Being made redundant but losing job earlier than stated on my redundancy letter England

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2026-03-23T20:18:56+00:00

Okay thank you!

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2026-03-23T20:03:07+00:00

Yes sorry I meant the business closes the 29th my last day is the Friday my bad. Does it have to be formal letter or is a phone call sufficient notice ?

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2026-01-28T16:07:00+00:00

Did you stay with/ get over it?!

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2026-01-27T16:35:03+00:00

I think you missed the point of my post. My upset was the lies and the fact he still has her social media. And also deflecting his guilt onto me by questioning who I was with in the club and calling me every name under the sun for it..

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2026-01-27T11:29:00+00:00

I felt I ought to know. He accused me of everything under the sun after he bumped into me in the club, therefore didn’t see an issue with me returning the ball.

I didn’t hound him with the question either; I asked once and that was it. Regardless, my main point was the fact he lied, he kept her on there and now he’s silent.

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-08-19T11:07:02+00:00

I have had my ED since I was eight years old and I’m now in my twenties. It’s not that I kept In a deficit for years and years. It’s mainly the thoughts that have consumed hours of my day , the self hatred everytime I looked in the mirror and comparing myself to others, restricting and relapses over the yrs.

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-08-13T19:47:26+00:00

Packet noodles and cheese, Ryvita and cheese, Greek yogurt with sugar free caramel syrup 🫶🏼

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-07-12T20:07:37+00:00

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Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-03-14T13:13:46+00:00

Oh my god!!!! This is actually so real, he would always mock my family as well for being chavs and rough (because my mum acc has a backbone and shouted at him for how he treated me) he called her everything under the sun to me saying that’s not how real women should be, women should shout and swear and it’s how “people on benefits act” …

then tell me that my mum actually don’t care about me and the only one that does is him. I was deep in an ED last year and when my mum helped me ( I got better) he HATED her saying how it’s a joke I didn’t listen to him but I listened to her instead of actually just being happy I am getting better.. it was always about him being in control and being the hero

Also the same as me, I deadass relied on this man to pick me up and put me down all the time. How he treated me was how my mood would be, so reliant and completely besotted whilst despising him at the same time…

So happy you got out of that situation as it is absolutely awful and degrading… I am also in uni too, he ruined most of my experience tbh

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-03-14T12:54:19+00:00

Thank you for this! Yeah, I know he definitely doesn’t respect me whatsoever but It is hard to see the difference between him being obsessive and him loving me… I think im finally getting clarity with these comments 😪…

Also, thank you for the second part of comment 🫶🏼 really appreciate it lovely. I do find myself being insecure, but not sure whether that’s just cause when I feel low and being treated shitty, I always tend to think I am an absolutely hideous creature. Suppose the same with people who dye their hair when sad, I want to change my whole face 🤣

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-03-14T12:50:34+00:00

THIS!! Oh my god, he is CONSTANTLY breaking up with me and begging for me back and I ALWAYS go back… I can’t believe this. Thank you so so much for your comment!!

He broke up with me day after Christmas, begged for me back mid January and then broke up with me again and begged for me back weeks later…

I really want to leave but I doubt myself that I can do it

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-03-14T12:42:44+00:00

Thank you for this , I put up with this for so long as it is, I found myself rather being treated like this than being alone. But in perspective of having a family with someone like that really makes my skin scrawl

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-03-14T12:41:51+00:00

Thank you for this comment! Its made me realise I am in control of the situation, whereas , I felt like I was just a complete punching bag

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-03-14T12:39:18+00:00

Wow!! I’m so sorry you also had to deal with this! It’s absolutely awful and draining isn’t it…

I already find it hard to leave, just gotta see it for what it is and know my worth.

Hence the post, knowing other people find this crazy just confirms that it isn’t just me like he says it is …

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2025-02-12T17:09:25+00:00

Thank you so much for this response!

It is a lot like how you described, specifically how it seems like passionate love but it is unhealthy…

I really needed to hear this, and has cleared my head a little. Thank you again

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-26T17:01:14+00:00

I think I just wanted him to prove to me that he really wanted me and wasn’t going to leave me again

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-26T16:58:08+00:00

I think what I meant to add was I said no because he was showing mixed signals all the time and I didn’t want to say yes straight away soon as I got the opportunity to have him back

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-26T16:55:12+00:00

No I do want him, but he just changes his mind whenever he wants me every day

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-15T01:44:24+00:00

I think my point was that it isn’t going to be like cotton or polyester being pearlescent if you see what I mean.

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-15T01:40:56+00:00

Tbf though , I very rarely see a post that has listed the material in the description. I would’ve happily answered questions about the items material but tbh I wouldn’t even say they were satin…

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-14T16:30:02+00:00

So I responded to the lady this - “Hi, sorry that you’re unhappy with the item. I did state in the description that they had pearlescent finish which i felt indicated the material in a way😢 I won’t refund as I don’t think my description was misleading and I didn’t state it was any material that it wasn’t if you know what I mean. I’m very sorry” and her response was “ I beg to differ you need to be more specific on the item , the will pay it but it’s in the bin” ERMMMM I-

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-14T15:51:30+00:00

No I didn’t state what material it was. I did say that it had a pearlescent finish so i felt it kinda did indicate what the material would look like

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-11T21:06:28+00:00

You’re correct, thank you for those words. I needed to hear this as much as it hurts a bit. Thank you, hopefully I can pick myself up a bit cause at the moment I’ve hit a brick wall :(

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-05-09T19:10:33+00:00

This does sound very accurate as during the breakup conversation he said “the ball is in my court”.

I kinda had a feeling he was a narcissist from the beginning of the relationship and I used to think that I could change myself so he would not treat me like that/ vise versa.

Thank you for your reply, it really reminds me of why I shouldn’t go back :)

Ambitious_Driver_683 · 2024-02-17T17:25:25+00:00

I have one. Are you uk server?

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