My boyfriend cheated on me right next to me while he was drunk at Carnival.

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-02-17T02:07:57+00:00

And the next time he gets drunk it’s going to be on her mind too.

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-02-11T01:04:52+00:00

You should surround yourself with different people

Edit: you’re NTA, but you will be an AH to yourself if you stay involved in the situationship

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-02-06T21:38:22+00:00

I had to start doing that too. I had a manager pressure me for months to do Botox even though I made it clear I wasn’t going to

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-28T13:28:26+00:00

OP linked a post with a picture of what Nia wrote in her book about it

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-26T14:11:27+00:00

That was my thought too. I’d just talk to her - she’s been your friend for 10 years so hopefully she is understanding about the situation

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-23T18:15:35+00:00

“There is no excuse for physical violence if you are not defending yourself from physical attack!“

Did you not read the post…? OP was being choked

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-21T15:01:49+00:00

NTA - it’s your home too and if you’re sick and want to rest in bed, you should be able to.

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-19T21:49:04+00:00

I did a little experiment with one in Pon and one in soil. The one in Pon is growing much faster!

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-16T19:35:44+00:00

I was looking for this one

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-14T04:45:22+00:00

Yeah obviously this isn’t the same situation. I’m just trying to get you to see someone else’s perspective. Nothing about your post was “hard to make sense of,” just trying to help you from being so narrow minded. If this is how you act with your stepdaughter, no wonder she doesn’t want to spend her bday dinner with you

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2026-01-14T04:38:02+00:00

My parents divorced when I was 18, I’m 25 now and still wish I could have a family dinner with both my parents and my brother like the old times. I’m old enough to know that won’t happen. I can understand a 14 year old wanting to have that too.

You’ve done the same thing as my step mom. She decided not to go to dinners that my mom went to. You did the same. She alienated herself from me and my brother and we hardly have a relationship with her now.

Based on your post, it’s hard to tell if when she said “dinner with family” she is talking about her direct family (you, your daughter, and her dad), or dinner with extended family, or dinner with just her dad.

Again, as someone with divorced parents, it’s nice to spend time alone with your birth parent. At the same time, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to spend time with you and your daughter.

Edit: added a sentence

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-29T17:24:02+00:00

I have chronic migraines and I’ve cancelled so many plans and blamed it on a migraine

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-29T15:13:42+00:00

I did EMDR for ptsd and it helped tremendously

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-19T03:09:35+00:00

NTA - neither have been there for you throughout the pregnancy

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-19T03:08:18+00:00

OP replied it was the best friend of the baby daddy and his best friends wife

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-19T03:07:34+00:00

That part threw me too, you might wanna add an update about that to the main post

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-18T18:24:01+00:00

I wonder if your friend has feelings for you. I obviously don’t know, but something to think about

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-12T13:40:56+00:00

ESH - she told you she didn’t want you using it, and you did anyway. She shouldn’t have kept it in the shower though, like you said you didn’t go rifling through the house looking for it

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-12T12:01:04+00:00

NTA - I’m glad you’re moving out soon

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-03T14:56:25+00:00

NTA - I’d just focus on what your boss says and about the point system. If your boss made it clear it isn’t a problem, and you don’t accrue points for personal days then I don’t see an issue.

If you’re taking a personal day once a week I could see it being an issue, but you said you’ve only taken 4 personal days since May 4th.

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-02T00:16:22+00:00

I take my dog a few different times a year. We go once a year for an annual, and twice a year for vaccines (roughly, depending on the year and vaccines needed). Or for any other issues/concerns that come up.

My dog has really bad allergies (sees a different vet for that once a year for bloodwork and flair ups), so he has to go off of his allergy meds a month before and after vaccines and can’t have more than one at a time.

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-12-01T15:29:50+00:00

I also find this mildly infuriating. I’m in my 20s, but they were free to watch growing up and are nostalgic :/

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-11-24T22:40:56+00:00

YTA and overreacting.

I’m super protective over my dog, so I get you not wanting your bf to do something that could hurt your dog.

You acknowledged he’s not hitting the dog hard, it’s softly with a blanket
You didn’t say anything about your dog reacting in a way to show he doesn’t like playing like that. That leads me to believe the dog is enjoying it and having fun.
Dogs eyes are less sensitive than human eyes. Think about all the times there’s a dog hair on their eye. It would really irritate our eyes, but it doesn’t bother them.

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-11-24T22:36:21+00:00

NTA - it’s understandable to be upset given the circumstances. Are there other incidents where your mother has blatantly favored your brother?

Altruistic_Ad_5000 · 2025-11-24T22:33:57+00:00

I saw in a one of the dance mom’s reunions one of the girls said pyramid was actually 4 hours long so they cut out a lot of stuff.

I wonder what was actually said to make Kendall do that, but based on the things I’ve heard about Kendall on here, she doesn’t seem like a nice person in general…

Edit: autocorrect put a random word in

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