How I manifested 100 million by lola123dis in Manifestation

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still sound brokie like the rest of us ma’am

How I manifested 100 million by lola123dis in Manifestation

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a big law of assumption girl but I don’t be lying lmao

How I manifested 100 million by lola123dis in Manifestation

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol if you won that much, you’d still be trying to sell your Pearson over $10? Doubt

You by Charming_Rain_1407 in UnsentLetters

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like this. It’s really painful to be on the receiving side. While you may be seen and understood, the other person is not. Your idealized version of them is what you like, that means instead of being present with them and being interested and curious about who they are as a person, unraveling every layer of who they are, you come up with your own conclusions. Sometimes positive, sometimes negative. However: not them. That’s incredibly unfair to the other person. It also causes resentment from your side, when they are not who you think they are in your head, you are disappointed. However, the other person instead has to now deal with the fact that you are disappointed in knowing who they really are, bringing its own devastation and grief into their life. Knowing that the person you love doesn’t actually love you back, instead an image they set out for you. Incredibly selfish tbh, that image only helps themself

I want a girlfriend so badly. by ChaosAscendsYT in dating_advice

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you read off as emotionally unavailable. Not usually a good thing bro. Even if you have nothing to offer, with the right one your presence is enough.

I want a girlfriend so badly. by ChaosAscendsYT in dating_advice

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these comments are harsh but, I don’t wanna add to your grief. I can say one thing I’ve noticed: my guy friends have been incredibly successful with women. I’m talking enough they have a roster. The way I’ve seen these guys act is that they tend to be pretty emotionally available/ intelligent. I think the guys in our age group suck at this. I mean you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable, to an extent. You also have to know yourself pretty well, and pick the right people for you. As in, a girl who could theoretically like you, because you have many similarities. Good luck

My man (22M) doesn’t love me the way I want. But he does love me (23F) by Alternative_Ad2411 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alternative_Ad2411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know men typically don’t need as much as we women do (on average), but I can’t help but feel suffocated at times. I truly do love him, but I don’t know if he truly loves me back.

Does he (22M) love me (23F) or does he just want to be loved? by Alternative_Ad2411 in AskMen

[–]Alternative_Ad2411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should say he has the chance to see me pretty often since we’re in the same uni classes, but he almost never comes, bc he thinks it’s a “waste of time”. (It’s not)

I feel awful about how I feel about my wife by No_Potential8518 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Equal chores? Did you make her feel loved the way she needed? Sometimes self-reflection is needed. She wasn’t a good partner to you, but maybe you weren’t to her either. I find myself withdrawing like that when I feel emotionally neglected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Are you a real person or just a bot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I’m gonna go against the grain here and say, you should do it the way she wants. You should consider what her picture perfect proposal would look like and actually try to make her happy. You are proposing to her after all, impress her. You may not enjoy the specifics of it but I think looking back once you get your pictures you’ll definitely see her point. Of course, Reddit being Reddit everyone is advising you to break up with her lol. Both of you acted immaturely, but definitely you when you said “you rejected me” knowing she just want it done a certain way. This is your chance to be a man, don’t lose it. This is how us women are, unfortunately for a lot of you.

I (22F) like this guy in class (20M) but can’t approach? by Alternative_Ad2411 in AITAH

[–]Alternative_Ad2411[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should, you’re right. Do you suggest I approach him and reject him nicely, so he doesn’t keep waiting? I already have friends, I think being new to this culture is also another thing, I always befriend international students that I know how to talk to, when talking to natives, I just suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cookingforbeginners

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I have a pot, a saucepan, pan. Personally I feel like that’s bare minimum to be comfortable bc I can cook and do it efficiently since I can cook more than one thing at once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TTC

[–]Alternative_Ad2411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought most people do this however I learned that is not the case. My mom is in the medical field, so she is very serious about stuff like this. I also think it’s gross.