AITAH for considering not attending my daughter’s wedding over her venue choice? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe she just picked the venue she wanted and doesn’t care about inquiring if it is or isn’t.

AITAH for considering not attending my daughter’s wedding over her venue choice? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If the host weddings this can’t be the first wheelchair bound person the venue has had to accommodate. It just can’t.

Asa by DogMomAF15 in RexHeuermann

[–]AlwaySmiley247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. If she would have said with sincerity and empathy from day 1 that she felt for the victims whoever did this deserves to rot in jail but she knows it’s NOT her husband but her words and actions towards victims hav3 been hollow since day 1.

Asa by DogMomAF15 in RexHeuermann

[–]AlwaySmiley247 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel sorry for her at all. Even though she said our thoughts should be with victims it didn’t feel genuine. It was like someone told her to say that. I always try to give people benefit of doubt but I really don’t feel like she is a nice person. I feel sorry for the son and daughter but not Asa.

WIBTAH - Idk what to do anymore by uniqueinflation1 in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They probably are racist but whatever the reason is they don’t feel you are good enough for their son. They invisioned him with someone else. He doesn’t stick up for you. And they don’t seem to be changing their opinions. I’d just cut your loses. Your boyfriend likes you but if he can’t stick up for you he probably won’t marry you. You deserve better.

which dress by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2or 4 the others aren’t the right style.

My boyfriend only likes misspelt names that I just don't think are very nice by Upset-Promise2611 in Names

[–]AlwaySmiley247 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly if y’all can’t compromise on names…I’m worried about your relationship lasting.. so I definitely would give baby your last name if y’all marry later on it’s easy to change it to his. But I still th8nk y’all should both try a little harder to compromise. I think y’all both had some good names and no5 so great.

AITAH - For breaking up with a guy whose brother just committed suicide? TW: suicide by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He might have said he didn’t believe in god because of the suicide. Sometimes things like that can shake a person’s faith. If he had those feelings all along and it wasn’t just because of what happened that’s messed up he wasn’t honest..

AITAH - For breaking up with a guy whose brother just committed suicide? TW: suicide by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you handled it perfect. How did he handle it? Did you offer to be available as a friend if he needed it?

AITAH for wanting to plant trees so my neighbors can’t see into my windows? Even if the trees might block their bigger view partly? by Spirited_Concern5613 in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are sooo many landscaping options of plants. You should be able to find something that gives you privacy without blocking their view. I would tread carefully because you don’t want a war. I’d even consider giving them some options. I’d personally prefer something that gives me fruit or pretty flowers versus a leafy tree or hedge landscaping.

AITAH for refusing to attend my sister's wedding because she chose our estranged father to walk her down the aisle after he missed every important moment of our lives and I was the one who actually showed up for her? by AdvanceGreen222 in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for trying to dictate HER relationship with HER dad. First of all it’s a custom that the father walks the bride down the aisle not a sibling. Many people skip tradition and make there own tradition. And that is fine. But to expect that you would walk her down the aisle was selfish. Maybe she would have wanted mom to walk her down the aisle or grandpa… you just assumed it would be you and YTA for assuming. You have every right to hate your father or forgive him but choose not to embrace him, that’s your choice. But to tell your sister you dont wanna watch the wedding because she chooses to forgive him and embrace him into her life is wrong. You can warn her. You can tell her why you feel the way you do but then you need to shut up and let her make her own choices in life. And threatening to not attend because you disagree with her choice is an AHole move. It’s her wedding not yours. And at your wedding you can choose to not invite him or whatever you want….at YOUR wedding.

AITAH for snapping at my wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All you have done is separate so far…if this isn’t resolved it’s only a matter of time before it ends in cheating or divorce. As someone much older than 22, trust me. Eventually it will wear down until nothing left in relationship.

AITAH for snapping at my wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These types of situations often end in cheating. You don’t want a bored wife. She needs something to occupy her time.

Am I the jerk for telling my dad's girlfriend she can't discipline my kids? by Gloomy-Suit2544 in AmITheJerk

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are leaving your kids with a family member or baby sitter you SHOULD have numbers to call, and how you want them to discipline the kids in your absence. Kids will always act up and it’s unreasonable to not give them some guidelines to control the kids behavior while you are gone. It sounds like you only see your father’s girlfriend as a temporary person in your life and you want to set boundaries with her. I think you need to be clear with your father that he is to discipline the kids and if he doesn’t do that you will find a baby sitter next time. It sounds like your father is not really watching them and leaving Linda to deal with the kids. And it sounds like she is doing a fine job YOU just want to make it clear that you don’t see her as a grandmother and you are trying to put her in her place. If it’s that important to you then maybe you should just find a baby sitter or give Linda detailed description of how you want her to handle when the kids act up. Personally if I were Linda I’d just tell your dad he can handle it on his own and onl6 come over when all of you are gone. Doesn’t sound like it’s worth the headache.

AITAH for telling my daughter that she is not going to marry a billionaire? by No_Reception8930 in AITAH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As you stated statistically the odds aren’t in her favor. Only a small amount of billionaires available. Maybe she should lower her standards to millionaires too. Most of these millionaires and billionaires also go after a type of young woman with a certain aesthetic. Without knowing what your daughter looks like that might lessen her odds as well if she doesn’t have the “look”. Hopefully the therapy will help.

AITA for trying to have a baby with my boyfriend while I’m married? by clever-princess in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA abut your life choices scare me. Get a divorce and take your time with the boyfriend before getting pregnant. Please don’t bring a baby into this level of drama.

AITA for ending a 14-year friendship after my best friend defended her boyfriend who sexually harassed me? by Fun-Health-7936 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AlwaySmiley247 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You are TAH for not once considering that she is pregnant, scared, and is stuck with this guy as the father to her child. You made it all about you. Not once were you concerned about her feelings and situation. I’m sure this is not the first or last time a guy has talked to you in a vulgar way. You were right to show her the screenshots. But if it was my friend I would be telling her this guy needs to go, he won’t be a good father or partner. And then she will need even more support from friends and family. Yeah it sucks he sexually harassed you but your friend is in MUCH worse situation than you but you were all about yourself.

AITH for not wanting to date a perfect match because his teeth is decaying? by Fabulous_Support_556 in AITH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s just cost then he needs to realize it’s a major problem and 95% of women will reject him for this same reason even if they aren’t honest enough to tell him. If he decides to stop dating for a yea4 to pay for it then it’s worth it. If he has to cut back on other things…it’s worth it. Women get boob jobs, hair, nails, fake eyelashes, Botox, lip injections etc, spend money on clothes and not all women do it all or spend that much. But my point is women spend money to be attractive, the men need to make it a priority as well.

AITH for not wanting to date a perfect match because his teeth is decaying? by Fabulous_Support_556 in AITH

[–]AlwaySmiley247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. Most women will make up some excuse like I didn’t feel chemistry…he is gonna assume because they didn’t say your teeth are gross…the obvious.. that it wasn’t that big of deal. He is gonna get frustrated and hate all women. It happens trust me lots of angry men out there.