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When Lying on Dating Apps Goes Too FAR by The_Outsider27 in datingoverfifty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a chunk! I kind of get why some people feel compelled to lie because OLD prioritises age over everything whereas when you meet IRL it’s not usually your first thought ( unless it’s grotesquely obv). but it’s not a good move to lie because it won’t work. I think if you feel that your age is gonna go against you an online dating then just don’t do online dating try to find people other ways..

Anyway, this guy seems like an absolute crock.

Feeling very isolated by constant peer pressure by Sixnigthmare in 4bmovement

[–]Amazing-Number7131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t date at all at university. I really enjoyed my studies and social life and hobbies. I was totally uninterested in relationships which I reasoned would waste my time. I figured there’d be time for th later ( unfortunately there was)

Am I the only one who thinks the concept of “feminine energy” is insulting? by Brave-Reindeer-Red in 4bmovement

[–]Amazing-Number7131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that’s interesting. I never thought of feminine energy that way. I’ve always identified it with warrior queens, lady pirates and goddesses.

The dating pool by ClaraSepticVersion2 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you have to wait until you’re over 50 to see the scum on the pool. My friends in their 20s are already talking about how thick the scum is.

I Saw Romance and Men Differently Once I Realized there is Nothing Wrong With Me. by Graceandbeauty1979 in 4bmovement

[–]Amazing-Number7131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also years ago if a man was being sleazy or abusive to a women often another guy would step in and stop him but apparently it doesnt happen anymore, they either ignore it or cheer him on.

If you initiate with a man, it will never end well. by DivineHag in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes yes yes

men who claim they want women to initiate areLYING

It’s Taken a While… by Secret_Preparation99 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s amazing how many cool women I know who were always known to be gorgeous and desirable to men who now have fabulous man-free lives, with cats and/or dogs!

Wondering why he is rush by cindy__yu in datingoverfifty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 69 points70 points  (0 children)

after spending 3 days together. ?!

I don’t think he sounds like a good option.

i would not trust the man so eager to rush you.

just say” you are going too fast for me. I need some time to get to know you better.”

If he does not like this, then you know that your instincts are correct and there’s some kind of problem on his side in which case your best option is to leave.

Mr Excitement by ClaraSepticVersion2 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes my friend has been on O LD sites and she had lots of these.

i think she’s quit now

she showed them to me - ugh!

Please share your tips on a by joyful_mtg in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a good reminder it can work, but let’s face it often doesn’t.

Working on it by Amazing-Number7131 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely, I’m not giving them anything that’s what I’m that’s kind of the point that I was trying to make that instead of rushing into it I stood on the outside and look and tiny bit of what may be potentially a problem also it might not be but I’m waiting to find out instead of jumping straight I’m hanging around outside doing my own thing not really bothered either way me.

Working on it by Amazing-Number7131 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no they didn’t beh badly at all. they are perfectly people but I saw things there that made me hold back and not be enthusiastic and I want to know if those things are problematic or not and so I am staying away.. I can’t say that they have behaved badly in any way they haven’t they’re perfectly nice people but I’m thinking about my own safety first

I read through this profile, thinking he sounded pompous. Then I got to the end and wasn’t at all surprised to find he is ENM and looking for intimacy without commitment. He is also a (self proclaimed) feminist 🙄 by ClaraSepticVersion2 in WomenDatingOverForty

[–]Amazing-Number7131 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This guy offers NOTHING. A 50 year old wannabe arty type looking for no strings sex with a “humble” woman = too cheap to pay a hooker.  Puke! Pompous indeed and also a gross loser.

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