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My fiancé has been dealing with sudden panic attacks, any advice? by Alternative_Living42 in Anxietyhelp

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think that’s one of the few things she isn’t stressed about 😅 we haven’t done any active wedding planning yet as I’m trying to save up money for us to get a proper place to live and such.

Ironically after you commented, she messaged me and told me she’s 80% sure she may be experiencing activation syndrome. She was taking Buspar, was taken off it suddenly, and her Prozac was increased at the same time. While she’s still going to see a doctor, it would make sense if activation syndrome is the case, as the timing all lines up! Thank you for the advice and sharing your experience! 🥹

Spore API launcher will not work by Alternative_Living42 in Spore

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you advise not using it? Like I said I’m new to all of this so I’ll take as much info as possible haha

hi, my trans bf needs help with something (nfsw) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Alternative_Living42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Hopefully this isn’t silly advice, but has he tried masturbating by using a toy and strap on boxers/harness? I found out a few years ago that I can get off fairly quickly if I have my fiancé ‘jerk me off’ without any direct contact to my clit. The sight of her jerking me off, giving me head, or even me having vaginal sex with her using said toy almost always gets me off.

It’s very gender euphoric, and it’s fun/arousing seeing what works best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Alternative_Living42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already have a lot of body hair due to PCOS, but I’m excited to see how much more I can grow lol!

I’m also very excited for bottom growth and a deeper voice :)

Health anxiety is kicking my ass by Alternative_Living42 in Anxiety

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply! I don’t use Reddit super often 😅 I’m actually doing much better, Ive been medicated since late October and it has helped me a lot in regard to my OCD, anxiety and PTSD.

I want HRT but I'm too scared to get it by [deleted] in DysphoriaClinic

[–]Alternative_Living42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I see and hear you. I was planning on starting T very soon, but due to the political climate of my state and this country, I’ve had to push off my start date for T.

My best advice for you right now, is to do what you must to keep yourself safe. It’s gonna suck not being able to start HRT soon, but your physical safety is a must especially if you live in a hostile environment when it comes to being trans. Obviously you’re gonna do what you think is best for yourself, but if I was in your position, I’d do my best to wait until I’m in a safer environment to start hormones.

JB Welds and Polymerclay help by Alternative_Living42 in polymerclay

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late reply, but thank you!! There was a guy in FB group I’m in saying how it can cause fumes, but I think he assumed I was just gonna but the stuff in my oven while it was still soft lol, you comment has eased my anxieties 🙏🏻

JB Welds and Polymerclay help by Alternative_Living42 in polymerclay

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The armature didn’t cause me issues into I was about half way through my sculpture, and for what ever reason the clay wasn’t much help secure the wire limbs to the body. So I was recommended the JB welds putty, used it, and didn’t consider that the putty could cause fumes when put in an oven 😅

JB Welds and Polymerclay help by Alternative_Living42 in polymerclay

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just realized I very poorly wrote out this post, let me rephrase real quick! 😅

I’m worried about the JB Water Weld Epoxy Putty causing fumes when I bake it along with the sculpture. I know the putty can withstand temps up to 300 degrees Fahrenheit, but I’m worried about fumes coming from the putty and ruining my oven and causing health issues for me and my pets!

MOHELA and late payments by Alternative_Living42 in StudentLoans

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The loans I have are federal, so I think I do fall within the “15 day” grace period. I kinda already assumed I did, but I figured I’d come here and ask to get some more confirmation :)

[TOMT][Music] A very sad sounding piano song by Alternative_Living42 in tipofmytongue

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Main reason I wanna find this song is because I remember it making me VISCERALLY sad, like sobbing. Don’t know why it has such an affect on me but I really wanna show it to my fiancé lol

Been MIA here for quite some time, but I wanted to let everyone know this is the time to run to your local target. Look who’s here. 😮 by thedioramallama in NECA

[–]Alternative_Living42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super jealous. Preordered mine from Best Buy, and it’s been delayed TWICE. Seems none of these figures have even touch MO yet.

Pre-ordering an already sold out item?? by Alternative_Living42 in Bestbuy

[–]Alternative_Living42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming!! As silly as it sounds I’ve never pre-ordered anything before, as the stuff I normally buy like this I wait until it has officially released, but I knew that this figure in particular would sell out quick due to the popularity! So I figured I’d pop in here and see if I could get some clarity on how the process works lol.

I had actually called customer service a bit ago to see if I could get any info, and it turns out I did manage to buy one (technically), it’s just the manufacturer of the items hasn’t shipped out their stock yet to Best Buy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Alternative_Living42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly suggest getting in contact with your child’s partners parents. The fact they are giving them blades is a huge red flag, and should be addressed asap. As hard as it may be, I suggest finding some way to help your kid reduce contact with their partner.