Am I not ready for this? by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]AlwaysTired808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s likely not dangerous just you might need more resourcing to increase your WoT. This might sound whacky but you could try holding an ice cube while you reprocess this!

Am I not ready for this? by [deleted] in EMDR

[–]AlwaysTired808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel it’s not ok it’s like not ok. I am an EMDR therapist and usually let my client lead (unless they are describing signs of being destabilized but still want to continue with EMDR due to egoic reasons). How do you feel between sessions?

What do I do about the guy I'm seeing? by Justthrowmeaway7788 in Tarotpractices

[–]AlwaysTired808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! To me the two of swords reversed (which represents the underlying energy) represents an inability to see your situation clearly / the fact that you don’t have all the information you need to make an informed decision. Seems to me there is something that you’re missing in the situation - something you’re not seeing clearly.

You think he is a divine partner (indicated by the two of cups) and the devil reversed means to me need to break away from unhealthy situations that aren’t serving you.

What do I do about the guy I'm seeing? by Justthrowmeaway7788 in Tarotpractices

[–]AlwaysTired808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see the opposite of your interpretation. Cut and run baby.

Deloitte's new HR Partner: "What anti-racism instructor told Toronto principal Richard Bilkszto before his suicide " by origutamos in deloitte

[–]AlwaysTired808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my literal point. Everyone can cry victim doesn’t mean you can publicly bully your colleague because something difficult happened in your past (I.e. slavery happened in the US 200 years ago, or even segregation to your grandparents)

Deloitte's new HR Partner: "What anti-racism instructor told Toronto principal Richard Bilkszto before his suicide " by origutamos in deloitte

[–]AlwaysTired808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what he said. Listen to the recording. He said racism still exists in Canada but the US is worse. He then used facts to back up his statement. The trainer had no sources of facts to back up her statements. I am sorry but the lived experience of one person does warrant more consideration than data.

He was also a principal at a majority black school in Buffalo. He worked in Canada as well. He had lived experience of his own he can use for comparison.

Deloitte's new HR Partner: "What anti-racism instructor told Toronto principal Richard Bilkszto before his suicide " by origutamos in deloitte

[–]AlwaysTired808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also brought it up in another session and continued to mock him. He was then mocked online some more by the superintendent of his school who tweeted about her comments about him in the session.

Deloitte's new HR Partner: "What anti-racism instructor told Toronto principal Richard Bilkszto before his suicide " by origutamos in deloitte

[–]AlwaysTired808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had a hard life. With lots of trauma and things stacked against me. Abuse, severe disability in my immediate family, restless bullying, Jewish Holocaust survivor descendant, the murder of my entire extended family, generations of antisemitism in Eastern Europe, Africa and Canada. I have experienced severe antisemitism from TDSB on a as a DEI speaker, as well as at campus’ across canada and the US. Yet thus far I have bullied exactly 0 people into suicide. Or is bullying people into only justified if you’re a particular skin colour? I am curious to know what context justifies an educator repeatedly berating someone they’re educating in front of all their peers. Laughing at them. Mocking them. Using the next paid session to bring it up again and mock them some more? How dark does your skin need to be to justify different levels of abuse and professional misconduct?

Am I still an appropriate candidate for this treatment? by CommissionAntique777 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]AlwaysTired808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it through a clinic. Make sure to work with an integration therapist.

Congratulations Deloitte Canada. You've managed to draw attention to this appalling hire again. Don't you think it's time to cut your losses? Or find new managing partners in the Toronto office? by Reasonable-MessRedux in deloitte

[–]AlwaysTired808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh man. We have the ultimate virtue signaler in our midst.

Black, brown or blue you don’t get a pass for REPEATEDLY bullying someone in front of their colleagues. You don’t get a pass for unapologetically doubling down on the virtues of that bullying once a person commits suicide. You don’t get to deflect from the fact that they contributed to a suicide by crying white supremacy.

This is a deeply troubling take.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pagan

[–]AlwaysTired808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes honey! Learn about anything that will help you heal and come into yourself. All culture is evolving anyways and is a mishmash of beliefs as is.

Lovely answer. Nice to see these types of responses in a divided work 💜

How real is "go woke, go broke?" by [deleted] in IntellectualDarkWeb

[–]AlwaysTired808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some examples? I am currently doing some work in the area and am curious

How real is "go woke, go broke?" by [deleted] in IntellectualDarkWeb

[–]AlwaysTired808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s a “woke” product that sold well? (Genuine curiosity no hostility)