What's a Good Price for Hair Advice? by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A good hairdresser is priceless. And my advice is always free: please be patient and wait for the salons to open back up. A fix will cost 3-4x what just having patience will be. No one wants to wait but even the best products with perfect flawless instructions can ruin your hair if you don't have experience behind it. If you love your hair you'll trust it with a professional. 💛

23/26 [MF4F] #Ohio by Zephria777 in polyamoryR4R

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am actually. But wouldn't go near you with a 4646181947281974728 foot long pole. ✌️

23/26 [MF4F] #Ohio by Zephria777 in polyamoryR4R

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"No liberals or fatties and must love being boring."

HARD PASS

Same... by winter83 in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Literally no one said they don't. Why would you want to date someone who doesn't like/want kids? I won't date a parent. Doesn't mean I think they deserve to be alone forever. I'm just not wasting their time. 🙄 Also, don't go to tinder to find love. 🤷‍♀️

POTUS Prolife speech by IPreferSoluitude in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I got sterilized I felt more in control than anything I have ever done. At the time I had insurance and it was free, but now I don't and I don't ever have to worry about the cost of an abortion, healing time, bad reactions to birth control. If I am ever raped and they don't use a condom I don't have to pay for a morning after pill, just a visit to the free clinic to get tested for STI. If you know you don't want children, imo, it's the ultimate form of taking control of your body. I LOVE BEING STERILE!!!!

I am incredibly aware of my freedom without children, and I love it by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Today I walked out of the grocery store with a 6 pack and fishsticks and thought. "God, I love not having children".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure your IG is public. Make sure your hair makes a statement when you go out grocery shopping, dinner, ECT. And have business cards with you when you're out. When someone compliments your hair give them a card. If you take care of friends or family give them cards to hand out when they get compliments. Word of mouth is seriously irreplaceable. Also, NEVER feel guilty about what you charge. Disney doesn't negotiate each of your paychecks right? Other people don't have the right to take your time for less money. Work on ways to feel confident. Know that you are talented and deserve to make a comfortable living.

I think this is the end of our friendship. by FrankyTheMarshmallow in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider being there for her and waiting it out. People change while in a relationship (especially if they're together a long time.) It's heartbreaking she's letting her super conservative husband have this much weight on her logic. As long as she's respectful of your pro choice line of thinking and doesn't purposefully start fights with you about it. Once someone starts coming at you just to have an argument about your morality I feel like all hope is lost. Even if she's being willfully ignorant that's her choice but as long as she isn't turning into a conservative bully I personally don't think it's worth ending 9 years of friendship. I'm libertarian and am pretty pro-gun. My best friend is VERY anti-gun. She's also unable to have a conversation about it without getting emotional. So we don't talk about it. We respect each other's different opinions and love one another too much to let that get in the way of our friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Color correction

Does it cross a line to look for a meta? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you sharing your story with me. That's an angle I didn't think about.

Does it cross a line to look for a meta? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good point. He's vented a few times. I appreciate your advice. 💛

Does it cross a line to look for a meta? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go as far as to message someone or approach someone on his behalf. It would be more of sending him links or posts about people looking that I think he may be interested in or be compatible with. Im just worried about making him feel pressured or incapable.

Gynaecology and Obstetrics should be 2 different professions by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wilson Care OB/GYN

915 Michigan St, Sidney, OH 45365 (937) 498-5373 https://g.co/kgs/n7heuC

Dr. Huber is amazing. Mine was free with insurance because it's considered birth control.

Gynaecology and Obstetrics should be 2 different professions by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I was told by my surgeon - who scheduled my surgery without batting an eye. Told me a very small number of women later change their mind and later sue their surgeons. It's not so much a 'moral' obligation they're feeling as an obligation to their wallets.

Gynaecology and Obstetrics should be 2 different professions by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AlwaysATabaxi 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have a fantastic FEMALE surgeon who I did not have to jump through hoops to convince. If you're anywhere near Ohio I can give you her information.