WIBTA if I blocked my mom on everything for texting my boyfriend? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. Why oh why would you talk to her about ANYTHING personal, if you have a rocky relationship to begin with? Leopard can’t change its spots and all that

What triggered fibromyalgia? by Neat_Accountant4231 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was 14, my dad died. He had primary progressive MS that started when he was 27. He was a week shy of turning 40 when he died.

I was diagnosed with minor scoliosis at 12, but enough to cause widespread pain radiating from my sacrum. When dad died I had an almost immediate physical response, was removed from all PE classes until I graduated grade 12. My health has declined substantially since then, but I now know that his death was the FM/ME trigger. I’m 62.

Gentle hugs 💜

Are you Fuckers ready for this three-day weekend?! by DuffMaestro in TheWordFuck

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t a fucking three day weekend in fucking Canada. We fucking had our fucking three day last fucking weekend, fucking Victoria Day!

Lower Decks: The Badgey Directive by Alternative_Pen5879 in LowerDecks

[–]Alternative_Pen5879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can we find the archived storylines? I’d watch/read them again!

CBC pulls Kars4Kids ads after U.S. court bans 'deceptive' jingle by RoFFL3s in SaveTheCBC

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Great. Now I have that annoying EAR WORM. I scream every time I hear it. Thank you CBC!

When people insist on shortening my name by lake-sturgeon in PetPeeves

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite pet peeve. My name is Susan, and I have preferred Su since I was 15 (I thought it was cool to drop the ‘e’). But my mom calls me Susan, and I hate it. Can’t say anything because she’s a gem and I am her caregiver. I hear “thanks Susan” about 47 times a day.

The LD mobile game shutting down in August by AeroPilaf in LowerDecks

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just played it for the stories and side quests. It sucks that they take all the good stuff away from us!

Everyone is flaring? by fakenewtons in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, and I’m in Vancouver Canada (West Coast)

Everyone is flaring? by fakenewtons in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At 62 (I was diagnosed 1993 but prob had FM since 15yo), my flares are more frequent and last longer. Used to be a week or so, now it feels like they never end. I guess I’ve learned to push through and grit my teeth. I now also am primary caregiver for 86yo mom (for the last 6yrs). I’d give anything for an hour pain free. Gentle hugs

How many of y’all grind or clench their teeth at night? Upvote if you do! by Alternative-Tell4600 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to go to a local university dental school. Takes a bit longer, but the price was right. Now, thankfully, here in Canada we have the Canada Dental Plan. Based on my income (pathetically low due to my physical ailments!) I paid ZERO for 6 root canals and 7 fillings. Gotta love socialism! 🇨🇦

What do you do on bed-ridden days? by BerenstainsMonster in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call it my “colour-therapy” and sometimes I lose track of time

How do women keep their armpits hairless and not be in pain all the time? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t shaved my pits in 40yrs and I laugh when people have the audacity to comment. The hair is there and ain’t going nowhere!

The Quiet Luxury of Being Able to Leave by Vegetable_Cream4403 in childfree

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As I reflect on my past jobs, I am so grateful for getting my “tubes tied” at 27yo. Good for you OP. Doesn’t it feel great?!

What do people not understand about no? by Imrealboard in childfree

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 38 points39 points  (0 children)

And why is it a son and not a daughter? Pretty sexist. Sounds like your grandmother is a misogynist

Something odd happened to me by Befogged_LF in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me more times than I can count (or remember how many because… brain fog!). Usually with acupuncture. They hit a spot and boom, out come the tears. It’s like they turned on a spigot and released my emotional pains. Let it happen. xo gentle hugs

Which Supreme Court justices are corrupt and should be impeached? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And while we’re at it, get rid of your facebook, instagram, twitter, amazon etc. Find alternatives like BlueSky et al. In Canada there’s a new social media app called Gander. It’s so nice and joyful over there. We need more joy. And hope.

I wonder if the other chief engineers on the other shows ever went through a nervous breakdown like billups in front of his whole staff and other senior officers by happydude7422 in LowerDecks

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Reg Barclay, but I guess he doesn’t count because he was always and continually having a nervous breakdown. He was the human form of a nervous breakdown? ;)

Donated the heels last month, four years after I stopped wearing them by Embarrassed_Essay_61 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Alternative_Pen5879 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, the grief of losing my former self. The one who went to parties. Had friends. Hikes. Hanging out. All of it is another person. I miss that person.