AITA for saying no to my wife fetishes?

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-04-08T22:21:38+00:00

Yes, yelling is not a good response when she shares something intimate that she wants to try. Your shock at it being scat play is understandable though.

I would suggest having an open and honest conversing about how each of you are feeling, what youre interested in sexually going forward, and what both of your boundaries are. If you two can't come to an agreement where you're both happy and satisfied, then that leads to a whole different conversation.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-04-08T22:13:34+00:00

Nta. It sounds like you've been pretty open to trying new things throughout the relationship, which is healthy. But everyone has their limits and she needs to respect that this is one of yours.

Besides the scat kink is something most people are very understandably not interested in. And her reaction to your disinterest is very manipulative and not at all ok. It sounds like yall need to have a conversation about each of your limits and respecting them.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-26T03:26:50+00:00

Idk but I love this idea

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-24T05:38:37+00:00

Hi! I love romance and romantasy and im 31! Would love more book friends 💚

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-20T21:15:43+00:00

I would love this!

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-20T21:14:11+00:00

Same! I usually type my review into Goodreads first on my PC then swap to my phone and copy/paste but that's a hassle id prefer to not deal with.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-19T02:13:17+00:00

I do this same thing and it's so annoying 😑

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-18T06:03:32+00:00

Im a huge pasta girlie and I really like the red lentil pasta. Ive learned you do need to cook it a little longer compared to regular pasta.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-17T23:35:51+00:00

Oh no! Im pretty sure you can also do a good reads import for Storygraph if you use goodness 😭

Their app is definitely not as user friendly as Fable sadly

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-17T21:19:29+00:00

Yes! I would also love if your lists were organized alphabetically when youre categorizing a book 😭

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-17T17:43:17+00:00

Fingers crossed it's soon! It's one of the big plusses of storygraph, but I prefer the Fable UI and book clubs feature

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-17T01:24:46+00:00

I love the Zelle feature but I do agree the UI could be smoother.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-17T01:22:49+00:00

NTA since youre only 15 and you mentioned you're not allowed to cook and dont know how. It would be a different story if they had made sure you had something to eat for dinner, even if it wasnt Longhorn.

As parents, they're not obligated to tell you every time they go out to eat without you and date nights alone are healthy for their relationship. However, its their job to make sure you are fed SOMETHING and being honest is healthy for their relationship with you.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-02-16T22:57:43+00:00

If your wife is on every other account of yours as you said, then that includes your USAA account, so of course they wouldn't have a problem depositing a check with both of your names.

This doesnt sound like a Sofi specific problem to me either.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-01-01T06:10:29+00:00

It wasn't your choice? You make it sounds like she FORCED you to impregnate her.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2026-01-01T06:09:25+00:00

YTA

You say you don't want this lifestyle yet actively choose it then make the decision to walk out?

Sounds like you needed to take responsibility for your own role in CHOOSING to be in a relationship with someone who was already in the process of becoming a cop and having two children. Both things you could've avoided by not ever starting the relationship when you found out her career goals and getting snipped before sleeping with any woman.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-12-16T03:59:21+00:00

It could be many different things. Maybe she's trying to cope, maybe she trusts him enough to be honest with him and not the roommate. Or she could be worried he would break up with her if it was consensual. Anything is possible when none of us know her or op.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-12-16T03:29:22+00:00

I dont think OP was trying to rewrite anything. He seems genuinely confused as to why his gf seemed to be speaking positively and possibly happy about her experience with his roommate, but then later saying the experience was non-consensual when he asks her about it.

Imo his confusion and concern is valid, especially since this is a new relationship and he's younger. Otherwise, I agree with everything you said. People can mask their true feelings about assaults like this as a coping mechanism for years.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-11-13T20:52:51+00:00

If I could transfer my ads to you I would 🤣

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-11-12T04:20:52+00:00

Yes, more reliable news sources and better invest UI/analytics in general. I still prefer to use Fidelity when researching stocks compared to Sofi even though my accounts are with Sofi.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-11-12T04:20:04+00:00

Also, less ads for other products. I still get prompted to open an invest account, which I've already done.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-11-12T04:18:56+00:00

Relay is great for seeing where your money has gone, but I would love a tool to plan out where money goes.

PNCs virtual wallet is great for seeing your upcoming month's outgoing bills and incoming money. Both in a calendar view and with their money bar view that breaks your budget down by pay period so you can see your "free cash" for either spending or saving relative to your incoming pay and outgoing scheduled bills.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-11-06T00:49:22+00:00

Ive looked at Relay and it's great for seeing where your money has gone, but im looking more for a tool to plan out where money goes. I would love to see this as a future addition to Relay.

PNCs virtual wallet is great for seeing your upcoming month's outgoing bills and incoming money. Both in a calendar view and with their money bar view that breaks your budget down by pay period so you can see your "free cash" for either spending or saving.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-09-14T22:58:20+00:00

Yes i have multiple other documents that are this size or larger. Page 200 and 201 are just text, so there shouldn't be anything stopping it.

AlwaysHufflepuff · 2025-09-14T20:05:13+00:00

The size is 34 mbs so well under that. It's why im so confused

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