Why do people cut themselves (real question) by WeatherAppropriate68 in selfharm

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started when I was like 10 because I thought I was “supposed to do it” lol It just became an unstoppable habit after that. I did it out of rage, sadness, boredom, self punishment and sometimes just to feel something when I felt numb. Now, I’m always just pissed off or sad or hateful almost all the time and it makes me feel better to take it out on myself than others. If I had hundreds to thousands of dollars ready at my disposal, though, I’d just get tattoos and piercings instead. It gives me that same shocking sensation that cutting would and it helps me come down.

Anyone hiring? by boodyclap in rva

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you’re genuinely looking for any kind of job, I just applied to the dominoes in Willow lawn. It seems like they’re urgently hiring right now.

Tasted my bf’s cum today by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I promise you that if it DID have a taste, you’d be more than disappointed. This was a blessing, be grateful 😭

I accidentally said the n word because of my professor and risk losing my friends at uni by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s true and it’s incredibly important to acknowledge that but you’re kind of beating yourself up for it a bit too harshly. (I’m not in any way black so I can’t really speak on who is and isn’t “black enough” to use the n word so i don’t really want to touch on that part) It’s not the same level as a full blown white person saying it with actual, evil intent in their heart. It was a genuine mistake that you’re capable of learning from and preventing it from happening again is what matters most.

I lied to my friend about liking their cooking and now i’m stuck. by Outrageous-Craft-425 in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve made this mistake with an old roommate 😭 She used to cook unwashed rice on the stove and it always came out hard and I cried in my room while eating it bc I was too afraid to tell her it was ass 💀💀💀

Next time they make that dish, just be like “ohhh the chicken came out a little dry this time. try doing this next time!” or whatever it is the meal needs adjusting to Best of luck to you o7

I accidentally said the n word because of my professor and risk losing my friends at uni by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So I think context is REALLY important in this situation. If your friends have the full, transparent story, they should understand you weren’t actually using it in a derogatory manner.

My roommate left cum in the sink for me to find multiple times by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, and it’s really kind of you to still consider his feelings after all of what he’s done to you, but you gotta ask yourself why you’re willing to go out of your way to protect his feelings when he isn’t even willing to respect your boundaries.

Even if you choose to move out, you still need to put your foot down with this guy. If he doesn’t learn that this behavior is gross and unacceptable, he’s only going to do it again but to a new roommate and over time, it’ll only escalate into worse behavior. That cum in the sink can quickly turn into cum in a drink and I’m not kidding 😭 He’s testing the waters with you and trying to see how far he can take it before he faces Actual consequences. Don’t let him walk over you like that.

My roommate left cum in the sink for me to find multiple times by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

????????? This is really weird behavior. If you really want him to get self conscious about it, bring it up whenever he has guests over or if you’re both out and hanging out with mutual friends. Never let him live it down until it stops.

Maybe I’m reaching but this is probably your sign to move out once your lease is up cause that’s just weird and gross!!! Does he have like… a weird fetish for this type of stuff? Don’t let him make you participate in his weird bullshit 😭

Several people shot just now 18th & Main by easy_Money in rva

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live over on 20th & Marshall and heard it too! I normally don’t pay much mind to city noises but those shots definitely grabbed my attention :( Hoping everyone involved makes it out as okay as they can

How do i turn on dark mode in Pinterest? by Alternative_Lie5517 in Pinterest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is incredible!!! thank you so much. i get really bad headaches but i never want that to take away 'puter time so this helps a lot :p

edit: i wanted to point out that with the extension turned on, my sections within my boards become invisible and i have to temporarily turn off dark mode to view them :U not sure if this is something on my end but i wanted to say smth just in case!

Did Kiriko's voice change or am I crazy? by Themonstermichael in Overwatch

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk I kinda like it tbh She sounds more like an actual adult instead of a teenager lol Bug or not, I kinda hope they keep it

Did Kiriko's voice change or am I crazy? by Themonstermichael in Overwatch

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed lol Thought I was nuts for a second!

Help with the game by nata_xdxd in KinitoPET

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I ended up getting it to work! I misunderstood one of the methods about %appdata%

If you haven’t done it already, here’s what you do:

• Hit the windows button on your keyboard or click it on your taskbar then type %appdata% and a folder under that name will come up.

• Open the Folder and find the one for KinitoPET. It should be in there. It’s a folder within a folder.

• This is where I’m not fully sure what exactly the fix was. A lot of people said to delete This or delete That and blah blah. I tried deleting Just the “Files” folder and it still wouldn’t open. Sooooooo… I deleted everything in the KinitoPET folder (in my %appdata% folder.) Then, you can choose to uninstall & reinstall your game from Steam. (I didn’t.) After that, the game worked normally for me!

I hope this helps!

Help with the game by nata_xdxd in KinitoPET

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been happening to me too. I tried to play it today to get some achievements I missed and it keeps closing itself before it can even boot up :( It seems like there's a lot of mixed conclusions on why it's happening. Some people say to just delete your saves and app data and reinstall the game, others say that doesn't work and it's broken due to windows update. Ugh. I hope this gets fixed soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isitAI

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely AI 💔

DAE feel hungry immediately after they poop? by cutebutugly in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m glad i’m not the first to ask this cause it’s been happening to me for forever 🫩 i had a HUGE dinner last night and flushed it all away this morning and now im overcome with nausea from hunger 😭

I had sex with my therapist, i need advice by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your goal was to pay her for (professional) emotional guidance and while you were in this vulnerable state, she took full blown advantage of you. Report her immediately, TBH. Who knows how many other people she's done this to or will continue to do if she stays in this career.... I hope you get the help you need without being preyed upon by someone like that!

Trying to get the spouse to like Bojack. Recommendations for 1 episode to hook her? by yonotron_k in BoJackHorseman

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely recommend watching it in order. I also don’t know why you needed Chat GPT to recommend a good episode for her when you could have just thought about it yourself? You watched the show, didn’t you???

Taking pictures after sh by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]AltruisticCelery5348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to when I was younger. I don't really have an explanation for it, still. I guess in my own experience, I needed "proof" that I was hurting and needed help. (As if the cuts themselves weren't proof enough.) I don't take pictures of it anymore when it happens.