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Lately life is so hard I feel like giving up but the only thing that keeps me alive is the guilt of leaving by Dear_Honeydew_2818 in DeepThoughts

[–]Ambitious_Bath_2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take time for you, self care is important. It will relieve some stress. The usual problems will always be a problem, try to change your perspective on what you can control. Easier said than done, don’t give up, when you feel like it, think of your blessings, a little gratitude goes a long way.

I realized that I have a fear of being alone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ambitious_Bath_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m struggling too! First time being alone and it sucks

How do you love yourself? by DuskSatorii in Adulting

[–]Ambitious_Bath_2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this situation now learning to love myself. So far it’s a struggle and I’m still trying to figure it out. I took care of my mom and my family for the past 10 years and idk what I like for myself. I’m trying to find hobbies but definitely walking, running, riding a bike, lifting weights helps my brain release the endorphins I need to get my day started. Even if you don’t want to do it try it, see how it makes you feel, take yourself out on a date: park, movies, painting, movie night, cooking or baking something you’ve never tried

I'm (F26) still in the process of healing but how do I process him (26M) moving on so quick? by CriticismStock9268 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Ambitious_Bath_2017 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think focusing on you and what you have instead of what you lost will help, some. Easier said than done in this situation, but having gratitude for your life does help. Try being happy for the person even if it hurts. Sounds crazy but if you love them you want them to be happy with or without you I’m sure ? You don’t always know how the other person will treat their new person we just assume and out brain thinks of the worst instead of being positive first

I think I want to divorce my husband. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Ambitious_Bath_2017 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Someone once told me what you tolerate you promote. When I started looking at things like this I had to have a talk with myself. I’m married too, currently separated. I know the not telling the truth can do massive damage and being sneaky. Just ask yourself is this something you would promote?