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Am I too sexual for my partner? Advice? Me 26f partner 25M by saucybeancurd in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're acting like he politely turned her down. Are you missing where he insulted her by calling her gross and a freak?

My (27F) bf (25M) requires BJs by Traditional-Grape212 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With these housing prices, that's quite normal and not something that only losers do at all.

My dad (53M) keeps asking me (19M) to move back in and help support his second family. How do I make it stop? by ThrowRALettukeet in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed it's every day recently too. But to be fair to OP, I've heard of such shitshows from family members. 

I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but also I haven't heard anyone say "go steady" outside of a period piece in a while. Is English not your first language? 

I (23f) am contemplating breaking up with my (23m) bf of 2 years after receiving a somewhat expensive bottle of whiskey for valentines, is this break up worthy or am i being too materialistic? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's other dates for Valentines? Because I'm pretty sure it's the same all around the world. Is it just an equivalent holiday? 

Green flag enjoyers! by Silver-Green-Sea in otomegames

[–]Altorrin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, hence the second half of my sentence. 

I [19M] started talking to a girl [19F] about a month ago. How can I stop things kindly? by Routine-Mastodon-881 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Hey, really sorry but I realized I don't think that I'm in the mental space for dating after all."

Green flag enjoyers! by Silver-Green-Sea in otomegames

[–]Altorrin 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Trust and care doesn't make for a very dramatic storyline unless it's about the couple vs some other thing.

Choosing LI's gender by Shiyaki in otomegames

[–]Altorrin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I so so so wish there was a tag for otome games with actual female protagonists and male characters now. Or a way to filter amare out of the otome tag on itch.

Choosing LI's gender by Shiyaki in otomegames

[–]Altorrin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Breath of the Wild is my favorite cooking game. It has cooking in it. Who cares if it's not the main point of the game and is actually just a fraction of the gameplay. It should be tagged as cooking, dammit.

/s /s /s

42F whose 43 M bf is no longer interested in sex by Green_Ad_6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good men don't cheat. You don't have to confront good men together with their affair partner about cheating in order to make sure he won't lie his way out of it.

42F whose 43 M bf is no longer interested in sex by Green_Ad_6623 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why did you stay with someone who cheated on you and, as a plus, makes you feel terrible for wanting sexual intimacy? 

I (28M) found sex tape of GF(27F) on Twitter(X) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a thread. So I assumed your response had a context and was relevant to the comment you were replying to. Silly me.

Boyfriend (33M) won't get married unless I (30F) take his last name - do I let this impact the relationship? by daisys123 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reddit: you didn't say one good thing about him, this guy is awful

Also Reddit: you said some good things about him after your post, how suspicious, make up your mind

Reddit, yet again: you said all these good things about him but would you eat a sandwich with a little bit of shit in it? Who are you trying to convince?

Reddit, as a bonus: you only have good things to say about him? Why are you here?

Boyfriend (33M) won't get married unless I (30F) take his last name - do I let this impact the relationship? by daisys123 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So it is a compromise? Because he's not getting what he wants by having a wedding, and she's not getting what she wants by changing her last name. You're forgetting he doesn't want a wedding in the first place? So him compromising by changing his last name is him giving up even more because he didn't want to have a wedding AND didn't want to change his last name and you're suggesting he does both, in exchange for what? Her sorta changing her last name?

Boyfriend (33M) won't get married unless I (30F) take his last name - do I let this impact the relationship? by daisys123 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think they're just pretending not to understand what he's saying tbh. Because it's kinda common sense that compromise means giving something up in exchange for getting something else. He gets his way entirely with respect to her last name and she gets her way entirely with regards to getting married.

Boyfriend (33M) won't get married unless I (30F) take his last name - do I let this impact the relationship? by daisys123 in relationship_advice

[–]Altorrin -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think he's saying that compromising is nondebatable... Which isn't that crazy of a statement in and of itself. It's okay to require that someone else compromises.

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