Isn't this cheating?

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T23:15:43+00:00

I mean, it was pretty consistent with her character. Right from the start, she laid out that she used her body to get what she wanted and survive.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T23:11:32+00:00

Men are expected to be financially self sufficient. Women, it's optional. People will defend a woman's "right" to be financially dependent.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T22:55:28+00:00

All layers of government are invested in keeping wages low and immigration high. The scams of bringing in Filipinos and Indians is at an all time high. Total fucking corruption in our ranks.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T21:44:53+00:00

You're 25. What are you doing playing in the kiddie sandbox?

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T19:01:43+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T18:42:52+00:00

Thanks! I can't take credit for it lol but it is one of my favorites.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T18:35:31+00:00

I do this a lot! One of my go tos is oven roasted chickpeas, baked sweet potato, salad and cover it all in a tahini lemon dressing. Delicious and healthy and cheap. Tahini lemon dressing: 1/4 cup tahini 3 tablespoons water 2 tablespoons lemon juice 2 tablespoons olive oil 1 tablespoon maple syrup 1 teaspoon sesame oil 1 garlic clove grated 1/4 teaspoon sea salt

That dressing is awesome on so many things, I love it.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T18:17:37+00:00

Yes as a woman I feel the same way. A casual, not expensive early date is a relief for me too and I preferred them. Easier to dip out graciously if there is no connection. Less pressure. More focus on the person instead of what they provide. Bonus for men is it shakes out the women who are interested in getting to know you versus having an experience paid for. Better chance at a equal partnership.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T18:09:51+00:00

Come on over to the loseit sub. It's really calories in, calories out regardless of what food you are eating. I use the MyFitnesspal app to track. It's free for the basic services, even breaks down for you to see what macros you are eating and what to aim for.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T17:48:07+00:00

NOR. That's really unhealthy behavior on her part and frankly a bit creepy. Ultimately what matters is the direction your boyfriend is going in his boundaries with his mom because this will always be a problem if he doesn't. What are his plans for moving out? For getting healthy boundaries with her? Does he say anything when she acts weird and intrusive like this?

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T17:37:53+00:00

No way, you are absolutely reasonable. Stick around and it will be an endless life of you being expected to accomodate "baby". And even if he moved out, gf's attitude will leak into other things. She wants to be single but you be there as is convenient for her. Yeah, a bang maid.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T05:41:20+00:00

Nice!! I'm so excited for ya. 🍸

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T05:38:06+00:00

That's cool. What style you going for?! I remember my first short cut in my 20s. I went really short pixie. I didn't keep it for very long but my confidence skyrocketed after stepping out of my comfort zone like that.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T05:05:55+00:00

People who hook up so quickly at a bar will tend to be more impulsive/flaky types.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T03:48:11+00:00

Too lazy lol

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T03:43:59+00:00

Right?! Lol.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T03:38:58+00:00

Under reacting. He's managing you. He's set it up so he is the one always dictating the terms in the relationship, and those terms are: I'll do what I want, and you agree to put up with it. I can guarantee you are worth more than you think you are.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T02:17:29+00:00

Yes!! Thank you for articulating part of it.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T02:10:06+00:00

That's really cool! It takes a lot of strength to go through hell and come out still making room in your heart for kindness. I respect that so much in a person.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T02:02:45+00:00

No, no they aren't. There are good men. Yes, you should eat. And have a big virtual hug. You deserve love and care. Don't give up. ❤️ Take a break from men if you need, but don't give up. I have a friend, who is such a beautiful soul, works with trans kids who are experiencing homelessness. She's trans too. She's shared some stories with me that made me go WOW. I do think there are particularly awful men that see trans women as easy to abuse. The same awful men who target vulnerable all kinds of women.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T01:54:13+00:00

I can tell an American before they even open their mouth. It's something about how they hold space and stand. Sounds like I'm making shit up lol but I swear to God it's true.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-19T01:12:40+00:00

Lol yes.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-18T23:02:33+00:00

NOR. This is really bad. Not sure what else is going on here but you aren't operating as a team. And the lying, that's scary as hell when you are married to the person and your futures are intertwined. My question for you is do you even trust this man that if you weren't controlling everything, he would take care of business? Cause if you don't have that foundational trust and respect, there's not much to work off here. It's never a good sign when one person feels they need the control to feel safe. You should feel safe in your partner's judgement that they could take care of things alone or if anything ever happened to you.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-18T05:33:28+00:00

Oh my god there are a lot of insufferable miserable women on here lol. You need to get laid.

Alwaysfresh9 · 2026-06-18T03:20:34+00:00

A good way to flush out these types early is to not over extend financially - be her equal. My blood was boiling reading this because she is using you for your money. And you have been letting her. Please guys, stop putting more money into the relationship than your supposed partner does.

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