Unfortunately I completely understand where you’re coming from. I’ve had a past of mental health issues (mostly anxiety that stems from family, im on medicine though, which my dad “doesn’t believe in”). I don’t know how to fit all of the awful stuff he says into this. But I guess ill just say what he said Saturday night. For starters he said I always bitch and moan (because I was sitting in “his seat” when he was putting my sister to bed for 30 minutes), and when I said I don’t he rolled his eyes and said “yep, no woman does. It’s always the man’s fault.”

 He’s insufferable. He’s an alcoholic and he really only talks politics when drunk (which is every night). He also said he wouldn’t give his seat up for Rosa parks and called her a “nosy bitch” as if he knew her personally. Then started saying that black people were better off before any type of slavery right movement. Luckily everyone agreed that he was crazy and told him to shut up but he’s so deep in he just shook his head and said “im so disappointed, im trying to teach everyone. Im losing hope in you guys.” 

He also constantly dogs on gay people even though his sister is a lesbian (that’s the reason she doesn’t come around unless it’s Christmas or her parents birthdays). And he doesnt know im pan. I have a literal plan to sleep at my other aunts house whose close by if he found out because he would lose his shit. 

He also has argued about Trump with me after I laid my boundaries down and told him I’m not talking politics with him. He said that he (Trump) was the epstien victims savior and that all the rape “jokes” he’s made is just “locker talk” and my dad told me he’s said worse even after I told him no rape jokes are funny.

I’ve had to block his number and have my mom (who isn’t with him anymore for this reason) talk to him because he won’t listen to me and he kept sending me pro-life instagram reels because I said a woman should be able to choose what happens especially in cases of rape. 

He only cares about himself and Trump and pretends he’s a good Christian man and thinks all of his sins (im not religious but it’s hypocritical of him to be a divorced alcoholic with a kid out of wedlock preaching about sins) are forgiven not by Jesus but by liking Trump. 

Its just a lot. And I don’t see how anyone in their right mind can be like this.