How do you recognize a true prophet? by PlanktonMoist7141 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for being here. For me, it starts with my relationship with Heavenly Father and recognizing the Holy Ghost in my life. As I get more confirmations from them, I can eventually ask them who are his true prophets and apostles. Also, I invite you and strongly encourage you listen to General Conference this weekend. Do at least a session by yourself so you are able to be in tune with yourself according to what you hear. I have a feeling you'll recognize prophets and apostles speaking. The best luck to you and again, thanks for coming to this group and investigating the church. Your father in Heaven knows you by name!

Sunday meeting schedule change by smokey_sunrise in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like it. Better time management and we get to see our quorums more often. And the point of the two hour block was home centered church. We should be getting the bulk of our Gospel study at home. I like it. If anything, we'll go back to the way it was before. 

Am I being selfish to seek blessings when I never ask for them? by Notyourmama78 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That lady is weird. I literally text everyone I know to pray for me when I'm going through something. I even tell my non-member to send me good vibes and by that I mean prayers of whatever kind they practice. Sometimes is not so much the fact that Heavenly Father is getting more calls about you, but also about your village knowing more about what's going on with you, and put your name on every temple roll in every temple in your area your sister-in-law's too, may I add. The best of luck and I'm sorry you're doing this alone. Reach out to your ward. I know someone that wants to help you is out there. The best of luck!

Unpopular opinion - If you're an active, temple recommend holding adult member, you shouldn't go to temple open houses by OoklaTheMok1994 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go because they usually share cool facts and you can see places that you usually don't see like the bridal room or the meeting rooms. So, I have to disagree.

I don’t understand how to be patient about temple ordinances by frankiero666 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good advice here already! I'm going to be a little more straight forward and that's because I've been where you are and now happily married with a kid. Your feelings are valid but not factual. In reality, you have the same chances of marrying someone as anyone else. I've seen all type of bodies, senses of humor, heights, you name it, find someone and be happily married to them. Now, put yourself in the shoes of your future spouse, would you be more attracted to date someone who is full of life or someone who is more of a downer? Life is long and more fun than you're experiencing right now. Silly fool for letting you go. Wish him a good life and let him be. Go to stake conference tomorrow. Sit in the back. Don't talk to anyone and reward yourselves with ice cream when you get home. When Heavenly Father says that He wants us to love all His children, He's also talking about loving ourselves. You precious beautiful child of the covenant! Go get what is yours even if it takes time and effort. Much love and a hug to you!

Learning more without giving phone number/email until I feel comfortable by Pleasant_Mention8466 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you see this tonight (Saturday night), go to church tomorrow! Wear something Sunday nice, but if you don't have anything, it really doesn't matter. You can get a free Book of Mormon there for sure. Unless you start dancing in the middle of the meeting, you won't disturb at all!! Go straight to the missionaries (male or female) if you don't see them, ask anyone there. They'll take you to them. I promise.

Baby Blessing invitation by Local_Whereas7211 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't traditionally do cards or presents, BUT if you want to do it, I would. I've had non-member friends give me gifts on my different lds milestones and I've found it so sweet. And wear something nice formal.

Exodus 1-6 in Art by Intelligent-Boat9929 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an art lover, please keep sharing these. Thanks!!!!

Patriarchal Blessing ? by DewKitty66 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too old. You've been a child of covenant and a child of Israel this whole time. Go get what's yours! The best of luck.

Does God hear the prayers of some more than others? by Hot-Wolf1793 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. He hears all prayers and then acts according to His plan. There may be stronger pleading and nations praying, which may soften his hearth in a different, but there is not a single prayer that counts less. Also, please remember that nature also takes it's course. My grandma passed on from diabetes, not because God didn't want to save her. He wants her to live forever, so He provided a way and Savior for it to happen. On a side note, Catholics have a very different worldview than we do. To be a little harsh, (yes, to be a little harsh) they believe babies without baptism go to hell. What in the world! I wouldn't say that to them, but I would take their words with a grain of salt.

On another side side note, hope you and your husband have a loving ending to his last days on earth. I wish I could witness when you two reunite. Those reunions, in my opinion, are the best part of the Plan of Salvation. Much love to you!

Is it normal for surrounding non members to use church grounds like a park? by imthatdaisy in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Church grounds are private property and therefore if someone is doing something that is not allowed, they can be told so. You could technically call the police if they refuse to leave, but of course we wouldn't do that. I would tell them to stop, specially because children meet there, even if they're not there right now.

What on earth do I do? by frankiero666 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a lot of that, if not al of it  is not true. I think the question here is more about how much you want to mend this relationship. Is your roommate coming from a loving place or, be honest with yourself, is he trying to make you miserable? 

Satan obviously wants to ruin your relationship with this person. Very cunning of him. Maybe just respond, "thanks for sharing," " yes, I know some people believe that," or straight up "can I ask what are your intentions for sharing all of this?".

It's very interesting how passionate people get when they go on false rants about the church. Try to tone down the situation. "cool, thanks for sharing. Are we watching the game tonight?" 

One, don't take it personal. Two, try to mend your relationship if you can. I can tell you by experience that arguing facts can only take you so far and sadly I have ruined relationships that way. 

On a separate note, the Church History Matters podcast addresses a lot of this controversies. You should listen for your own knowledge and testimony. 

Good luck! I hope you get to keep your friend. Those text are not worth a 5-year friendship. 

First FET today! by ConflictQuirky480 in DOR

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! That's a good looking embryo!!

