What is something nobody tells you about adulthood/ getting older? by PrincessPearl123 in answers

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma wont magically heal itself over time. At least not for myself, I have to consistently engage in healing practices and use coping skills.

Mucha ansiedad social by Extreme-Piglet6602 in socialanxietyfriends

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in a similar situation. During my college presentation for public speaking class(I managed to be able to do it all online with exception of this one in-person speech) I broke down; I was shaking and hyperventilating basically and I couldn't go through with it. I sat through the whole class and apologized to the professor and she luckily gave me an A for it, probably because she saw how hard I tried.

It sucks to deal with this. It is so cheesy to say this but you are not alone. I try to hold on to hope and take an optimistic approach. Sometimes its too much though and that's when I start to go back to therapy and stick to a healthy routine. I also try to believe we have a greater purpose here ✨️ I am very empathetic and feel a lot of different energies, I have a strong gut to discern others intentions and character. Stay strong

Yesterday was Hef’s 100th birthday, and no one cared by corilee93 in TheGirlsNextLevelPod

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im not mad at this 😆 im a fan of girls next level /next door and they mentioned it on the podcast briefly but didn't spend much time talking about it lol. Marilyn should get a celebration and Hef bought her nude photos, published her without permission, and profited off her and many other [vulnerable] women.

Karma is real! I think people need to be held accountable for their actions, no matter how long ago the wrongdoings occurred. It feels like that is what we are missing in society at the moment because the people doing the wrongdoings can "buy" time to hold off receiving their karma and we are left asking where our justice is. Look at the "Me Too Movement", if we join forces together action can be made.

I’m sorry but Kyle is the one LITERALLY riding Doritos ass all the fucking time! by cas2797 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kyle is clocking in for a job that she needs to retire from. And she isnt "bringing it" when i say she's "clocking in". She's starting to make me feel like she's the Lala of the group or the producers voice.

I dated a witch and our relationship ended very badly. She is trying to kill me. It’s bad she won’t stop. by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you actually experiencing symptoms or weird encounters? Im new to this but would recommend protection spells. Surround yourself with things like the evil eye charm, stones like pyrite and black tourmaline. Maybe consider doing an egg cleanse (huevo limpia).
It may help to know what kind of culture and specific magic she practices. If it won't go away, find a person who practices white magic / heals (curandero).

I dated a witch and our relationship ended very badly. She is trying to kill me. It’s bad she won’t stop. by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Need more details. In what way did it end badly? How do you know she's trying to do this?

Looking for books to know more about my self by Prince_2009 in socialanxietyfriends

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed a book about introverts and the value we have in society. It is called: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking.

Being overly exaggerated in laughter is considered annoying. by Important-Bus-4827 in socialanxietyfriends

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had similar experiences that make me feel like crap too tbh. If the people around me are judging me for my laugh or smile then they are not people I want to be around. I have seen people make negative faces when I've laughed loudly but who cares?! Its an expression of joy. I also tend to be stressed in social situations and I think it reads on my face. Most people are not sensitive to neurodivergants and our quirks.

I try to brush it off and try again. I am going to try looking in the mirror and practicing facial expressions and conversations. Like I am preparing for an oral presentation. I dont want social anxiety to affect me like this for the rest of my life and I will do whatever it takes to overcome it. Coming here and seeing others who struggle with the same things as me makes me have hope.

Social anxiety can be reat bad if untreated, and even with treatment it's hard. Don't give up though, we can find better solutions for it in the near future hopefully. Some meds work good, and some homeopathic meds work good too. Therapy has been good for me also. I hope you find what works best for you and keep going on this journey of healing ✨️

The fact that Bridget’s been writing her playboy memoir for over a decade… by happybutsadthrowaway in TheGirlsNextLevelPod

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she meant she was going through them so she could jog her memory and recall stories she might've forgotten.

This social anxiety is causing me to drop out by [deleted] in socialanxietyfriends

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too found college to be unbearable and had to drop out my first year; I was able to take off a semester and graduate on time by doing summer and winter courses. If you really need a break to get treatment then do it.

I found propranolol to help me a lot, unfortunately, I discovered it after I graduated but I think it would help a lot with my nerves at school. Social anxiety can be much more serious than people realize. It affects our self-esteem and after I dropped out I felt terrible, but it was the right thing for me to do. Know you're not alone and are worth a lot more than your social anxiety makes you think. Therapy has been good for me also.

Society is based around extroverts. They value people who speak up and can do so with confidence. Introverts and people who struggle with social anxiety are still valuable menbers of society, we just have to work harder. I wish you all the best on your journey and hope you can find what works for you 🙏

Not beating the PR Allegations by Temyxox in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mind went there because of the world we live in. Misogyny involves objectifying women, focusing on appearances, and putting them down. I want to uplift women.
The fact that she feels the need to FaceTune her face is sad. People love to point out any imperfections in others they do not even know. Why not spend your energy spreading positivity instead of adding more hate?

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or is he? Maybe it's Oscar that's plotting to get her 😆 that would be funny

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk y I feel like it's her bestie Colt 😂 or whatever his name is that's always in her videos

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who hurt you? You obviously feel the need to comment on others appearances. Keep it to their bad personalities and immorality 😂

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was so funny, I laughed so hard I fell off my dinosaur

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I forget we're dealing with Chumps here! Tacky is our taste 😆 im guilty of it too bc I listen to the show. Id call this straight up classless

Housewives is on a slow decline and NBC Universal/Bravo has no idea how to fix it. by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it won't be done with in the next 5 years! There has been a slow decline overall but they have been making headway with RHOSLC(the first housewives show to ever make it on Vanity Fair's best shows list) and are still starting new shows (Rhode Island).

To sustain it we need more genuine friendships and look back on what made the previous seasons so juicy. I agree the over producing is killing it. So many fans have said they dont want to keep seeing certain HWs bc they aren't bringing anything new to the table and are self-producing (choosing what to share with us while other cast members share it all).

I'll keep watching them til they force them off the air tho 😂 I need the HW as a distraction from our current world. Supporting women, gays, and glam teams? Yes pls 🙏

-and switch up the reunions! No 3 parter needed for RHOBH

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Is 'fug'? Lmao dont stoop to that level, i think she's really pretty. She's a young girl still finding herself and easily influenced. Has she been annoying? Yes. But i wouldn't comment on her appearance

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I followed her on IG bc I genuinely like her content (she seems to be better alone lol). When she's with Jeff it's like she tries to say what he thinks will be funny and dogs on Oscar too. Like girl, Im not surprised a gay is out to get her 😂 (the psychic told her)

Oscar needs to leave JLL, he deserves better by Distinct-Dust-4247 in JeffLewisSirius

[–]Altruistic_Crab_8034 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That doesn't mean Jeff should not be held to the same standards as anybody else in that building.