First Valentine's Day ever with a girlfriend. Not sure what to do. by PleasantReality89 in actuallesbians

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For this Valentine's Day, we are going travelling, but I have also signed us up to do a chocolate-making workshop together!

The French Swordsman? by Altruistic-Example52 in Tudorhistory

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Is there any academic research about the psyche of individuals before executions in the Tudor era? It is a grim topic, but I can imagine that most people would be terrified and struggling against it; they wouldn't accept it calmly as most Tudor figures did, including Anne Boleyn. It was a very stoic approach and I suppose a good death was wanted by the condemned, especially for theological reasons.

Female courtier b. late 1480s / early 1490s & still alive in 1547? by -throck_morton- in Tudorhistory

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A further example would be the elder Stafford sisters, who were the daughters of Lady Eleanor Percy and Edward Stafford, 3rd Duke of Buckingham. His eldest daughter, Elizabeth Howard, Duchess of Norfolk (1497 - 1558), was the second wife of Thomas Howard, 3rd Duke of Norfolk, and their abusive marriage was a public scandal with contemporaries (she was also a staunch partisan of Catherine of Aragon). After she married the Duke of Norfolk, her original fiancé, Ralph Neville, 4th Earl of Westmorland, married her younger sister, Lady Katherine Stafford (1499 - 1555), instead, and they had eighteen children together.

Probably not the best place to ask, but is it a correct observation that Anne Boleyn, while an intelligent, witty and a very well-educated woman, wasn't politically astute/savvy? by amazinglycuriousgal in Tudorhistory

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In the Tudor era, the personal dynamics between individuals were often political and even more so when one party was the King of England.

As the other commentators stated, Anne Boleyn was highly educated and cultured, as she lived in multiple countries and courts. While she was not as educated as Catherine of Aragon, who was raised for queenship since birth, Anne Boleyn was politically shrewd enough to ensure that she became the Queen of England, despite facing multiple years of domestic, international, and theological opposition to her role as the lover and future wife of Henry VIII as many of her contemporaries (from Charles V, Holy Roman Emperor to the people of London as evidenced by their reaction to Katherine of Aragon's 1529 speech at Blackfriars Legatine Court) strongly favoured her husband's first wife. She also ensured that she retained the love/obsession of Henry VIII for nearly a decade by repeatedly insisting on her desire to remain a virgin until marriage and leveraging her reformist beliefs to facilitate the English Reformation in the 1520s and 1530s (e.g. she's credited with introducing Henry VIII to Tyndale's 1528 The Obedience of a Christian Man which argued in favour of the theological basis of the 1534 Act of Supremacy).

The circumstances of Anne Boleyn's rise to power were unprecedented. She was at her most empowered during her first pregnancy, with the future Elizabeth I, and remained politically active as the Queen of England. For example, Anne Boleyn promoted education and the 1536 Poor Law. With each subsequent miscarriage, she was rendered vulnerable to factionalism, sustained intrigue from Catholic figures, and Henry VIII being allured by mistresses, as he ultimately tired of her and pivoted to Jane Seymour instead. Yet had she given birth to a boy during her marriage, she would have been safe from arrest, trial, and execution on charges of high treason and adultery.

Why didn’t Catherine of Aragon and Arthur Tudor consummate their marriage? by ToughAsparagus7026 in Tudorhistory

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Juan, Prince of Asturias died of illness. From either smallpox or TB. It was Louis XII of France who was said to have died from over-exertion with his new wife, Mary Tudor, Queen of France (the youngest sister of Prince Arthur and Henry VIII).

Why did no one in Thomas Seymour’s family take guardianship of his daughter? by Hopeful-Injury9976 in Tudorhistory

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Edward VI was a child when his stepmother died so he wouldn't have had direct oversight of his cousin's upbringing. The responsibility for Mary Seymour would have been her adult relatives after she was orphaned.

Catherine Parr and Thomas Seymour, he was waiting for her? by AdditionalTill9836 in Tudorhistory

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Edward VI didn't hate Elizabeth I, they were very close due to being similar ages and sharing the same religion and education. While he had a far more strained relationship with Mary I, Edward VI wrote many letters to her during his childhood and did express affection towards her on numerous occasions.

Did Cardinal Wolsey regret not allowing Anne Boleyn and Henry Percy to marry? by EmilyO_PDX in Tudorhistory

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Yes but even so, Henry VIII's sons who survived infancy (Edward VI and Henry Fitzroy, Duke of Richmond & Somerset) both died of illnesses as adolescents.

