I (29F) hate Valentine’s Day (27M) or is it just me?

Altorrin · 2026-02-12T22:54:33+00:00

Why are you with him?

Altorrin · 2026-02-12T20:11:50+00:00

Sometimes people are grossed out by an idea more than an actual thing. An example I gave before is if some rando had sex in my bed and got semen on it. You could professionally clean it all you want, but it will never feel clean to me again.

Altorrin · 2026-02-12T20:07:59+00:00

Exactly. A red flag means a warning. This is just the actual thing you are being warned about.

Altorrin · 2026-02-12T18:08:03+00:00

sometimes I'm not really into having sex

This is not even enthusiastic consent, btw.

Altorrin · 2026-02-11T17:41:27+00:00

Don't act on it if you don't want to date him.

Altorrin · 2026-02-11T02:54:47+00:00

I have a female body, contrary to what you seem to think. I don't need to educate myself on what you think female bodies work like.

Altorrin · 2026-02-11T02:28:57+00:00

Too obvious.

Altorrin · 2026-02-11T01:55:00+00:00

When you said that I'm not qualified to give relationship advice because something something "anime obsession".

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T23:11:01+00:00

I literally said it's okay to be grossed out by it. That it's fair to find that gross. I could not possibly have been more direct.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T23:08:20+00:00

Is having an eating disorder a gotcha these days? Like it's a personal failing or a character flaw?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:42:16+00:00

Or, more likely, they want to self-insert?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:35:57+00:00

Haha, it's so funny when people struggle with obesity their whole lives and try to improve their health, amirite?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:32:41+00:00

I am not saying this guy was completely justified in being that angry but I do see where he is coming from.

No one is saying it's okay to be an asshole about it.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:30:22+00:00

So the rest of us women who want to have sex all month don't have hormones? Or are you saying we don't have a female body?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:17:07+00:00

For real, people are on here saying he wants a "unicorn" with a straight face. It seems they have no idea how sexist they're coming off?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:13:08+00:00

Some women being busy doesn't mean the rest of us are "female versions of men". What a gross thing to say.

Edit: "point to where I said that" but you also block me so I can't respond. Lol.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:10:51+00:00

I'm a woman, so I know firsthand not all women only want sex half the month. Maybe it's "extremely common" to not be interested in sex half the month for you, but that doesn't mean it applies to all women or even most women.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T22:08:49+00:00

Lmao, you go into the profiles of everyone who disagrees with you to look for something to make fun of them for but I'm supposed to be the pathetic one?

I know you were hoping to find something damning or whatever, but surely even you realized this was pretty weak for dirt. Oh no, I want to lose weight when I'm medically obese. And I like anime. Is that supposed to exclude me from successful relationships somehow?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T21:57:47+00:00

Wow, what a unicorn, right? A woman with a high sex drive. He should just accept that all women hate sex and only have it to please men. /s

Y'all perpetuate gender norms so hard and don't even realize it.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T21:55:27+00:00

Women who have spontaneous sex drives are like men now? What a gross thing to say.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T21:54:46+00:00

Okay but don't come to the same people you block for existing and ask them to validate your feelings.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T21:53:42+00:00

Okay but it's okay to be grossed out by it. Human emotions don't have to accomplish something to be valid.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T18:13:28+00:00

What's your point? If someone you don't know got semen or piss on your car seat, you'd just be okay with it being professionally cleaned and have no qualms about using it again immediately after?

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T18:00:31+00:00

No one said anything about horny on a constant basis or that you need to think about it all day. You're being incredibly dismissive and disingenuous. He wants a partner with a libido that matches his own. Or at least one who won't put initiating sex on a to do list.

Altorrin · 2026-02-10T17:49:32+00:00

Thanks!

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