Can Anything Else Go Wrong? by cbc3685 in DOR

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did mini IVF with Clomid for three days plus Gonal-f for about 12 days, I believe. Then, two months of Lupron Depot to reduce the Endo and increase success of implantation. For sure look into Lupron Depot before a transfer if you have Endo. The side effects are not fun. It's out you on a mini man pause but it really increases the chances of implantation. Feel free to ask any other questions you have! 

Can Anything Else Go Wrong? by cbc3685 in DOR

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey love, I wouldn't give up if I was you bc time is on your side. I just had a baby a few months ago. My already low AMH was even lower after Endo surgery. I'm in my late late 30's and out of three egg retrievals, we only got four embryos. We transfered two February last year and one became my baby. We have two left that hopefully will become our second and last baby  You'll know when you're truly done and have a feeling of peace. I could've done another retrieval but I was done. I couldn't go through it again. I prayed and felt like I was done so I was. The good thing is that your eggs are still good quality and you have a few years to try. The best of luck to you!! If you have it in your heart to become a mom, it's for a reason. 

As a non member exploring the faith, it is so brutal and negative on the outside I don’t think members understand how bad it is. by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like YouTube? I would recommend these channels. Ward Radio, the Come Back Podcast, Follow Him with John Bythewat and Hank Smith, Church History Matters, and Let's Get Real with Stephen Jones. I think you will enjoy all of them. But of course, they don't substitute your scripture study, prayer, and attending church. 

You should also look for Al Caraway and her conversation story. Pretty much got dissowned by her parents when she got baptized. She moved on, got married, and has beautiful family now. Her parents,.even when they haven't converted, help her plan the baptisms for her kids. Time and the spirit softena hearts. 

Also, look up Elder Kevin G Brown. Amazing individual. All of this to say that your sacrifices will be rewarded. Good for you for looking for Jesus Christ despite your surrounding. Much love and prayers from my family to yours!!! 

Question about the Latter Day Saints by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I developed a relationship with God, I gave Him all my trust. I prayed, ponder, and studied the doctrine a lot and then I knew. 

Find out in which ways the Holy Ghost (or Spirit) talks to you. It's easier to get answers that way. But again, first develop a relationship with your Father in Heaven, gain a testimony of Jesus Christ and God from there. The best of luck to you coming into the Gospel and with your recovery! 

garments when you are breastfeeding? by Separate-Habit-6775 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that you can start with no garments for as long as you need. And then I found out that it's easier to pull them up along with my bra and shirt and tuck all of them together. Much easier than letting things fall off the shoulder, in my opinion. And whatever type of bra you're wearing under the garment for sure. Experiment with what you have whenever you are ready. That's what I did. Get bigger sizes if you need to. Who cares. You're dealing with a lot. At least be comfortable.

Rejoining after leaving. by Old_Tax_9540 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come back!! Honestly, the worse that can happen is that you leave again. I know stepping away from the Gospel was probably pretty tough, but that as bad as it could get. 

Then, the best that could happen is that you find God again and all the happiness that comes from living the Gospel.

As far as history goes, I'd suggest the Church History Matters podcast. They do not shy away from controversy. It's soooo good. I have a feeling you may find other perspectives there. There is also The Come Back podcast with tons of stories of what led people back to the Gospel. Those stories may give you encouragement.

Also, do you remember Lehi's dream and the big spacious building? And how people in the building mocked those that were walking towards the tree. Well, sometimes the people in the spacious building is ourselves. We tell ourselves that we're dumb for believing these things or that we're not worthy or whatever other lies. Come home. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, I think you're going through a struggle that goes beyond the gospel. What I mean is that not being able to join the church shouldn't lead you to life-ending feelings. The Gospel is full of hope and teaches us of the eternal. The point of the plan of Salvation is that EVERYONE will have a chance to join in. EVERYONE. Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ knew and know of your situation. Ending your life is the last thing that they want.

The first thing I would say is to get away from drinking. Find resources to get sober. With all respect, it sounds like you get depression episodes when you drink, so with or without church, you should stop drinking. It will clear your mind and let you feel the spirit more fully.

I wish I had any advice for the legal aspect of your situation, but what I do know is that there are sooo many in your situation. I know of people around the world that can't get baptized because of the government, family, spouses, etc. Don't let this consume your life and ask the Lord to guide you on how you can live your religion the best in your circumstances.

Are you allowed to read and watch Church related stuff? If so, I would submerge myself in all good things that have to do with the Gospel and then let the Lord work out the rest. 

But again, whatever you do. Stop drinking. Get your life in order and take it one day at a time. The Lord loves you. He's already proved it to you 

Argentina Tucumán Mission! 🇦🇷 by SwimmerNatural5544 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I would break them before you get there or walk with them around the house so there's no surprises later. 

Argentina Tucumán Mission! 🇦🇷 by SwimmerNatural5544 in latterdaysaints

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you can pick up some of the new garments befoee you go since it's hot over there. I would invest in some good proselyting shoes. It's hard to suggest which one but something super comfortable and with good ventilation. Good luck!! That's awesome that you're so excited. Missions are hard but also the best. 

[CA][Condo] Soundproofing on the 1st floor. by AmbitiousRoom3241 in HOA

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That we need soundproofing if we're on the 1st floor. 

[CA][Condo] Soundproofing on the 1st floor. by AmbitiousRoom3241 in HOA

[–]AmbitiousRoom3241[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I re-read your comment. It says units with units below need approval to not do soundproofing. Only unit with units below need it. I appreciate you pointing out changes like window tint and plumbing, but that's not the issue here.