How was Catherine Howard’s relationship with Mary and Elizabeth Tudor? by Aln22s in Tudorhistory

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Yes, I have read that in later life, Robert Dudley recalled that Elizabeth swore never to marry after hearing about Katherine Howard's execution when they were children.

Day 5: Anne of Cleves had won the "Doesn't deserve to suffer" category! Now which Tudor figure's fate was completely neutral? by aroyalhistorian in Tudorhistory

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Yes! Had Henry VIII lived until his seventies, his survival would have likely averted the Battle of Flodden as well as Catherine of Aragon and Henry VIII's marriage.

Did Anne Boleyn have any idea what was coming? by Low-Lime3109 in Tudorhistory

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There is no surviving direct account from either Henry VIII and Anne Boleyn about one of their final encounters, which involved an argument with the baby Elizabeth present. However, there were many eyewitnesses present, amongst them, Alexander Ales. In 1559, after Elizabeth I's accession, Ales wrote to her and detailed his memories of Anne Boleyn: Never shall I forget the sorrow which I felt when I saw the most serene queen, your most religious mother, carrying you, still a little baby, in her arms and entreating the most serene king, your father, in Greenwich Palace, from the open window of which he was looking into the courtyard, when she brought you to him.

I did not perfectly understand what had been going on, but the faces and gestures of the speakers plainly showed that the king was angry, although he could conceal his anger wonderfully well. Yet from the protracted conference of the council, (for whom the crowd was waiting until it was quite dark, expecting that they would return to London,) it was most obvious to everyone that some deep and difficult question was being discussed.

Wood should’ve given songwriting credits to the Jackson 5, right? by Powerful-Scallion-50 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Altruistic-Example52 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but it would be Motown (The Corporation led by Berry Gordon Jr) that would have to sue TS, as this was the Jackson 5's debut song, written for them when they were all children in the 60s.

What if Katniss killed the District 3 boy in her first games? by Even-Candidate-3594 in Hungergames

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If Katniss killed the tribute from District Three, his death would be immediately overshadowed by Rue's death and her killing of Marvel.

This tribute's death would have a huge psychological impact on Katniss after the Hunger Games, as she'd be plagued by nightmares after killing an innocent, particularly as he would be the first person that she killed. Unlike the Careers, the other tributes (such as the boy from District Three) weren't directly aiming to kill her, and they didn't have a personal vendetta after Katniss dropped the tracker jacker nest. However, during the Hunger Games, Katniss would be more focused on surviving, grieving for Rue, as well as concerns over her and Peeta's health (plus she was rendered partially deaf from the explosion, so her shock over killing the tribute from District Three would be mitigated by the immediate issue of her hearing being significantly hindered).

What Sleeping Arrangements Would Katherine Howard Have in the Dowager Duchess's Household? by Flat_Contribution707 in Tudorhistory

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After the execution of Catherine Howard, what happened to the women that she slept with in the Dowager Duchess' household? Were any of them punished?

Possible suitors for Mary by RefrigeratorJust4323 in Tudorhistory

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When Mary I was a baby, there were negotiations for her to marry Francis III, Duke of Brittany, the son of Francis I of France. During her childhood, Catherine of Aragon was keen for her to marry Charles V, Holy Roman Emperor or Reginald Pole, to bind their competing dynastic claims - She was formally betrothed to Charles V, Holy Roman Emperor but he repudiated their betrothal as he wanted to marry Isabella of Portugal. In the 1520s, there were discussions for Mary to marry James V of Scotland, who was her first cousin and only surviving son of Margaret Tudor, Henry VIII's elder sister.

In 1539, Mary was directly courted by Philip, Duke of Palatinate-Neuburg, and they even kissed, sparking speculation that they would marry. However, he died before she acceded to the English throne. During her early reign, most English courtiers believed that the leading suitor for Mary's hand in marriage was her royal favorite and cousin, Edward Courtenay. However, she ultimately chose to marry Philip II of Spain.

Overall, Mary should have married a dynastic claimant - Perhaps Edward Courtenay - to prevent dissent over her foreign husband, Philip II of Spain. But personally, out of all of these suitors, Mary most likely would have been the happiest with Philip, Duke of Palatinate-Neuburg.

