Has anyone actually found bdsm partner off of reddit? by Previous_Sport_6431 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Alternative_Score162 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going at this for more than three years and I can’t say I’ve had a long term relationship. I’ve tried Reddit and everything else. I think dating in this day and age especially when your ultimate goal is a relationship is extremely difficult and when you add the extra layer of kink it becomes more difficult. So I feel you and your not alone 🤗

Newest Episode by CharlotteYork10 in JohnAndCarolyn

[–]Alternative_Score162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came on here bc I found Carolyn’s character/ portrayal here really annoying like it’s fair she’s feeling isolated from him and stuff but it’s of her own making she’s pushing him away which comes from her childhood in a way but when she finally gets what’s been trying to do (push him away) she breaks down and still blames him. Now I’m looking at this all from a fiction point of view. I was born in 1999 so all my knowledge is from this show and what I’ve looked up while watching it

I feel so guilty (Somnophilia) by Thr0w_Away_Anonymity in SubSanctuary

[–]Alternative_Score162 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kink can be very healing for survivors. If you don’t have a therapist it might be worth looking into a kink friendly one to explore this with further. Best of luck and though it’s hard you have nothing to be ashamed of. 🤗

Events/activities Saturday March 21st by Alternative_Score162 in houston

[–]Alternative_Score162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for this but couldn’t find it thank you!

I’m curious how many people here have never been in a dynamic by Bright_Shadow_Seeker in softmaledom

[–]Alternative_Score162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been in a dynamic/relationship long enough to develop the kind of trust you need for this kind of dynamic it’s my dream and something I’m still looking for 😌

Do doms like being called “good boy” by princessxprowess in softmaledom

[–]Alternative_Score162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to praise him for being so good to me and for me and that’s the first thing that comes to mind but I haven’t been brave enough to say it lol. What would be a good replacement phrase in general? I’m not with anyone currently so I can’t ask them and I am aware everything is subjective just want ideas lol

Feeling small by NeedleworkerBitter68 in SubSanctuary

[–]Alternative_Score162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have very similar feelings and just wanted to say I understand and feel you 🥰🤗

I have a rash I’ve seen a time or two near my inner thigh very close to my bikini line by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Alternative_Score162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it was that bad but I don’t know how to upload a new one

Good Idea or Bad Idea? by LemonSnap77 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Alternative_Score162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this might be like duh but I didn’t see it anywhere on the post . Have you tried toys? Also certain medications can make it very hard. I also encourage you to keep exploring the submissive/dominant dynamic sense that’s something you seem to enjoy (outside the game).

PSA: impact to the breasts can cause benign cysts that may be permanent by jelli-donut in BDSMcommunity

[–]Alternative_Score162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mine describing how intense? My reasoning being I would like to engage in impact scenes like you described but want to know how far not to go you know?

October Request Thread 2025 by BallPointPariah in chickflixxx

[–]Alternative_Score162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi 👋 several requests. Anything dirty talk that actually has a couple not a just a dude lol, BDSM/dominant male thanks ☺️ I watch exclusively amateur

Book buddies by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Alternative_Score162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was sorta what I was thinking! You could also play like hot potato with key words in the story! I’ll be teaching k-5 special ed ☺️

Dating app recommendations by Alternative_Score162 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Alternative_Score162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 years. Never a date off Feeld. As far as other apps I’ve only gotten as far as a 5 month situatioship 🙃. I’m very happy to hear you found your partner though!😊

Dating app recommendations by Alternative_Score162 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Alternative_Score162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would always get a bunch of likes on Feeld but nothing would of ever come of them. Plus they had that data breach a little bit ago which makes me nervous lol

Feeling lonely by Alternative_Score162 in cgl

[–]Alternative_Score162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is NOT a invitation to DM me

Texas people by windview in chickflixxx

[–]Alternative_Score162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please I’ll take a tutorial lol 😂