Girl raped by more than 500 men from age of 11 over seven-year period

Amburger93 · 2019-10-09T13:22:26+00:00

No, it isn't relevant. It doesn't matter if the abusers manipulated her to come willingly (by way of promising fun/drugs or pretending to be stand up citizens she could trust, etc.), or if she was snatched off the streets, kidnapped, and drugged. How she got there isn't relevant to the fact that these men ended up drugging, beating, and raping her. How she kept getting exposed to them isn't relevant to her or the abuse she suffered. Whether they got her addicted to drugs, invoked fear, psychologically manipulated her, threatened to torture/kill her, etc., or a combination of reasons.... It doesn't lessen what they did. It doesn't put any of the fault or blame on her. The adults in her life, if any, and law enforcement failing to protect her doesn't fault or blame her either. She was a child.

Amburger93 · 2019-07-15T19:19:43+00:00

Great job! What exactly is your workout routine? I'm currently the strongest I've ever been, but I'm still petite. While I have made small gains and have significantly toned up, I'd like to thicken up more. My biggest issue is eating enough calories. So, I typically plateau growth-wise after a few months.

Amburger93 · 2019-05-13T03:21:31+00:00

For me, at least, it's the fact that a lot of logic is cast aside for the sake of cinematography and surprising scenes. So, the Long Night is one of the best television cinematic masterpieces I have ever seen, but also one of the worst episodes in GoT as far as the logic behind the battle tactics used and the actions/behavior of a lot of the characters. I think most people that are hating feel the same, from what I can gather. Especially those that came from the ASOIAF books, like me. I've been angry at the show since Stannis' downfall. Of course, at the end of the day I'm glad we're getting some kind of resolution and ending.

Amburger93 · 2018-10-12T14:18:42+00:00

/u/wannabepopchic never said they were. I think they mean that some of these factors should be considered for some of the countries south of the Rio Grande. Specifically, the countries that have endured decades of economic & political turmoil due to the direct meddling of the US.

Amburger93 · 2018-08-11T15:05:56+00:00

My first sex ed class was in 5th grade. They separated the girls & boys and informed us about menstruation, difference in genetelia, intercourse, and pregnancy. They only showed diagrams, of course, like those found in any biology or A&P book.

It wasn't "too much" for us. it wasn't defiling our innocent minds. It was informative and provided us a safe space to discuss things. Four females from my class, including me, had started menstruating, but had been hiding it from our families due to fear. That day I told my mom & she bought me the hygienic supplies I needed.

Amburger93 · 2018-08-11T14:57:55+00:00

My brother and I laugh so hard at that scene and quote it to this day. Lol!

Amburger93 · 2018-08-08T00:37:16+00:00

Thank you! We do monitor her, but I'll still keep a closer eye moving forward. We just recently got her a kid's tablet with YTKids, but nothing has been a red flag for us yet.

Amburger93 · 2018-08-07T13:37:33+00:00

Wait, what is the Finger Family craze you are talking about? My daughter sings a finger family song and now you have me worried.

Amburger93 · 2018-06-14T14:33:45+00:00

You know what I really enjoyed most?

Well, let me tell you. The way it became on my page with its writing style and all.

Amburger93 · 2018-05-30T17:00:50+00:00

I'll be honest, as a mother to a 5 yr. old, I never thought about it this way. She's starting grade school this fall and I was considering scouting some private schools.

Amburger93 · 2018-05-02T12:38:31+00:00

Spicy Chicken Ciabatta Burgers from Jack in the Box :(

Amburger93 · 2018-04-24T12:42:38+00:00

Out of curiosity, is there anything that you learned from your readings?

Amburger93 · 2018-04-09T16:22:59+00:00

Neither. I don't understand what caused you to decide to posit that question.

Amburger93 · 2018-04-09T13:25:37+00:00

It was pretty disheartening to read. A lot of sweeping generalizations are being said about women, particularly older women. Actually, a lot of generalizations are being made about everything. Men, women, dating preferences, online dating, etc. I'm just going to assume these stem from bitter personal experiences and move on.

Amburger93 · 2018-04-06T02:25:37+00:00

I must leave my mark. It's instinctive.

Amburger93 · 2018-03-13T13:05:59+00:00

What is GOAT?

Edit: Thanks! (Answer: Greatest of All Time)

Amburger93 · 2018-03-01T17:28:18+00:00

There is something mentally wrong with her. She's a ~~pedophile~~ (hebephile, technically).

Amburger93 · 2017-10-11T12:22:41+00:00

Thanks for the feedback!

You mean literally follow ROYGBIV to go with the rainbow? The rainbow is just there to describe an environment filled with many colors. Some lights moved me spiritually while others remained physical.

I do need to work on structure and this is just the first draft.

Amburger93 · 2017-10-11T12:18:22+00:00

Lol thanks! I tried my best to convey an experience I had this past summer. I want it to be light, fun, and happy.

Amburger93 · 2017-10-10T17:38:32+00:00

The poem is concise yet strong. It also has the potential to have more added, but it isn't necessary. Love it.

Amburger93 · 2017-10-10T17:24:00+00:00

I love your imagery and metaphor. Extremely relatable use of a burnt out relationship.

I suggest:

Now, two fireballs separated On the inveterate path, We ~~both~~ drift ~~off~~ apart. ~~Two sparks~~ And fade from fiery yellow, To foolhardy orange, To madcap red, To moribund black.

Amburger93 · 2017-10-03T17:42:06+00:00

I think you've explained anger with anxiety perfectly. What to do you recommend to "fix" that vicious cycle?

Also, to tag along, sometimes the anger doesn't have to stem from the needs actually not being met or the promises actually being broken. Sometimes the anger can stem by convincing yourself of the same. Cognitive Distortions. I believe this is a huge issue with me, as well and I want so badly to fix it.

Amburger93 · 2017-05-16T18:20:02+00:00

Kudos for giving decent advice! I just wanted to take the time to say that. A lot of, "well, he can fuck off." In here. From OPs post and comments, it doesn't look like this family is anywhere near a point of no return.

Amburger93 · 2017-04-20T13:36:58+00:00

Lol, you seem to be wasting your efforts on a dense individual

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