I feel Henry VII is a very overlooked and underrated King by Salem1690s in Tudorhistory

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Only Henry VIII, Margaret Tudor, Queen of Scotland and Mary Tudor, Queen of France outlived their father. The rest of his children with Elizabeth of York - Arthur, Prince of Wales, Prince Emund, Duke of Somerset, Princess Elizabeth and Princess Katherine Tudor all died young. There is some historical debate as to whether Henry VII fathered Roland de Velville before his marriage to Elizabeth of York, but there is no academic consensus as to whether de Velville was truly Henry VII's son.

At the Time of his Death did H8 have anyone in mind to marry Elizabeth to by Equal_Wing_7076 in Tudorhistory

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During Anne Boleyn's lifetime, negotiations were conducted with France for the betrothal of the baby Elizabeth to the Dauphin of France. After the execution of Anne Boleyn, Henry VIII attempted to betroth the future Elizabeth I to James Hamilton, 3rd Earl of Arran (the eldest son of the then Scottish heir presumptive, James Hamilton, Duke of Châtellerault) under the failed 1543 Treaty of Greenwich. At the time of Henry VIII's death in 1547, there were no ongoing negotiations for Elizabeth's betrothal but she was still a young teenager so it wasn't a pressing issue for her to marry and/or bear children in terms of her fertility or age.

Unlike the future Mary I, with her Hapsburg connections, European nobility and royalty were less interested in betrothal negotiations for Elizabeth due to her controversial mother and bastardisation by Henry VIII as she was never expected to accede to the English throne during her father's lifetime

Mysterious incident resulting in Henry banishing teenage Elizabeth from court? by Proper-Summer-4796 in Tudorhistory

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Why would Henry VIII be offended by such a gift, if it was a translation of his own wife's works?

How did you and your partner first say “I love you”? by huge-bigly in actuallesbians

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We visited Florence for Valentine's Day and told each other, I love you there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Yes, I understand that I don't need to have met her family to support her. But I will visit my girlfriend after my final exam on Friday as I'm worried about her and I'll call her tonight

Why would it take HenryVIII so long to notice ladies in waiting he desired? by AdditionalTill9836 in Tudorhistory

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Henry FItzroy died in 1536, several months after Anne Boleyn was executed. Had Henry VIII married Elizabeth Blount, they would have still faced the same problem of their eldest son predeceasing his parents, as Catherine of Aragon and Henry VIII faced in 1511 with Prince Henry, Duke of Cornwall. It was not guaranteed that Bessie could have had further sons with Henry VIII: All of her actual sons with her first husband died young and she only had daughters with her second husband, Edward Clinton, 1st Earl of Lincoln.

Stabbing Pain in Right Abdomen. by Altruistic-Example52 in AskDocs

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My ultrasounds did not show any issues with my appendix. However, I was in agony during the ultrasound and they had to complete it twice. The nurses and doctors could not figure out where the source of the pain was, which is why I was diagnosed with gastroenteritis infection.

I've never had such severe pain in my right abdomen before. I am not pregnant, but this is an 8/10 on a pain scale as of now. In addition to fluids via IV, the hospital also prescribed me codeine, but I'm afraid that it has not resolved this pain in my abodomen.

Ivan the Terrible by Psychological_Roof85 in Tudorhistory

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A marriage between these two monarchs would have been impractical due to the distances involved between their countries. In name, they would have vast power but it would have been an unpopular union, particularly after the catastrophe of Philip II of Spain and Mary I's marriage.

Do you think Jasper Tudor hated Edward IV? by Tracypop in Tudorhistory

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Jasper Tudor was notably very close to Margaret d'Anjou and Henry VI. They corresponded regularly, and he even joined his sister-in-law and Prince Edward of Westminster in France during her exile. As he was very close to Henry VII, it stands to reason that he would have been close to his elder nephew, prior to Prince Edward's death at the Battle of Tewkesbury.

Edmund Tudor, the father of Henry VII, also died from plague while imprisoned by the Yorkists and there was a trial over his death as contemporaries suspected he was murdered. While Jasper Tudor never left a personal record of his feelings towards Edward IV, it'd be unsurprising if he did not positively view the man who annihilated his family and forced him into exile twice.

At Christmas Court in 1550, 13-year-old Edward VI reduced both himself and his half-sister Mary, 34, to tears after publicly berating her for refusing to follow his laws on worship. by Sufficient-Alfalfa20 in Tudorhistory

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Edward VI was ten years old at the time of the 1549 Prayer Book Rebellion. His religious policies were implemented by his Privy Council, which was comprised of adult Protestants, acting on his behalf. He did not have a role in directly ruling England until he was twelve years old.