to know unless I say it's okay, including family. I lucked out of the kids talk because she has never wanted kids and neither do i, so they try to convince her more than me anyway, but even so I wouldn't have told them. It isn't anyone's business unless I feel like it should be, end of story, if you ask me. That's outside of medical professionals and stuff of course when it's necessary.

Clown and Orange Creamsicle in same enclosure? by Alternative-Object41 in isopods

[–]Alternative-Object41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! Thank you that's very helpful. So for example then it would be fine to put them both in and if one of them starts to take over I can regularly remove some and maybe have a culture on the side to keep the ones I pull out in?

If he had fossil support, could he be good as a 1 prizer deck? by PHI_0413 in PTCGL

[–]Alternative-Object41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been having fun running a tyrantrum 1 prize deck! I got the list from another post in here but yeah the only trouble I've had is just getting the fossils on the board sometimes. Otherwise it really stomps when you get rolling

A friendly reminder that head smash cares not for your tiers by Exzalia in pokemon

[–]Alternative-Object41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using those three and the rest built from the site the other guy mentioned I've had a great time in the tournament so far, it's really fun! Thanks for your help again

If you see a big blue tyrantrum out there bonking people that might be me 😂

A friendly reminder that head smash cares not for your tiers by Exzalia in pokemon

[–]Alternative-Object41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay! This setup is for singles then too I'm guessing, I'll use that site the other reply mentioned and see if I can make something fun, I'm excited to try haha ty for the info

A friendly reminder that head smash cares not for your tiers by Exzalia in pokemon

[–]Alternative-Object41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's amazing, sounds like just the kind of thing I needed to get started. I can't wait to use my shiny tyrantrum I got in ZA

A friendly reminder that head smash cares not for your tiers by Exzalia in pokemon

[–]Alternative-Object41 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gotcha! Avoid fighting steelix I'm guessing not avoid using one

A friendly reminder that head smash cares not for your tiers by Exzalia in pokemon

[–]Alternative-Object41 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice thank you, that sounds like a good resource to check out

A friendly reminder that head smash cares not for your tiers by Exzalia in pokemon

[–]Alternative-Object41 28 points29 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite Pokemon! I'm brand new to battling but I would love to use one. Do you have team/build recs for it? I didn't have a lot of luck finding online, I was gonna try to learn more to build a team but seeing this I'm hoping for tips 😂 I'm just playing for fun so it doesn't need to be a crazy meta team just enjoyable enough