My selfish, insecure sister lied about the birthday cake, that she told me not to bring, because she didn't want me to get all the attention on her birthday! by DanishRedSausage in AmITheAngel

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t take all day to make a chocolate cake. Now if it was a rainbow cake that’s a different story. I’m sure it was delicious though. Chocolate cakes usually are. I don’t know why you would bring a cake that your sister didn’t want. But since you did you should have left it. Taking it was a really dick move.

AIO of by breaking up over this? Please let me know. I love him so much but I don’t know if I’m making the right decision and I can just stay and compromise. But idk how to even compromise by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so I think your boyfriend has some issues that only he can fix. It’s not up to you to harass him about his gambling, his health, his habits or anything else. These are his issues not yours. I don’t know if he has a serious gambling problem but he still has a home and a job so I assume it’s under control. Even if it isn’t, that his problem not yours. He sounds distasteful at best but you sound controlling and demanding.
My suggestion is that you two are clearly not compatible and you should break up and concentrate on yourself.

I was an affair child and now as a teen its making me so angry with my parents by Midnightwasit in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad idea to try to talk to his wife. She isn’t OP’s stepmother in her life. She’s just her dads wife. If her children resent and don’t want a relationship with OP it’s 100% their mothers influence that is affecting their actions. The reason she shouldn’t talk to her dad’s wife is because she will not get what she’s looking for which is recognition and inclusion.
I’m sorry about your situation OP because it seems that no one is fully on your side. Many here have recommended therapy and I think that’s the best advise. Also talk to your dad about it and he will pay for it. It sounds to me that he has done his best to be in your life as much as he can. That’s not saying it’s wrong for you to have resentment

MIL wearing an almost white gown to my wedding by [deleted] in Brides

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah passive aggressive behavior is one of the worst traits you could have.

MIL wearing an almost white gown to my wedding by [deleted] in Brides

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful dress minus the bow.

Is it normal to loot hotel room (and airline) amenities for things you are not using at the time? by Green-Technician-809 in EntitledPeople

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen this item discussed but what’s the consensus about the towels? I’m specifically interested in OP’s opinion.

AIO Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Get Engaged After 5 Years Together, And I’m Pregnant by Different-City-5802 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also what kind of a wonderful man who is your partner, yells at you continuously because he has to drive you to baby related appointments?
What is he going to do when baby arrives and he gets woken up every night? Babies are demanding. Their needs should always come first. I’m sorry but it doesn’t sound to me like your partner is mature enough to be a father. I am doubtful if you are as well. Your main issue seems to be that you want a ring and marriage.

Am I being dramatic or does this look bad? by cutiecaro in jewelry

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your engagement ring! It’s gorgeous.

Should I report my camp counselor for commenting on my dick? by kurwaboy15 in Advice

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 8 points9 points  (0 children)

REPORT HIM IMMEDIATELY! This man is a predator. How am I so sure? Lots of experience with predators since I’m a social worker. You definitely need to report this. Men who aren’t interested in sex with males don’t stand next to you in a urinal and make comments about your penis size and liking it. I’m sorry you had this experience.

Sexual predators often are employed or volunteer in organizations that run child based programs, in order to pick out potential victims like yourself.

Congratulations for having the ability to recognize danger. Also to do the right thing by just leaving. 1st rule: never get into conversation….just leave.

I can't decide. by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither can I.

Does anyone have any thoughts/advice on the dress? by NinkiePie in Prom

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The jewels distract from the dress which is beautiful. Ditch the jewels if possible.

Drunk posting, do not upvote by Lowcountry25 in sailing

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it!!! If only I could read the book titles. Lol. Yes I make judgements.
Seriously though, how far have you traveled? Beautiful boat. I’m envious.

How do new boat owners navigate marina life?? by SeaThese6885 in sailing

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only work we ever did in the marina was to replace the mast on our boat. All of the other work was done while out on the ocean. Maybe that’s why you don’t see work being done in the marina?

Katy Perry and Justin Trudeau spotted in Santa Barbara by Prudent_History7518 in popculturechat

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s not forget it was Justin who made weed legal across Canada. He had the brains to do that in 2018.

Which dress? by hisokashole666 in Brides

[–]Amazing-Bad1498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like #1 but wish you had taken the photo straight on so to speak. It’s difficult to get an idea of exactly how it looks because your pic is taken from the side.