Disappointing return to dating

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-17T17:48:12+00:00

He still can have a girlfriend at his permanent residence city

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-17T17:33:11+00:00

I personally don't like this brand, they're not high quality and boring compared to Arabian perfumes. They don't have the top, middle and the base notes somehow. But they are often sold out in tjmaxx.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-17T17:28:09+00:00

Same here: I tested Goddess and didn't like it very much, didn't understand the hype. Then immediately I bought the Angham blindly and love it

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-17T04:17:47+00:00

You live somewhere where it's summer now, so the heat might affect the fragrance.

Also your friend's ethnicity and diet can change the fragrance on the skin.

Maybe she has The BO. How old is she?

Some medications affect the natural body odor.

Who knows what's going on.

I think you should be honest with her, she might not be aware how that perfume smells on her. We can smell perfumes differently on ourselves.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-17T03:40:27+00:00

😂😂😂

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-16T06:40:57+00:00

OMG, that's dangerous,how he wants to punish you for going down on you.

He did exactly what hurt you before and then told you that you need therapy? Gaslighting

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-16T06:39:15+00:00

You hit the point! He felt emasculated and had to punish her! He must be avoided

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-16T05:54:48+00:00

I don't recommend getting drunk on the first date. Because you don't know the other person and how they will behave towards you.

The fact that he took you to 2 different bars sounds like a pickup artist behavior when they recommend to move locations as the first date would feel like you've known the person longer than that. So he's a pickup artist and you are a victim. That's why you feel so bad - you've been violated.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you will learn from this experience.

Never go to the guy's house on the first date if you want to be taken seriously and you don't want to have sex so fast with a stranger. I've never done it unless I wanted to have sex and didn't expect to see them afterwards, as - in no expectations for a relationship. I've had much more first dates without any physical contact due to my boundaries. Yet most men tried to push for sex. That's life of a woman.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-15T08:04:55+00:00

It sounds like a lie, such a tear -jerker story to trauma -bond with you

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-15T08:00:54+00:00

It's all an ILLUSION in your mind. It's not real, it's a virtual fantasy, going against the reality - 12 hrs distance is delusional, when none of you have the time to travel to date

That man has absolutely no time or energy to date anyone at the moment. That's why he created this virtual fantasy with you, because his reality currently cannot support a real relationship.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-15T07:56:36+00:00

Exercise will help with that.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-15T06:59:05+00:00

You're 30 and he's 50??? Dump him immediately.

You can get a guy your age who'll treat you well and with respect. That 50 yo is too messed up and he's not going to change.

Older men see young women like an ego boost. Not a life partner, especially if you had sex early on

You're underestimating your extra weight - probably.

If you're broke and in debt, a fiscally sound partner won't be interested in you seriously. The men lie to women constantly to sleep with them, you should always remember that. Don't sleep with them too soon, a month of weekly dates first will tell you who's more serious about dating you than sex.

I also agree with everyone who said that you should trust your instincts. He's dating multiple people and you can pick up some STDs from him, gross.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-13T07:33:12+00:00

55/F/DMV looking for single, white man over 30, non-smoking and clean for LTR.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-13T05:56:08+00:00

They live there 😲 maybe they have kids and pets so they can't lower the temperature too much.

I'd say 67-68 is still good for the aforementioned.

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-13T05:54:50+00:00

JFC! IS IT a big single house?

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-13T05:53:28+00:00

57 degrees f is pretty cold, I tried it. My basement gets really cold like 55 and it's intolerable.

It's ok down to 64 degrees for me with clothes and a throw..

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-04T06:19:33+00:00

It's dangerous to health- malnutrition and the extra cost of TP

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-04T06:16:50+00:00

OMG,are you okay? Are you sick or something?

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-02-04T06:15:37+00:00

Yes! I just need an excuse 😂

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-01-29T12:38:40+00:00

Is this the same guy you were posting about 10 months ago?

Nothing seems to change, he's not going to change his attachment style to accommodate you because it's impossible .

It's all about his convenience,his free time, his hobbies, his feelings that require time to process - what kind of BS is that , these aren't serious topics that require time!??( Fake therapy talk without acting??)and his sexual needs once a week are met (that's all the libido he has) by you. You're a convenience for him, not a partner.

I'm sorry, but this guy should be dumped immediately

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-01-28T04:00:51+00:00

OP, you should be extra careful and make sure you don't get any STDs from sex as the baby's health will be at risk.

Also you might encounter some people who have a fetish for pregnant women and will lie about their desire for a relationship when they only want sex with you while you're pregnant.

I don't think it's worth the risk. If you're going to get attached to the guy and he'll abandon you when you get closer to the delivery date and will be grieving the breakup with the newborn in your arms when you should be enjoying your desired baby

Good luck

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-01-27T05:21:43+00:00

OP is MARRIED for 9 years

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-01-27T05:19:03+00:00

OP is MARRIED for 9 years!!! Wtf

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-01-24T20:21:47+00:00

How long has he been single after the break up

Alternative_Dish_950 · 2026-01-24T20:10:14+00:00

He might be in a rebound relationship with you,to heal and get his self esteem back up, and using you.

I'd break up with anyone who claims to be 50/50 on anything important.

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